Come capire se piaci a una ragazza timida: 22 segni inconfutabili

Una delle domande più difficili che ogni ragazzo si è posto almeno una volta è Come capire se a una ragazza timida piace tu?

You’re perfectly aware that she is not similar to all those other women you had a chance to meet and that you can’t look for typical signs she is into you.

I bet you know exactly what I’m talking about. There’s this wonderful girl that you are cercando di fare colpo. She’s cute, elegant, but shy.

Before I say anything else, don’t talk to her before you’ve read QUESTO – it’ll make all the difference.

Her shyness attracts you even more because she’s never the center of attention, she keeps herself low-key and you find her interesting because of how mysterious she is. She’s not showing any obvious signs and that’s why you have no idea how to tell if a shy girl likes you or is just being friendly.

Well, I’ve got you covered. Here is a hack into her mind and a way to read through all of her signals.

To learn how to seduce this amazing woman – CLICCA QUI.

Come sapere se piaci a una ragazza timida?

Beh, anch'io sono timido e posso dirvi che i segnali che noi troviamo evidenti non sono altro che un comportamento abituale per voi.

We send so many signals to the men we like, but they simply don’t get across the way we think they will.

I segnali che inviamo you can make you even more confused than you were before, but we simply don’t know what else to do.

Sometimes it’s not even that hard to understand us, but you’re always surrounded by loud and confident girls and that makes us seem like a mystery.

But we’re not. We make it clear that we like you through our body language and those little signs that everyone simply ignores.

I will never make the first move and I won’t ever tell you directly that I like you, but I will do my best to let you know that I’m interested in you.

Ecco tutti i grandi segni di attrazione da parte di una ragazza timida:

Sorride intorno a te

Quando un donna sorride, it’s more attractive and she knows that. Also, looking at you makes her happy.

So the next time you go up to her and try to start a conversation and she smiles, know that she’s interested in you – a lot.

Whenever you’re in a group and when you talk, she’ll look at you with a smile on her face—she won’t even know that she’s doing it.

It makes her happy to see you and it’s not a mystery that women smile when they see something they like.

Vedi anche: 23 segni sicuri che piaci a un ragazzo timido (e 10 consigli per aiutarlo ad aprirsi)

Ride alle tue battute

Even if it’s just a giggle, ridere ad ogni tua battutaper quanto smielato sia, è un chiaro segno che piaci a una donna.

Per un ragazza timida who holds so much inside her, when you tell a joke, it’s the perfect time for her to let it out—even if it’s just in the way of a giggle.

Vuole assicurarsi che tu sappia che ti apprezza e che ti trova interessante.

Ti accorgi che ti guarda

Quando vi piace qualcuno, cercate di guardarlo il più spesso possibile.

Vi piace semplicemente ricordare ogni mossa, ogni volta che sorridono o ogni volta che vi guardano.

Ma with a shy girl, it’s a bit different because she’ll look at you every time she thinks that you’re not looking.

If your eyes do meet, she will, most probably, look away, trying to avoid your stare and she’ll look at the ground. When you’re wondering how to tell if a girl likes you, you might see this as a red flag that she isn’t interested in the next level.

Ma quando si tratta di una ragazza timida, questo è un segno rivelatore di attrazione.

To be honest, this is the right moment to approach her. She’ll be a bit lost, but it’ll be cute—especially because this way you’ll know for sure.

Arrossisce molto

Whenever you go to talk to her, she blushes. Sometimes it’s not even that obvious, it just looks like she has rosy cheeks naturally. How do you know that she’s really blushing?

Look at her when she doesn’t know you’re around and pay close attention to her cheeks.

Are they rosy now? If not, then come up to her and see what happens. If she blushes, you know what’s up.

She touches you ‘accidentally’

Probabilmente si tratta solo di un piccolo sfioramento della mano quando vi passa accanto.

She simply isn’t secure enough to come up to you and hug you or take your hand.

That’s why it’s easier for her to touch you ‘accidentally’. She wants to touch you and know how your skin feels.

