Cosa fare quando l'uomo dei Pesci si tira indietro: 9 modi per farlo tornare indietro
Con il vostro uomo dei Pesci era tutto (quasi) perfetto. Era emotivo, premuroso e romantico. Ma poi qualcosa è cambiato. Si è allontanato e ora non avete idea del perché e di come dovreste comportarvi.
Is he ignoring you on purpose? Did you do something that “motivated him” to back off? Is he playing games with you?
As you’re thinking about what to do when your Pisces man backs off, you feel like every second of doing nothing is taking him further away from you. Worry not, because today we’ll find answers to all your questions.
You’ll learn exactly what you should do when your Pisces man backs off, why he pulls away, how you can make him miss you like crazy, etc.
You’ll learn all you need to know to get him back!
Cosa fare quando l'uomo dei Pesci si tira indietro
You could sit and wait for things to unravel naturally or you could roll up your sleeves and enter action mode! If you’re unsure about what to do when your Pisces man pulls away, just use these tips:
1. Dare spazio a lui è d'obbligo
Pensate che prendere le distanze da un uomo dei Pesci sia una buona idea? Sicuramente lo è!
In effetti, quando il vostro uomo Pesci si allontana, dandogli spazio è d'obbligo. Inoltre, come Psicologia oggi suggests, you shouldn’t panic when your partner is pulling away.
Leaving a Pisces man alone will give him enough time to think about everything that’s going on between the two of you. It will also let him know that you’re not clingy or desperate.
He’ll see it this way: “Okay, she noticed that I pulled away and she respects that. Instead of blaming me, she gave me some space to sort out my feelings and I appreciate that.”
By giving him space, you’ll earn brownie points when it comes to getting him back on track.
2. Valutare il proprio comportamento
I vantaggi di dare spazio a un uomo sono innumerevoli. Uno di questi è avere abbastanza tempo per valutare il proprio comportamento.
Pensate agli ultimi giorni/settimane/mesi trascorsi con il vostro uomo Pesci. Inoltre, riflettete sulle seguenti domande:
• Were there any discussioni nella relazione?
• How was your overall behavior towards him?
• Did you miss something in your relationship?
You see, when someone pulls away from you (especially a Pisces man), their decision to do so doesn’t happen overnight. Per questo motivo è necessario riflettere sul proprio comportamento per capire se si è innescata la sua decisione di tacere.
Inoltre, riflettere sulla vostra relazione nel suo complesso vi darà la possibilità di capire quali sono gli aspetti da migliorare in futuro.
3. Ditegli come vi fa sentire il suo comportamento
Sometimes, we don’t see how our behavior is affecting others until they tell us. That’s exactly what you need to do with him. Ditegli apertamente e onestamente come vi fa sentire il suo comportamento..
Potete dirgli o mandargli un messaggio del genere:
“Hey, I don’t know why you decided to back off all of a sudden. This makes me feel distressed and confused because I don’t know what exactly is going on. It would help me a lot if you could talk to me about it.”
Given that Pisces are known for being emotional, I’m sure he won’t ignore your “request for clarification”.
4. Alleggerire il suo umore
Hmm… How can you lighten the mood of a Segno zodiacale Pesci? Facilmente. Ricordategli qualcosa di divertente che vi è successo molto tempo fa.
Tell him that you baked his favorite cake (even if it’s not his birthday). Send him a funny meme, joke, or something else that will make his day.
Impressionatelo con il vostro senso dell'umorismo. Ricordategli cosa l'ha attratto in primo luogo. As you can see, lightening his mood is not about wearing something hot. It’s more about tapping into his emotional side and helping him relax.
5. Evitare il gioco delle colpe
If you’re wondering how to get a Pisces man back, then there’s one thing you need to memorize ASAP: Avoid the blame game!
What does this mean? It means that you shouldn’t blame him for deciding to back off. Capisco che sia più facile a dirsi che a farsi, ma a volte bisogna scendere a compromessi.
Uno dei Le cose che un uomo dei Pesci trova attraenti è un approccio gentile. Ciò significa rispettare il suo bisogno di stare da solo ed evitare di forzarlo in qualsiasi cosa (soprattutto nelle conversazioni).
5. Avviare una comunicazione aperta e onesta con lui
As you may already know, there’s a thin line between forcing and initiating a conversation. Initiating means asking him whether he’s ready to talk to you about what’s going on in his head.
If he says that he’s still not ready to talk about it, then give him more alone-time. If he says that he’s ready for an open and honest conversation, then pawesome! (Abbracciare l'idioma del cane?).
