Se la respingi, non chiederti dove sia andata a finire

Her heart is huge and her love for you is tremendous. You keep pushing her further and further away. You think she’ll be there when you decide you need her. She won’t.

Non importa quante volte deciderà di scegliere te, se non la sceglierai la scaccerai. She won’t stand for that.

She doesn’t have a place in her heart for people who decide to care for her only when it’s convenient for them.

She won’t be able to put up with you having time for her when you feel like it and then choosing to ignore her when she’s not the best option for you.

She simply won’t stand sharing all of herself with you and you running from her like she’s the one doing something wrong.

Potreste pensare che tornerà da voi, non importa quanto duramente la allontanerete.

You might believe that she’ll be right there where you left her when you suddenly feel like being with her again. Trust me, she won’t.

You’ll wonder what happened. You’ll think, at first, that she changed and did something so that the two of you drifted apart.

That’s not true and you know it. Day by day, you did things that not even her could ignore. She left you to protect herself.

She didn’t change. She simply decided she no longer wanted to deal with you.

Ha cercato di aggrapparsi a te con tutto se stessa. Ti ha dato il beneficio del dubbio e ha continuato a pensare che una volta abbattuti i tuoi muri tutto sarebbe stato perfetto.

Giorno dopo giorno, le avete dimostrato quanto avesse sbagliato a provarci. Era fedele a te e tu l'hai resa così stufa di tutto che ha scelto di andarsene.

Ti sei mai fermato a pensare a come le cose che fai si ripercuotono su di lei?

Il fatto di non sapere quale fosse la sua posizione nella vostra vita la rendeva ogni giorno più insensibile.

È stata una lenta morte emotiva: più si aggrappava a te, più si sentiva indifferente.

Some day, out of the blue, you’ll send her a message. That day she’ll finally have the strength to ignore it. You pushing her away has made her so much stronger.

You didn’t call her – she understood. You didn’t text her – she understood. You made no place for her in your life – she understood.

Now she’s moved on and wants nothing to do with you and you need to understand that.

If you’re still with her and starting to become aware of how little time you have left, know this:

Non importa quanto vi ami e non importa quanto coraggio e forza le servano per allontanarsi da voi, lo farà comunque.

Solo perché il suo cuore è grande e lei ti ha perdonato in passato doesn’t mean she’ll be there forever no matter how you act towards her.

If you continue to push her a bit further each day, one day she’ll be gone.

Don’t accept her running to you whenever you need her and then ensure you are nowhere to be found if she needs you.

Don’t let her spend sleepless nights taking care of you and nurturing you when you’re feeling low and then disappear when she’s the one who needs healing.

Don’t talk to her when you feel like it and then ignore her when something more fun happens in your life, with the expectation that she’ll reappear whenever you want her to.

If you pushed her away once and she came back, you should know to appreciate this. It’s rare for anyone to do that, no matter the amount of love they feel for you.

Afferratela e non lasciatela mai più andare. Mostrate il vostro apprezzamento e la vostra attenzione. She might just be the only one who’ll come back for you.

She’s a keeper. Make sure you’re the one to keep her.