When you’re talking in a group and she makes a move with her hand, touches you, and apologizes, it’s cute and she’ll think that you don’t know what’s happening – but you’re ready now.

Correlato: 8 segni inequivocabili che una donna vuole venire a letto con te ma cerca di nasconderlo

She doesn’t talk to you that much

La vedi parlare con tutti gli altri ragazzi, ma in qualche modo evita di parlare con te.

Don’t be insulted—it’s just that she’s too afraid she might say something wrong in front of you, so she thinks that it’s better to not say anything at all.

Don’t take it personally but rather go up to her and start a conversation yourself. She stays away from you because she doesn’t know what to say, so make it easier for the both of you and go up to her.

Gioca spesso con i suoi capelli

Playing with her hair or clothes is a clear indicator that she’s nervous.

If you notice that she’s going through her hair with her fingers or that she’s adjusting her clothes, she’s trying to make herself look prettier and make sure that everything is in its place.

Inoltre, potrebbe abbassare lo sguardo per vedere come sta e per assicurarsi che tutto sia a posto. Amico mio, tu le piaci molto.

Inizia a vestirsi meglio

Beh, è sempre stata bellissima, ma negli ultimi giorni si veste in modo più carino e i suoi vestiti sembrano complimentarsi ogni giorno di più con il suo corpo.

If you have noticed that she really does wear something that makes her look even more wonderful than she was before just right after you actually started to talk to her, then it’s a clear sign she likes you.

La si incontra molto spesso

It’s not creepy, let me just tell you this. She just wants to be around you very often.

If you start seeing her in places where you go almost every day, but you haven’t seen her there before, then it’s a clear sign she likes you.

She’ll go to all the places you mentioned and she’ll go everywhere where she might bump into you.

Le piacciono i tuoi post

Ogni volta che postate qualcosa, a lei piace. Oggi su Facebook e sugli altri social media alla gente piace tutto, ma guardate se le piace ogni vostro post.

Every song you share, every new profile picture, every new status you make (even if it’s about something stupid). If she likes all your posts, she obviously likes you, too.

Inizia a frequentare i vostri amici

In qualche modo entra a far parte del vostro gruppo di amici. Potrebbe persino diventare molto amica di loro.

She doesn’t talk much and she doesn’t call them too often, but she’s somehow always there.

Perché lo fa? Ovviamente, vuole stare di più con te e vuole avvicinarsi a te e ai tuoi amici, per sapere cosa ti piace fare e come ti comporti con le persone.

Le sue amiche ridacchiano quando passi

When you walk by her and her friends, you can hear them giggling. It might be uncomfortable, but it’s a clear sign she likes you.

She won’t tell everyone that she’s interested in you. The only people with whom she would talk about it are her close friends because she knows that they won’t tell you anything and embarrass her.

But giggling while thinking that you don’t know why is acceptable

Potrebbe iniziare a truccarsi

To you, it might be completely unnecessary, but to her, it’s something very important because it helps to boost her confidence.

Il trucco rende ogni donna più agguerrita e lo usa a proprio vantaggio. Naturalmente, non tutte le ragazze timide lo faranno.

Alcune si truccano sempre. Altre si sentono abbastanza sicure di sé da andare in giro senza.

It depends on the girl. But if she didn’t wear it until you came into her life, then there’s a good chance it’s because she likes you.

Chiede di aiutarla

If you’re wondering how to tell if a shy girl likes you, pay close attention if she’ll go out of her way to help you. It’s probably something small like your homework or to pick you up if you don’t have a car.

But those things are very meaningful. Women are known to pay attention to the little things while men don’t pay attention to them at all. We love to be useful to you because that makes us feel special.

You chose us and it’s the biggest sign of appreciation you can give us.

But don’t be fooled, we know the line between being helpful and being taken advantage of.

Texting doesn’t stop

Because of the fact that she’s too shy to talk to you face-to-face, she turns to texting.

