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How to get laid… Isn’t that the question for the ages?
There’s no shame in trying to find a mind-blowing hookup and resorting to online dating, Tinder, and a million other dating sites and social media for some fun, casual sex.
Incontrare le donne nella vita reale e arrivare al primo appuntamento può essere un vero rompicapo!
Trust me, you’re not the only person who finds it a big deal and heavy task to flirt your way to a successful one-night stand (and maybe even more, who knows!)
A tutti piace il sesso. Punto.
Most women enjoy it even more than men. They just won’t say it in order to preserve that air of mystery and – let’s face it – most beautiful women love to play hard to get (and also leave you stuck in the friend zone), but with the right approach and slick pick-up lines, you’ll get your chance to woo just about any girl.
Luckily, women today aren’t as opposed to hookups as they once were, so getting lucky won’t be as big of an issue as you might think right now.
Far sì che le donne attraenti vi notino e vadano a casa con voi dipende da molti fattori.
I più importanti sono il linguaggio del corpo (il contatto visivo, la posizione e l'atmosfera che trasmettete) e la capacità di farli sentire bene in vostra compagnia se volete evitare le resistenze dell'ultimo minuto.
It’s important that you understand that not every single woman will respond to your efforts, no matter how hard you try, and that’s okay.
Non tutti devono essere interessati a voi. Trovate quelli con cui sentite un feeling e restate con loro.
Per diventare un maestro di seduzione, dovete sapere come approcciare le donne e lasciare una prima impressione forte e duratura che le spinga a entrare in contatto più intimo.
They need to see a real, confident man who knows what he wants but won’t pressure them into doing anything they’re not comfortable doing.
That’s key. Know your boundaries. If you sense any sort of resistance, leave. There’s plenty more fish in the sea.
The secret to getting laid isn’t in looking like a Greek god (doesn’t hurt though) or having a substantial bank account. It’s about the way you conduct yourself and how you treat the lady you’re interested in.
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Il modo più semplice per rimorchiare
The easiest way to get laid is to focus on the areas where you’re thriving. Forget about those annoying flaws (we ALL have them) and concentrate on the things you’re good at.
If you’re a master pick-up artist, focus on your smooth ways of charming the ladies that most men would be envious of. Step up your pomiciata bollente game. Stick to what you’re good at and be willing to improve in areas where you’re lacking.
And that’s where I come in.
As a girl, I’ve had my fair share of hookups, because like most girls, I enjoy maintaining a good sex life and don’t have a problem expressing myself sexually.
I’m open to trying new things and I don’t shy away from one-night stands!
Casual sex doesn’t frighten me and believe me when I tell you, there’s a whole sea of women who feel the same way. You just have to know how to find them and hook them.
We don’t fall for just any guy. As horny as we get, there are certain standards that we strive for.
You can’t expect to be an arrogant ass who feels entitled to a piece of ass just because he’s hot. That’s a major turn-off (boy, bye).
Bisogna prendersi cura di sé ed essere piacevoli da frequentare (igiene personale e comportamento in un certo modo).
Also, a big thing – women aren’t objects. As much as we like sex, we still demand respect and at least some type of effort.
There’s plenty more where that came from and you’re in luck because I’m about to rock your world by sharing some of the juiciest secrets that will never make you wonder how to get laid again!
But you have to be willing to cooperate, deal? Let’s get going.
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1. Cercare le donne giuste
First things first. Be aware that not every woman on this planet will be interested in what you have to offer (as is the case with all of us) and that’s perfectly normal.
You can’t charm every single person you set your eyes on because, frankly, you’re not going to be everyone’s cup of tea!
But that doesn’t matter really, because you’re going to learn how to spot the women who are actually interested in you (be that for a hookup or a serious relationship) and work on making it right with them.
There are so many beautiful women out there who are looking for the same thing you are, so don’t be discouraged.
If you notice that the girl you’re trying to woo just isn’t biting, stop making an effort where it isn’t appreciated and move on to the next girl.
This will be the type of girl who’ll be flirty, but not in an obvious way, just enough for you to see that she’s into you and that there’s a legit possibility to get laid.
She’ll be laughing at your jokes and subtly touching you while you’re talking, and leaning in every now and then. Observe those body language signs and don’t be oblivious to them.
Follow her lead and don’t be too pushy. If she’s into you, she’ll meet you halfway and you’ll be off to wherever the night takes you.
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2. Uscire dalla propria zona di comfort
If you want to know how to get laid, first you need to realize that your comfort zone won’t get you very far. Learn to step out and look at the big picture.
You’re so used to your ways of flirting and hanging around certain types of women, but where’s the fun in that?
Esplorate il territorio. Scoprite cos'altro c'è là fuori per arricchire la vostra vita sessuale e smettete finalmente di visitare tutti quei siti di incontri.