Allow him to express himself and tell you everything that’s on his mind. Show understanding, ask him some questions if you need more clarification, and then tell him your side of the story.
As always, if there’s something you have difficulty agreeing on, just compromise.
6. Mostragli il tuo lato vulnerabile
Quando un uomo Pesci prende le distanze, l'ultima cosa da fare è rimproverarlo. Questo non farebbe che peggiorare le cose (parlo per esperienza).
Quello che dovete fare è mostrargli il vostro lato vulnerabile, perché questo lo aiuterà ad aprirsi con voi.. Essere emotivamente vulnerabili Lo farà sentire più a suo agio nell'esprimere i suoi sentimenti e nel dirvi cosa lo preoccupa.
Quindi, quando si conversa con lui, assicuratevi di aggiungere all'equazione anche la vostra vulnerabilità. Così facendo, il risultato positivo è garantito!
7. Fare qualcosa di romantico per lui solo perché
Even birds know that Pisces are hopeless romantics and that’s the love language they understand best. If you’re still thinking about what to do when your Pisces man backs off, here’s a hint: Do something romantic for him!
Mandategli uno di questi (per alcuni sdolcinati) romantic ‘thinking of you’ messages. Se pensate di mandarlo motivi per cui Ti amo won’t seem to him that you’re “overdoing it”, then do it.
There are multiple ways in which you can surprise him romantically. All you need to do is turn on your creativity. I’m sure you’ll make it!
8. Fagli desiderare la tua presenza
Here’s the ultimate guide on how to keep a Pisces man wanting you summarized in one sentence: Make him crave your presence.
If you send him 384849 texts and call him 38499 times, he surely won’t crave your presence. Instead, he will feel suffocated and disturbed because you’re not respecting his decision to pull away.
You’ll make him crave your presence by continuing vivere al meglio la propria vita CON o SENZA lui. Sfruttate quindi questa opportunità per postare alcune foto divertenti di voi e dei vostri amici che vivono avventure.
“Let him see what he’s lost” and he’ll be drawn to you. It’s just how we humans are wired and your Pisces man is no exception.
9. Dimostrargli quanto lo stimate e lo apprezzate
Oh no, you’re still thinking about what to do when your Pisces man backs off. Here’s my final tip for you: Value and appreciate him.
I know that this is probably the last thing you’d want to do but keep in mind that it might be the best thing you can do at the moment. Maybe he’s having some internal issues and he just needs some encouragement to feel better.
Complimentarsi con lui, and show him how much you value everything he did/does for you. Make him feel good about himself because maybe that’s exactly what he needs to “come to his senses”.
Perché gli uomini Pesci si tirano indietro?
One of the most common reasons why Pisces men back off is that they’re dealing with some unresolved issues. This could, but doesn’t have to be, connected with you. Here are all the possible reasons why Pisces men back off:
1. He’s dealing with some internal issues
Perhaps the reason why he suddenly decided to pull away is that he’s going through a challenging period regarding his personality. If he’s still struggling to find a purpose, chances are he won’t be ready for commitment.
It’s obvious that he needs some alone-time to work on himself. His internal issues are forcing him to back off every time you come closer to him. Just give him some space, and he’ll come back to you when he’s ready.
2. He feels like you’re being emotionally distant
Why do pisces distance themselves? I know you probably didn’t expect this one but it’s possible that you’re being emotionally distant and that’s what made him distance himself.
Many people who are emotionally unavailable aren’t even aware of that. Luckily, Pisces men have a special radar for such purposes.
Sanno istintivamente come riconoscere una donna emotivamente non disponibile. Prendono le distanze per proteggersi.
3. Siete stati possessivi e gelosi
If there’s one thing Pisces men are really “allergic to”, it’s possessiveness and jealousy. Se vi siete comportate così di recente, allora sapete perché il vostro uomo Pesci ha deciso di tirarsi indietro.
But don’t get me wrong. Gli uomini Pesci possono essere gelosi too, but they’re usually so good at hiding it. (Yes, that fact makes me envy them. ?)
4. He’s not sure about his feelings for you
When a Pisces man isn’t sure about his feelings for you, this will surely make him back off. He will feel a strong urge to “go silent mode” for some time.
E sì, andare a letto con un uomo dei Pesci troppo presto can only complicate things. If you know that your Pisces man is unsure of his feelings for you, don’t rush things.
Of course, you also shouldn’t allow him to play with you because che interferisce con i tuoi sentimenti è tutt'altro che divertente.