You can’t see her blushing or screaming into the pillow when you text back, so it’s much easier for her to show you that she’s interested.

Pay attention if the texts intensify and then just stop because she’s trying to see if you’ll start a conversation when she stops texting.

She likes you very much and she doesn’t want to be a burden, so show her you’re interested, too, and mandarle il primo sms.

Suddenly she’s much more interested in your passions

Quando le parli dei tuoi gruppi preferiti, il giorno dopo viene a dirti che ha ascoltato tutti gli album e ha visto tutti i loro concerti su Youtube.

Well, isn’t it obvious? Let me guess—you told her that you like football and the next day you saw her at a game.

I don’t think that there’s anything left to say. She likes you—she likes you a lot.

Ti stuzzica

Questo accade quando si sente a suo agio con te. Inizia a stuzzicarti.

Avete presente quando eravate bambini e una ragazza vi piaceva così tanto da prenderla in giro?

Well, it might seem very childish, but she simply doesn’t know how to communicate better, so she turns to teasing.

She doesn’t want to insult you, of course, but she might get carried away. Don’t get mad and instead, just stuzzicarle la schiena.

Ti fa dei piccoli complimenti

Quando si ha la possibilità di chiedere a un donna sul flirtProbabilmente vi dirà che le donne amano complimentarsi con gli uomini in modo sottile.

Why? Well, it’s because we know that you love to be complimented and also it makes you see that we notice the little things.

The shy girl you like will never compliment something obvious, like your muscles, but rather tell you how she likes the spark in your eyes when you smile. It’s something small but still something meaningful.

Sporgersi verso di voi

Questo è un segno sottile che fa involontariamente. Quando ci piace qualcuno, ci avviciniamo a lui e facciamo del nostro meglio per stabilire un qualche tipo di contatto fisico.

Not just women but men, too. That’s why it’s very important to look at her body language while she’s talking to you.

Siete seduti ai lati opposti del tavolo? Lei si sporge verso di voi? Se lo fa, è molto probabile che tu le piaccia.

Piedi che puntano verso di voi

Anche in questo caso ci si affida alla scienza del linguaggio del corpo. Ci sono persone che hanno dedicato la loro vita a imparare a leggere il linguaggio del corpo degli altri. Hanno scoperto che incliniamo i piedi verso le persone che ci piacciono.

If you are sitting at a table with a group of people and even if she is looking away from you, you can look at her feet and see if they’re pointing towards you.

Forte connessione

She doesn’t talk much so when she does speak with you, it’s probably about some argomento profondo that you wouldn’t have talked about with anyone else.

Shy people hate small-talk—they want to make every word count. That’s why when you come to talk to her, be prepared to have your mind blown to new horizons.

Believe me, if she didn’t like you, she wouldn’t bother talking to you. Just look how she acts around men that bother her.

She’s closed up. She avoids contatto visivo and she doesn’t even want to talk after saying, ‘Hi!’ But with you, it’s kind of different, isn’t it?

Evita di flirtare

Come capire se piaci a una ragazza? La prima cosa da controllare è il suo flirt. Se sfrutta ogni occasione per flirtare con voi, non c'è dubbio che sia pronta per il livello successivo.

But how to tell if a shy girl likes you? Well, she’ll avoid flirting at any cost. Confusing, I know.

It’s cute but bothersome, right? You keep on flirting with her but she clams up and there’s no way she can relax.

It looks like she doesn’t like it. But, if she didn’t like your flirting, she would probably say some sarcastic comment to make sure you know your place.

Because of the fact that she’s into you, she simply doesn’t know what to say back without making it sound awkward.

Come fa una ragazza timida a mostrare interesse?

Ogni coach di appuntamenti vi dirà che le due cose a cui dovreste prestare maggiore attenzione quando si tratta di questa ragazza sono lei linguaggio del corpo e il suo gioco di messaggi. Instead of telling you how crazy she is about you, this girl fidgets, gets tongue twisted, or starts sweating uncontrollably when you’re around.

