7 VERI segni che non sei nient'altro che un'avventura

Sei una ragazza di contorno o il vero affare?

Sadly, most girls nowadays don’t get when they are being played. They don’t get they are just a one-time thing and nothing more. And who can blame them?

Guys aren’t being honest and they have become pretty good at leading women on.

Only after a certain amount of time, when a woman becomes serious about him and their relationship, the truth comes out—per lui eri solo un'avventura!

Per evitare di recitare sempre un ruolo di contorno e per salire sotto i riflettori una volta tanto, fate attenzione ai seguenti segnali che vi fanno capire che per lui siete solo un'avventura.

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And he knows it little too well—he plays for the Big Leagues. Somehow, you end up doing exactly what he wants.

You can even find out he’s married and of course, you want to break things off—but somehow, you are still in.

That’s how he works his magic!

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Si trasforma in una cosa sessuale. Questo è un problema di molti uomini sposati.

They can’t look at their wives as sexual and kinky human beings.

Sometimes, men have that insatiable, dirty, sexual desire which they need to use up and they can’t do it with their wives—so they look for a one-time thing.

Non ti ha mai presentato ai suoi amici

And he never will. He knows you are just a short time thing so he doesn’t even bother to make you part of his life.

If he was really into you, he would show you off and he would be proud for having you as his girlfriend—but he’s not.

His plans don’t include you

Fate un passo indietro e cercate di pensare al vostro futuro. Lui ne fa parte?

Forse per voi lo è, ma lo avete mai sentito fare progetti futuri che includano anche voi?

If you are just a fling to him, you probably didn’t. This only shows you that he isn’t planning on sticking around for much longer.

Evita di baciare e abbracciare in pubblico

This can mean two things—maybe he is married or he’s just an ordinary classic example of a douche who is playing you.

Affection doesn’t pick place or time—if he truly cares about you, he would show it anytime and anywhere.

He won’t text you back immediately

Si può fissare il telefono in attesa per giorni, ma niente. Il bip speranzoso del telefono non si sente da nessuna parte.

Of course, you won’t admit to yourself that you mean literally nothing to him, so you start making excuses for his behavior.

But I’ve got a newsflash for you—he couldn’t care less that his purposely ignoring you is making you stay awake at night.

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Nasconde il telefono

This is probably because he has tons of girls’ numbers in it—girls who are just like you—naive for thinking they are the only ones in his life.

He probably has their photos, too, because these kinds of guys won’t miss a chance to brag about their ‘accomplishments’ to their friends.

In ogni caso, non avrete mai accesso al suo telefono. E se è un vero professionista, non vedrete mai il suo telefono.

These guys are just the way they are and the best thing is just to stay away from them and avoid your heart being broken—because it will be at some point.

Don’t fool yourselves into thinking that you will change him—you won’t.