5 sorprendenti benefici dell'essere rifiutati dall'uomo che vi piace

Se vi dico di mettervi in gioco e di esporvi al rifiuto perché ha numerosi vantaggi di cui non sapete nulla, probabilmente mi darete del pazzo.

However, I assure you that you’ll change your mind after reading the following benefits of getting rejected by the man you like.

You’ll see it’s not the worst thing that can happen

Let’s face it–none of us enjoys being rejected because nobody can be indifferent to the fact that the person they like simply doesn’t like them back.

Besides this realization being painful, it also hurts your ego and makes you wonder why you can’t be enough.

La verità è che tutte le nostre paure sembrano molto più grandi finché non si avverano.

So, once you get rejected and once the initial shock passes, you’ll see that this is actually not the worst case scenario.

You’ll understand that everyone has the right to tell you “no” and see that this happening to you is not a disaster.

You’ll realize that this is all a part of life and that you’ll survive this heartbreak, the same way you’ll survive everything else.

Vi risparmierà un sacco di analisi

L'aspetto migliore di un rifiuto sta nel fatto che vi aiuta a capire a che punto siete.

Non c'è bisogno di pensare troppo e di spaccarsi la testa per capire se questo ragazzo è interessato a voi o meno.

You won’t waste endless sleepless nights, trying to get to the bottom of his intentions, doing your best to figure out his behavior, and decrypting his words and texts in vain.

Non ci sono segnali contrastanti, né giochi mentali, né illusioni.

To put things honestly, a man who tells you “no” right away is much more fair than a douchebag who is stringing you along and giving you false hope.

Sarà una nuova esperienza

Ogni piccola cosa che accade nella vostra vita è una nuova lezione per voi, anche se è doloroso e duro.

Anche questo rifiuto è un'esperienza preziosa da apprezzare.

It will help you get to know yourself in an entirely new situation, and it will help you see that you can successfully handle some things you thought you couldn’t take.

I won’t lie to you–this probably won’t be the last time someone you like rejects you, so it will also prepare you for the potential future.

You see, the next time something like this happens, you won’t see it as the end of the world and as something to knock you down.

Instead, you’ll accept it as a perfectly normal event and move on with your life the way you should.

Sarete orgogliosi di voi stessi

Trust me–it is always worse to deal with all the “what ifs” then to face a defeat.

Instead of being sorry for the fact that you gave it a shot with someone and something that clearly didn’t have a chance of working out, you should be proud of your courage and of having had enough bravery to try.

Almeno sapete di aver seguito i vostri desideri e di aver fatto esattamente ciò che il vostro cuore vi diceva di fare.

You didn’t chicken out and maybe miss an opportunity out of fear–your conscience is clear because you know you gave your best.

Si apre uno spazio per Mr. Right

One thing is more than obvious: this man we’re talking about was wrong for you.

He clearly wasn’t your destiny, and that is something you have to accept.

Ricordate: tutto accade per una ragione.

Even if he agreed to be with you, it is a fact that he doesn’t care for you enough and maybe Dio ti ha salvato davvero from a life of misery when He didn’t allow you to be with this guy.

So instead of seeing it as a loss, see it as a gain because maybe the reason this Mr. Wrong didn’t become a part of your life is to clear the path for your future Mr. Right.

Il fatto che lui ti abbia rifiutato ha aperto uno spazio e ha dato la possibilità alla tua anima gemella di incrociarti.

È un aspetto su cui dovreste concentrarvi, invece di guardarvi alle spalle.