Ma l'agitarsi e la sua evidente ansia non sono sufficienti per essere sicuri questa ragazza prova qualcosa per te. Un'altra cosa importante sono i messaggi che continui a ricevere da lei.

Usa molte emoji? Risponde in pochi secondi? È più che felice di mandarvi un messaggio a tarda notte, anche se ha una giornata importante davanti a sé?

Well, in that case, you don’t have to wonder how to know if a shy girl likes you over text no more- all the giveaway signs are right in front of you.

Cosa fa una ragazza timida se le piaci?

Ricordate che questo non è il ragazza sicura di sé who will ask you out in a coffee shop or a club. Instead, she will rather text you and for her, it will be like she’s made the first move.

The fact is that this girl won’t do anything specifically, no matter how crazy in love she might be with you. She’ll rather suffer in silence than taking over some initiative.

It’s non che questa ragazza stia facendo la difficile and wants you to chase her. She is giving you the hot potato simply because she can’t get herself to do anything about her feelings.

She is an introvert and you’ll just have to deal with it!

Che ne dici di chiederle se le piaci?

Why would you, right? It’s easier to search on the Internet for signs rather than asking her directly. It’s easier to analyze whether she’s testing yougioca con voi o è semplicemente amichevole.

It’s much easier to guess her feelings than to ask her about them. But maybe you are up for the challenge. So go ahead.

Lei ti manda tutti questi segnali che sono più confusi che altro e tu continui a scorrere articoli a caso e a pensare troppo al suo comportamento, quando potresti semplicemente chiederglielo.

The next time you see her, go ahead. What’s the worst that can happen? She rejects you? Don’t be silly. It’s not the end of the world.

Se ti rifiuta, spostati. Troverete qualcuno che vi amerà per quello che siete.

Just don’t keep on walking around her, trying to make her like you. I know that she seems insecure, but she’s not.

She knows what she wants and if it’s not you, then there’s nothing you can do to change that. It’s better for you to continue on without her than to keep on searching for the signs a shy girl likes you.

But if you’re still convinced she’s into youEcco una rapida panoramica di tutto ciò che dovete fare per capire se le piacete davvero:

Osservare il linguaggio del corpo

People spend their whole lives learning about this and they have turned it into art, so don’t take it for granted. Be prepared for the most random things to read out of il suo linguaggio del corpo. Ma mantenete una mente aperta mentre lo fate.

Don’t be in denial

If you are aware of the signs she doesn’t like you and you still continue flirting with her, it will just make it worse. It will make her feel uncomfortable and it will also make you look like a fool.

Avviare una conversazione

Vedete che la vostra cotta è troppo timida e che ha difficoltà ad avvicinarsi a voi in modo corretto.

That’s why you need to take the initiative. I don’t care whether you’re in high school, if questo è il tuo collegao semplicemente di una ragazza che avete conosciuto e di cui vi siete innamorati, fate pure!

Sei un uomo o no? Continua. Chiederle di uscire. Chiedetele le sue canzoni preferite e chiedetele dei suoi sentimenti.

She is shy, but she knows what she wants in life. This girl wants you. It might look weird. She’s probably playing with her hair and awkwardly talking about it, but she’ll still tell you.

She will tell you how long she’s been into you and about the first time you looked at her.

You will find out why and how much she likes you. There’s nothing bad that can happen.

How Do You Know If A Shy Girl Doesn’t Like You?

Ogni ragazza timida lo farà capire molto chiaramente quando she’s not interested. She won’t insult you or anything like that but she’ll definitely avoid your texts and calls, will refuse to meet up with you one-on-one, and will even talk to you about other guys.

What if she doesn’t like you? Is that the end of the world? Most certainly not. Look at things from a brighter perspective: at least you know what’s going on.

But if you’re afraid that she will reject you and want to play it safe, here some good signs a shy girl DOESN’T like you.

Trova scuse per tutto

Whenever you’re trying to talk to her she runs away. The difference here is that if a shy girl does like you, she’ll keep on talking to you no matter how uncomfortable she might feel.

