6 segni che ti sta solo prendendo in giro

Quando si è all'inizio di una relazione, si spera sempre che si trasformi in qualcosa di speciale.

But, sadly, that can’t be true when you run into the wrong guy whose only intention is to lead you on.

This guy won’t be honest enough with you to tell you that he doesn’t want anything serious right from the start.

Invece, cercherà di tenervi con sé finché ne avrà bisogno, senza mai impegnarsi completamente con voi.

If you are in a situation where you can’t be sure of a guy’s intentions for you, here are 6 signs he is just leading you on.

He doesn’t want to label things

One of the first signs that a guy is just leading you on and that he doesn’t plan on having anything serious with you is that he doesn’t want to put a label sulla vostra relazione.

You keep telling yourself that labeling things doesn’t have to mean anything and that there are other more important things between a couple but deep down, you want him to commit.

Volete l'esclusività perché state uscendo solo con lui, ma non siete sicure che lui faccia lo stesso e questo vi fa sentire insicure.

He doesn’t talk about the future

Quando un ragazzo ti prende sul serio, ha dei progetti futuri seri che includono anche te.

But when a man is just leading you on, he will never talk to you about the future. At the same time, he won’t be honest and he will never tell you not to get your hopes up.

Instead, he will be ambiguous, telling you that time will reveal everything and that he doesn’t want to rush things.

He is doing this only to keep you around, and he doesn’t plan on staying with you for much longer. But he knows that he can’t tell you this because it would chase you away for good.

Non è interessato a voi

One of the signs that a guy doesn’t want anything serious with you is the lack of interest he shows about your life.

You clearly see that he doesn’t listen to you when you talk and that he doesn’t take you seriously.

This guy is uncomfortable around your friends and family and he doesn’t know basic details about you.

It’s about time you smettere di giustificarlo, by telling yourself that he is just reckless and that it is in every man’s nature to be disinterested.

But please don’t let him fool you—when a man truly loves you, he’ll put in the effort to remember every little thing about you.

He doesn’t include you in his life

It is not just that this guy doesn’t want to become a part of your life, he doesn’t include you in his either.

Non parla mai delle cose importanti per lui, non sapete quasi nulla del suo lavoro e non vi chiede mai di uscire con il suo gruppo di amici.

As a matter of fact, he never introduces you to anyone important to him and you’ve started wondering if anyone in his life even knows about your existence.

This clearly shows that this guy doesn’t think of your relationship as important enough to let you become a part of his life.

Trova scuse

When a man is leading you on, he doesn’t love you enough and never will but he doesn’t want you to know it.

He wants you to stay hooked on him, so he’ll do anything in his power to avoid any kind of responsibility for his behavior and he will justify his actions.

Questo ragazzo troverà sempre delle scuse per il modo in cui vi tratta e nulla sarà mai colpa sua.

Ma prima di iniziare a credergli, dovete ricordare che dove c'è una volontà, c'è una via.

Fa giochi mentali

Quando vi mettete con un ragazzo che vuole solo illudervi, farà con voi giochi mentali caldi e freddi.

With him, you’ll never know where you stand and what he actually feels for you.

He will never be sincere with you and tell you he doesn’t love you enough and that he doesn’t plan on being with you. Instead, he will ask you to wait for him and that he needs more time.

There will be days when he’ll give you his full attention and then there will be weeks without him even contacting you.

And in those periods where he is nowhere to be found, when you feel like you are just about to get over him, he’ll come back into your life as if nothing has happened.