5. He thinks you’re playing games with him
Sometimes, Pisces men have difficulty understanding a woman’s desires, affection, and her overall behavior. Because of that, they start to think that she’s playing games with him.
Of course, in some cases they are right about. But, most often, they are not. If you know for sure that you didn’t play games with him, then explain to him that it’s only in his head.
Inoltre, si tenga presente che a volte un uomo dei Pesci ti mette alla prova to see whether you’re playing games with him. So, his decision to back off is actually a part of his test.
6. Avete perso la sua fiducia
Avete mai mentito al vostro uomo Pesci? Avete mai fatto qualcosa alle sue spalle?
Once you lose a Pisces man’s trust, it will be really hard to regain it. Firstly, he will most certainly back off to think about what he should do next.
If you’re thinking about what to do when a Pisces man backs off because you lost his trust, it’s time to help him overcome his problemi di fiducia.
If your actions caused him to lose trust, then explain to him that this won’t happen again. If he’s imagining things, then prove to him that there’s no reason to question anything.
7. You weren’t affectionate enough
Quando un uomo dei Pesci si innamorasi trasforma in un inguaribile romantico. Ti ricopre di affetto, ti scrive lettere d'amore, ti prepara il caffè al mattino, e così via.
He does all these things to make you feel special and loved. If you don’t reciprocate, he will most surely be disappointed in you. L'allontanamento è sicuramente uno dei segni che un uomo dei Pesci ha perso interesse.
If you know that you weren’t affectionate enough lately, know that this is the reason why he decided to distance himself. Well, now that you know the real reason, it’s time to make things right!
8. You don’t share the same goals
Do you and your Pisces man share the same goals or is there a huge gap between your goals and his? When you don’t share the same goals, a Pisces man will see this is a huge red flag.
Si allontanerà immediatamente e inizierà a cercare possibili soluzioni. Si prenderà anche un po' di tempo per valutare la vostra compatibilità generale.
Once he’s done with all that, you can expect him to contact you. If both you and him think that not sharing the same goals might be an issue, then it’s best to go your separate ways.
Tuttavia, se pensate che sia qualcosa su cui potete lavorare o che potete accettare, sentitevi liberi di seguire il vostro istinto.
9. He’s anxious about committing
Dato che gli uomini Pesci sono uno dei segni più emotivi dello zodiaco, questo potrebbe diventare un problema quando stanno per impegnarsi con qualcuno.
Se il vostro uomo Pesci è ansioso di impegnarsi, si tirerà indietro senza pensarci due volte. But you shouldn’t worry about it because he’s just taking some time to think about everything and evaluate his feelings for you.
In base alla mia esperienza personale, posso confermare che una delle più grandi segni che un uomo dei Pesci è interessato a te is if he’s being careful about commitment.
That means he’s thinking about giving you his body, heart, and soul. And he needs to be 100% sure that his decision is right.
Come scusarsi con un uomo dei Pesci?
If you’re “guilty” of hurting or disappointing a Pisces man one way or another, the first thing you need to do is say a simple “I’m sorry” and then explain the whole situation.
Assure him that you won’t repeat the same mistake again. Chiedete scusa come se lo pensaste davvero, e potete anche aggiungere un gesto romantico significativo all'equazione.
A Pisces man will appreciate your efforts and that is how he’ll know that you’re truly sorry. However, keep in mind that once you lose his trust, it will take some time to regain it.
Come fare in modo che un uomo dei Pesci senta la tua mancanza come un matto?
Per far sì che un uomo dei Pesci senta la vostra mancanza come un matto, dovete attingere al vostro lato romantico ed emotivo. Inviargli messaggi, lettere o poesie emozionali gli farà sciogliere il cuore.
Simply expressing your feelings to him will also make him miss you like crazy when you’re not there with him. I vostri gesti romantici devono urlare le seguenti cose: AFFETTO, IMPEGNO, GENUINITÀ.
Showing your emotional side will make him crazy about you because he’ll see that you belong to his crew. So, yes, that is how you’ll make him miss you like crazy!
Armatevi di pazienza!
Don’t worry too much about what to do when your pisces man backs off. But how should you do it? If your words and actions don’t come from the heart, your Pisces man will notice it.
Also, don’t forget to arm yourself with patience because it might take some time until you pull him back. As you’re in the process of pulling him back, don’t pressure him and don’t blame him.
Invece, dategli un po' di spazio e mostratevi comprensivi. Il vostro uomo Pesci lo apprezzerà più di ogni altra cosa. Buona fortuna!
