Credetegli quando mostra quanto poco gliene importa
La maggior parte di noi ha avuto relazioni tossiche nella propria vita. Sapete, quelle in cui dovete continuamente chiedervi se vi ama e se dovete perdonarlo o meno.
Relazioni di questo tipo sono il più delle volte destinate a fallire.
L'uomo ti tratta da schifo, ma tu continui a tornare da lui, sperando che ti faccia cambiamento e il circolo vizioso continua senza che nulla cambi davvero.
The thing about guys like that is this: if he is showing you he doesn’t care, that’s probably because he doesn’t.
Rispettate voi stessi abbastanza da allontanarvi da tutto ciò che vi fa mettere in discussione e dubitare regolarmente della vostra relazione.
Guys like that don’t have the balls to tell you to your face that they’ve lost interest in you, so they show it in various disastrous ways, hoping you will realize it for yourself and leave on your own.
In altre parole, rendetegli la vita più facile, ponendo fine alla sua storia.
Don’t delude yourself into thinking potrebbe ancora interessargli .
It sucks to hear it, but if he’s going out of his way to show you he doesn’t care – believe him!
He’s an asshole for it, but it doesn’t mean you have to put up with it.
If you see him slowly slipping away, don’t try and inseguimento him! He’ll just disappear even faster.
Guys like that don’t have the courage to face their problems, so they just run. But don’t run after him.
That’s not what he wants, and it definitely shouldn’t be what you want either! You know you deserve better.
Why would you want someone who clearly doesn’t give a crap about you and goes out of his way to show it?
Don’t give him the pleasure of keeping you wrapped around his finger. You know, only keeping you near when it suits him and disappearing whenever you need him in return.
Guess what? It’s obvious to everyone around you. Your friends probably see it, too, but they aren’t saying anything because they keep hoping you will see it for yourself
Chances are, your parents are probably aware of it also. If they’ve been around you two enough, they can see he’s making a sciocco da te.
They are probably hoping they don’t have to be the ones to break it to you.
You’re tired. You feel emotionally drained. You are so used to giving and giving that you have forgotten what it’s like to have the love reciprocated.
Please, don’t let your need for love overpower the shitty treatment you are receiving from him.
Ricordate questo: più siete disposti a sopportare le sue cazzate, più lui continuerà a darle.
It’s one thing to try and change his ways but it’s a whole another one to keep staying after countless ways he has shown you how little respect he has for you.
L'amore e le relazioni dovrebbero riguardare l'amore reciproco, il rispetto, il sostegno e l'essere presenti l'uno per l'altro.
Have you forgotten about that? When you start making excuses for him, just think of the ways in which I’m sure you’ve been treated right and how much you are sacrificing now.
Remember that you KNOW how it feels when it’s right. Now, it’s only a matter of leaving and never looking back.
Lascialo prima di abituarti a essere trattata come una merda. Prima di iniziare a pensare che questo sia un comportamento normale in una relazione e di accontentarti.
You know better than that. Leave, before it’s too late. Believe everything he is telling you with his shitty actions, instead of having the balls to say it to your face.
You don’t need a guy like that in your life. No one does.
So, the next time he shows you how little he cares – believe him! And run as fast as you can.