There are many attractive women you’ll meet in real life that you’d never think would be into you, but they’re actually what’s been missing from your life.
If you’ve only been going for the soft-spoken girls with a delicate demeanor, perhaps it’s time to see what’s on the other side of the spectrum.
Find yourself a real outspoken tigress who won’t mince her words and will rock your world in the bedroom.
Don’t be afraid to encounter women who know what they want and aren’t afraid to speak their minds.
They could be just what you need! Step away from what you’re comfortable with and test the waters.
Try your charms on all the girls you’ve been hesitant to approach. If nothing else, at least it’ll improve your self-confidence by a mile.
3. Affrontare i problemi
The only way to get laid is to be aware of your flaws and imperfections. When it comes to women, there isn’t a universal way to charm the hell out of them.
Each one responds to specific things and you need to learn how to recognize what will work and what won’t.
Learn where your weaknesses are. Once you do that, work on improving them. Don’t just bury your shit and hope it never resurfaces.
It will. It always does. You never know what might happen so it’s always best to be at the top of your game, with no fears of your hidden insecurities getting out.
Women have a sixth sense for these things. And you won’t get laid much if you can’t be upfront with yourself first.
Nessuna ragazza si arrenderà a un uomo che non ha gioco. Scegliete la via della prova e dell'errore. Mettetevi alla prova con donne a caso e migliorate ciò che va sistemato.
Be the best man you can be so that you can find the girl who’ll want to put out and actually go for round two.
Show yourself in the best possible light because otherwise you’ll never be seen for who you actually are, but rather just as someone who never reached his full potential. And that would just suck, wouldn’t it?
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4. Don’t Hit It And Quit It
Molti ragazzi hanno la tendenza a passare da una ragazza all'altra senza tener conto del fatto che da una ragazza potrebbero ottenere sesso regolare in modo più duraturo.
Girls have needs too. And if she’s visibly pleased with what you have to offer, then why not squeeze it (pun intended) for as long as you can?
If you want to know how to get laid, well, there’s your answer! Rimani con la ragazza who you can go to for regular hookups and have your fun with her for as long as one of you doesn’t try to make it into something more serious.
And if you realize that is something you’d be interested in, even better.
But don’t just go looking for new women every time you want to get laid, go call your regular girl for some fun casual sex.
She’s familiar, you know what she likes and she clearly enjoys it. You really get the best deal here.
Plus, isn’t it so much easier knowing you’ve got someone you can just call up and she’d be totally up for a one-night stand, and then you can simply go your separate ways, knowing that no one’s feelings will get hurt?
5. Apparire al meglio e avere un buon profumo
Non c'è bisogno di dirlo, ma se volete fare centro, dovete prendervi cura di voi stessi.
Nessuno vuole scopare con qualcuno che sembra essersi appena alzato e che ha un odore discutibile. Investite nel vostro aspetto fisico e curatevi.
You have no idea how much of a deal-breaker it is when you look like you don’t care about your appearance or how you actually smell.
That’s a major turn-off for ALL women. Make sure your hair looks nice, that your clothes are washed and shower before going out!
If there’s a chance of getting naked at some point, you most certainly want to smell nice or you’ll face some last-minute resistance.
Sarebbe solo imbarazzante per entrambi, quindi evitatelo a tutti i costi.
Girls talk. And if this gets out, good luck getting laid ever again. But I’m sure you take care of yourself, so don’t worry about it. Just keep at it and you’ll be fine.
6. Iniziare a uscire più spesso
Il modo migliore per rimorchiare è quello di darsi una possibilità concreta di farlo, frequentando bar con tante belle ragazze!
If you’re a total homebody, I’m sorry to tell you this, but you’ll have to get off your ass (that is if you do still want to get laid?)
Il mio più grande cruccio è la gente che si lamenta delle cose ma poi non fa nulla per cambiare la situazione. Come ci si può aspettare dei risultati se ci si rifiuta di fare uno sforzo?
Let that be your lesson. Go out as much as you can. Go to nightclubs, new openings, or local bars. That’s where all the single ladies are.
L'unico modo per conoscere ragazze e avere una possibilità di scopare è rimanere in gioco e farsi vedere.
There are so many men who complain about their less than ideal sex life, but they fail to see that by sitting on their couch and playing video games, they’re actively making sure to never get laid.
Quindi, uscite, fate del vostro meglio, impegnatevi e andate a segno!
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7. Capire cosa vogliono le donne
I know this is the million-dollar question. Who the hell knows anymore, right? Some like it one way, others like it completely differently, and you don’t even know what’s right anymore.
Women… Am I right?
But actually, it’s not that complicated. Just like men, all girls are unique and require attention and care. You can’t expect every girl to be the exact same person – that’s just weird.
