Se non puoi amarla, ti farà sentire la sua mancanza

Quello che non riesci a vedere è che hai una ragazza straordinaria al tuo fianco. Una ragazza che vi ama nel momento peggiore e che è pronta a smuovere le montagne per il vostro bene.

Che hai avuto la fortuna di incontrare una ragazza che capita una volta nella vita.

Nevertheless, it’s like you are the only one who doesn’t notice it. Instead of being grateful for having someone as special as her, you take her for granted.

La tratti come una seconda sceltasenza mai darle il posto che merita.

I assume you think that this girl will stay in your life forever. That she’ll always put up with all of your crap and that there is nothing you could do for her to stop loving you.

Well, let me give you a piece of advice—think again because you couldn’t be more wrong. Anche se questa ragazza vi ama con tutto il suo cuore, fidatevi di una cosa—è abbastanza forte da allontanarsi da te e non voltarsi mai indietro.

Abbastanza forte da dirvi il suo ultimo addio e da lasciarvi nel passato, al vostro posto.

No, she won’t beg for your love or undivided attention. She won’t try hard to change you and to make you understand her true value. This girl won’t try to make you love her but she will definitely make you miss her.

Once she leaves you, that is when you’ll understand everything she’s been giving to you without getting anything in return.

That is when you’ll see how precious she actually was and that letting her go was the mistake of your life.

You’ll miss someone to love you the way she did. You’ll miss having someone to put your needs in front of their own, someone to take care of you and someone to look after you at all times.

Quando questa ragazza si allontana da te, you’ll even miss the parts of her you didn’t like – come era gelosa e come ti rimproverava sempre per le tue azioni.

Di come fosse difficile da gestire e di come tu pensassi che fosse difficile da amare.

You’ll miss all of her good morning and late-night double texts which annoyed the hell out of you. All of the times she fought with you just because she wanted to make a difference in your life.

All of the times she didn’t allow you to give up on yourself and all of the times she pushed you to your limits.

You’ll miss the way she cuddled and kissed you after sex, even though you pretended you never liked it. The way she was always grabbing your hand and hugging you in public, showing how proud she was to have you.

Once she leaves, you’ll miss having a girl who was your amante e il tuo migliore amico. Avere qualcuno a cui rivolgersi sempre, qualcuno su cui contare e su cui fare affidamento.

Qualcuno di cui potevi fidarti ciecamente e che non ti ha mai voltato le spalle.

You’ll miss having a girl who always patiently waited for you to come back when everyone else abandoned you.

A girl who saw something good in you and who never lost her faith that you’d become a better man.

Once she leaves, you’ll even miss her tiny insecurities and imperfections and you’ll regret not giving her the validation she needed.

You’ll regret ever comparing her to other girls because you’ll understand that she is one of a kind.

When you start missing her, tears will fill your eyes every time you hear a song on the radio that reminds you of her. You’ll get your heart broken all over again every time you hear a woman who laughs or looks just like her.

When that happens, you’ll try to look for her. You’ll expect her to show up at your doorstep, telling you that she missed you as well.

Every time an unknown number calls you, you’ll hope it’s her, trying to send you a signal, trying to remind you that she is still near you.

You’ll expect her to be right there where you left her—eagerly waiting for your great comeback. Nevertheless, she’ll be long gone and you won’t be able to do anything about it.