But if she doesn’t, she’ll just walk away with some stupid excuse. It’s the same thing if you chiamarla per uscire con voi.

She isn’t avoiding you because she’s shy. She’s avoiding you because she doesn’t want to be around you.

People get these signs mixed up, but believe me, as a shy girl, I know what I’m talking about.

Sembra distratta

The thing with cute, shy girls is that they love when you talk about topics that you’re passionate about.

Ma se sembra annoiata e distratta, allora smettete. She’s not into you. If you need to repeat something too many times, she probably doesn’t want to hear what you’re saying.

Also, one common sign that someone isn’t interested in you is if they keep on scrolling their phone. You do it, too.

When you talk with someone you don’t like, you love your phone even more because it saves you from boredom. You text, scroll and completely avoid the conversation. If she does this when you’re around – she’s not interested.

It’s never you two alone

If she avoids being alone with you, it’s not because she’s too shy to talk to you.

Even a shy girl loves to have a bit of quality time with her crush. It’s when she can relax without the pressure of other people.

But if she simply doesn’t want to be around you when you two are alone, I think it’s very simple to guess what’s going on. Move on without her.

Vi presenta come un amico

L'enorme segno di essere intrappolati nella zona amicizia. She might be cute and shy, she might not even know that you’re interested in her, but the ‘This is my friend..’ line isn’t pleasant for anyone to hear.

Se lei vi presenta come la sua migliore amicasignifica che ti vede semplicemente come un amico. Oppure sta facendo dei giochi mentali?

RELATIVO: Cosa significa quando una ragazza ti chiama fratello? 10 possibili significati

Parla dell'uomo dei suoi sogni

If you get to the point where you’re talking about relationships and love and she starts talking about the man of her dreams, look for the signs that say you’re the one.

You know that she doesn’t feel anything for you when she wants you to know that. It’s the little things that matter.

Se dice che il suo uomo dei sogni doesn’t smoke and you have a pack of cigarettes in your pocket, well my friend – just give up.

Don’t try to change yourself for a woman. There will come a woman who will love you for who you are. If she doesn’t like you, it’s her choice. You can’t do anything about it.

Parla di altri uomini

It’s not just her dream man she is talking about? She talks about some friend of hers that she finds to be very attractive? Well, she doesn’t like you.

When a woman likes you, especially a shy woman, it’s all about making you feel special.

She wants to make you feel like you’re the only man for her. So why would she talk about other men in front of you unless she’s trying to make sure you see that there are much better men out there than you are?

She doesn’t accept your gifts

Le donne amano essere viziate. Naturalmente, alcune cose come la fedeltà e l'apprezzamento sono molto più importanti di altri regali.

Ma ci piace ancora quando ci regalate dei fiori, quando ci portate fuori a cena, ecc.

So why would we ever want to avoid receiving these kinds of gifts? Unless we don’t like you.

Sarà anche timida, ma sa che se esce con te or if she receives those flowers, it won’t stop, so she’ll kindly refuse to accept them.

Mi dispiace, ma il cartello è chiaro.

She doesn’t care about how she looks

Well, I know that there are a lot of women out there who simply don’t want to doll up to impress a man.

But still, the majority of women love to dress up properly to impress the man they like—or at least to look presentable.

If she’s constantly walking around in an oversized sweater whenever she’s with you and she never makes an effort to brush her hair, it’s not because she’s lazy. It’s a tactic designed to make her unattractive.

Parole finali:

Now that you’ve figured out how to tell if a shy girl likes you, it’s your move. There is no more doubt about her feelings and it’s about time you do something about it.

I’m just asking you one thing: don’t be fooled by this girl’s personality.

Le ragazze timide sono le più carine di tutte, ma non vanno mai sottovalutate. Sono donne agguerrite, forti e indipendenti che amare se stessi e che hanno la capacità di vedere oltre i vostri giochi.

Don’t play with herma siate onesti e lei vi amerà ancora di più.