Alla ragazza che sta ancora cercando il suo grande amore

I was once you. I was disappointed in men because my heartbreaks taught me not to trust anyone. I temporarily satisfied myself with small loves because I didn’t believe that I’d ever experience the big one.

Avevo quasi rinunciato a cercare il mio grande amore, ma la voce nella mia testa mi diceva che ero una sciocca. Ero una sciocca se avevo intenzione di sprecare il mio tempo con dei quasi amanti.

Le persone mi dicevano che il grande amore non esisteva. Credevano che esistesse solo un concetto di amore universale.

I kept on being stubborn because I believed in an old-fashioned love with all of my heart. I kept on searching until it found me. No matter what they told me, I never stopped expecting big love and you shouldn’t either.

Don’t let them tell you what to believe.

You know yourself. You know what type of person you are and you shouldn’t let them tell you what to expect from life.

If you want an old-fashioned love, where he kisses your forehead, holds your hand and watches the stars with you—wait for it. Don’t let them tell you that it doesn’t exist.

Perché è così. Credete nei vostri sogni e desideri perché solo se ci credete, accadrà. Aspettatevi un grande amore con tutto il cuore e, allo stesso tempo, siate pazienti.

E arriverà. Il grande amore vi troverà quando meno ve lo aspettate e, una volta trovato, resterà.

Lotta per i tuoi sogni.

If you don’t fight for what you believe, you cannot expect it to happen. Whatever they tell you, tell them that they’re not right.

Don’t settle for something that doesn’t make you happy only to prove to them you can. Don’t do that. Fight for your dreams of big love proudly and persistently.

Daydream about the man who will make you feel like you’ve belonged to him this whole time. Enjoy the feeling of being one with him.

Before you go to sleep, pray for patience and understanding. Do never stop dreaming about big love even when you’re wide awake.

Rimanere single finché non arriva il grande amore.

Don’t ever let them feel like you have to validate yourself for being single. If you don’t enjoy small love, stay single until the big one comes.

Enjoy spending time with your favorite people, find some weird hobbies that will fulfill you, travel the most deserted roads, live life to the fullest—find yourself. Feel free to go wild from time to time, if it’s going to make you feel better.

Whatever you do, don’t find temporary satisfaction in one-sided, lustful romances. Wait for the big love to find you because it will. Big love will find you when you’ve found yourself.

Il grande amore arriverà quando vi innamorerete prima di tutto di voi stessi.

Big love will come when you forgive yourself for letting them hurt you and when you’re ready to open your heart. If you don’t go over past events, you will never be able to open your heart again.

Accettate il vostro passato, vivete il presente e accettate il futuro. Accettate la bellezza del grande amore che sta per arrivare.

And don’t forget to love yourself. While searching for big love, don’t let the waiting make you impatient or to think that you’re not worthy of it.

God knows you are. Love yourself like you’d want them to love you. Believe in yourself.

Aspettare un amore che si fida, che ama, che rimane.

Don’t apologize for wanting love that is selfless. Wait for someone you will trust, for someone who will cherish and nurture you, for someone who will stay.

Aspettate un amore che vi faccia credere che le cose migliori accadono inaspettatamente. Aprite la mente e il cuore e aspettate qualcuno che vi dimostri che i vostri sogni non sono una fantasia.

Aspettate l'amore che trasformerà la vostra realtà in un sogno. Che vi farà battere il cuore più forte.

Wait for someone with whom you’ll share your fears when life scares you.

Wait for someone with whom you’ll share joy when life awards you.

When big love finds you, you’ll never feel alone again and you’ll never have to search for it again because big love stays. When big love finds you, you’ll know you’ve won.