I know it would be easy if they all liked the same thing in the same way so you’d never have to make much effort.
But that’s not how it works. You’ll meet a variety of beautiful women, each with their own little quirks, specific wants and needs, and likes and dislikes.
And it’s on you to respect it and act accordingly.
Learn to read women and understand what they’re looking for. Don’t get hooked on that one unattainable girl who’s all about commitment and keep expecting her to give out.
Observe them, see their reactions, read between the lines, and foresee which girl would be okay with what. It’s called being strategic and smart.
8. Don’t Be A Pretentious Prick
I don’t mean to sound harsh, but as a woman, I can tell you with utmost certainty that self-righteous pricks who feel entitled to every hot piece of ass they stumble upon are the biggest red flag to every girl out there.
A nessuno piace il signor presuntuoso (non è un gioco di parole). Non piace a nessuno un uomo che si rifiuta di lavorare per ottenere una cosa perché si sente in diritto di ottenerla sempre.
You could look like Ryan Gosling and have Ryan Reynolds’ sense of humor, but if you’re a prick, you can say goodbye to getting laid.
My advice is: Always be confident yet humble. Assertive yet never pushy. Go for what you want, but respect a girl’s wishes.
Girls fall for guys who don’t think that they’re all that. We can see through your BS.
Be down-to-earth and work for what you want. You’re likely to get laid if you can deal with the fact it’s not going to happen without a little bit of effort. Every girl deserves to be won over.
Put in the work and then you’ll have a much higher chance of scoring.
9. Lavorare sul proprio mestiere
In case it wasn’t obvious, I’m talking about sex. Simply put – get better at sex. If you want to have a good time, you have to be able to provide the same for the girl.
Essere bravi sotto le lenzuola è una cosa importante. Incontrare le donne significa avere molte occasioni per fare pratica.
And you know what they say: Practice makes perfect! Don’t be afraid to approach women. We’re way past that now. Sex is a vital part of life. We all do it and we all love it.
And if you’ve found a girl you vibe with and who actually wants nothing but a hookup, then great!
It gives you the ideal chance to perfect your craft! I’m not insinuating that you’re bad at sex or anything, how could I even know?
Ma quello che voglio dire è che non dovreste mai accontentarvi di un semplice "ok", se riuscite a farle perdere la testa.
Explore different things with different women. See what works and what doesn’t. Test your boundaries and your endurance.
By the time you meet the girl you see yourself with in the long haul, you’ll have become a master seducer with plenty of sexy tricks up his sleeve.
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10. Incontri online
And finally, if you’re not into the nightlife scene and meeting women that way seems daunting, then online dating is your saving grace.
I have to say, I’ve met so many awesome hookups through social media and online dating sites (such as Tinder) and it almost always led to texting and meeting up!
After confirming we were both two consenting adults looking for some casual fun, we’d agree on a place to do our thing!
And I can honestly say that I’ve rarely regretted turning to online dating. It spares you the pressure of having to leave the best first impression if you’re a shy person, and texting is so much easier than talking face-to-face if all you’re looking for is casual sex.
It serves as great practice as well because you learn how to talk to women and it’s not as daunting because you don’t ever have to actually meet them if you change your mind.
Most women turn to Tinder as well because it’s just easier, so why not give it a shot?
There are beautiful women literally everywhere. If you make sure to follow these steps and are willing to put in the work, it doesn’t matter if you choose online dating or doing it face-to-face.
It’s going to be a fun learning experience that’s going to help you get laid and become a true master seducer.
Parole finali
Scopare è un bisogno fondamentale che ogni uomo (e ogni donna) sente in molti momenti della propria vita. Il sesso è una necessità e un lusso.
There’s no shame in wanting it, but with that said, it’s also really vital that you realize that just because you want something, it doesn’t mean you’re entitled to it.
If you want to get laid, you’re going to have to work for it. These 10 steps will help you a great deal, but if your head is not in the game, you’re unlikely to experience any progress.
Don’t be scared of trying new things. That’s where the hidden joys are! The comfort zone never lets you push yourself to the extent of your abilities.
Stop being scared of what you haven’t even tried and simply go for it.
Avvicinatevi a quella donna assertiva e schietta con quegli splendidi capelli di fuoco e le labbra rosse. Provateci con quella misteriosa ed esotica ragazza del vostro bar che sembra timida e schizzinosa.
Don’t let your fear of the unknown stop you.
We’re talking about getting laid, not getting hitched!
Girls love sex. And the one you’ve been dreading to make a move on might just be the wildest hookup you’ll ever have.
What have you got to lose? Sure, it might suck being rejected, but in three days you’ll literally forget she ever existed.
So, stop beating around the bush and make a move. You’re not going to score by sitting and doing nothing. If you want to get laid, go and work your ass off for it!
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