Ecco perché non dovreste mai perdonare il suo culo traditore e pentito

Lo ha fatto anche con me. Ha avuto il coraggio di tradirmi e di andare a cercare qualcosa che già aveva ma che non apprezzava.

Doveva solo vedere cos'altro c'era là fuori. Doveva solo strapparmi il cuore. Quando ha finito, ha detto che gli dispiaceva.

Well…save it for someone who cares. Maybe he thought I’d never find out.

Maybe that’s why he was so brave and consistent in his persuasions that it isn’t true and that it’s not his fault.

First, he said it’s not true, and then he said it wasn’t his fault. What am I, a complete idiot?

You heard that story too, didn’t you?

Sì, dicono tutti le stesse frasi e hanno le stesse scuse. E la parte più divertente?

Si aspettano tutti che gli crediamo. Pensano di poterla fare franca con qualsiasi cosa.

Quindi, cosa succede dopo? Cosa farete dopo?

You’re not an emotionless robot, and you can’t switch off your feelings just like that. You can’t forget you ever loved him.

Dopo che la rabbia è passata, you’re going to miss him. Cosa farete allora?

I’ll tell you what I did. I fought with my demons.

Ho lottato con me stessa contro la mia solitudine che mi spingeva a tornare nelle mani di un traditore.

Ho lottato con tutte le mie forze contro la pressione di tornare dall'uomo che sapevo mi avrebbe ferito ancora una volta.

Quando torno indietro e penso al fatto che volevo davvero perdonarlo, mi sento male.

I really wanted to let it go and give him another chance—which I knew then and I know now—he didn’t deserve.

Don’t be like me. Don’t even think about forgiving him. His ‘I’m sorry; it was a mistake’ La scusa del culo zoppo è una bugia.

If you take a look at the sentence itself, it really doesn’t make any sense.

First, he’s not sorry. Maybe he’s sorry that he got caught, and second, was it really a mistake? Think about it.

Doveva prima conoscerla. Doveva avere una sorta di comunicazione prima di saltare nel suo letto.

So you see, it wasn’t a mistake. It was all carefully planned, and he knew from the start what he was doing.

Una cosa che è successa una volta può essere definita un errore, e una volta commesso, si sa che non si farà mai più la stessa cosa stupida.

But going to her place over and over again, kissing her so many times cannot be a mistake—it’s an intention.

What do you think…how many lies has he told you over time? Si può davvero credere a tutto ciò che dice?

Who knows for how long he’s been cheating on you and for how long he’s been telling you lies?

Dio solo sa se c'è stato un momento della vostra relazione in cui lui ti ha detto davvero la verità.

If you’re still thinking about forgiving him, just remember that every time era con un'altra persona, you weren’t in his mind.

Tu non ci sei andato vicino. Pensa solo a quanti sforzi ha fatto per conquistarla.

Pensate a quante attenzioni riceveva prima di andare a letto con lui.

And now ask yourself: didn’t you deserve that attention and that effort to be directed to you and not someone else?

Isn’t this alone more than enough reason to forget he exists?

Not only did he lie to you and sneek behind your back, but he also disrespected and diminished you by assuring her he doesn’t love you and that soon it will be over.

Presto ti lascerà per stare con lei perché non prova nulla per te In realtà, ha mentito anche a lei. Vi ha resi entrambi ridicoli.

If you’re still thinking about forgiving him, please stay with me….

If it really was a one-time thing, that’s still not an excuse. Just remember everything he had to do to keep you in the dark, to keep you clueless.

Pensate a quante bugie vi hanno raccontato per non farvi scoprire il suo sporco segreto. E se fosse stato ubriaco? E se fosse stata solo un'avventura di una notte? Era comunque una decisione.

È stato comunque qualcosa che ha scelto di fare nonostante la presenza di te nella sua vita. Ha deciso di farti del male in quel momento di ubriachezza.

Forse il fatto che fosse ubriaco lo rendeva ancora più facile da fare.

That one drunken night revealed who he really is and what he really wants—and that’s not you.

At the end of the day, there is still one thing I bet you’re dying to find out: why did he cheat, why?!

Cheaters can say they love you, but the truth is they don’t. In fact, many can say they love, but rarely any of them really do.

Words don’t mean anything; actions matter. Now, let’s take a step back.

He tells you he loves you. He says that he’s sorry, and he cheated on you. That’s two sentences against an action.

Tell me, what will win – an action or a statement? He cheated because he doesn’t respect you.

He doesn’t care about what is going to happen to you or whether it is going to hurt. That’s why he cheated.

Now…I dare you, give him a second chance.

This is it. I’ve told you everything I felt the need to say. Ultimately, the decision is up to you. I just want you to really think about your situation.

Do you truly want to be with someone who thought you weren’t interesting enough to be with?

Can you be in a relationship knowing he cheated—and you forgave him—and make it work anyway?

Ci si può fidare di lui?