Fare queste cose vi farà perdere la ragazza che è tutto ciò che avete sempre desiderato

Una donna unica nella vita. Una donna che vi ama più di quanto ami se stessa.

Una donna che sia sempre presente per te. Una donna che ti rispetti e che apprezzi tutto ciò che fai per lei.

È quella che rimane sempre sveglia fino a tardi solo per augurare la buonanotte.

È la vostra più grande cheerleader e il vostro più grande sostegno. Ti ispira a essere un uomo migliore. È colei che ha messo il tuo mondo sottosopra.

Maybe you are lucky and you already found her but if you haven’t, don’t be sad; be patient. She will come soon.

Quando finalmente la incontrerete, il vostro cuore se ne accorgerà all'istante. Poi, dovrete fare attenzione.

After all, you’ll only have one chance to meet your once-in-a-lifetime girl. She’ll be everything you ever hoped for and even more than that.

She is aware of her worth and if you don’t treat her the way she deserves, she won’t hesitate to leave. Don’t take that risk because you know that you’ll never find a woman like her again.

Ecco alcune cose che non dovete mai fare se volete tenerla per sempre al vostro fianco. Facendo queste cose la perderete.

If you take her for granted…

She is the only person in your life who doesn’t deserve this. Don’t take her or il suo amore per scontato.

Lei è lì solo perché ti ama, ma questo può cambiare e lei può capire che merita di più.

She’ll do everything she can just to make you happy but she can also get tired of trying so hard. She can get tired of you and your relationship.

Siate grati e mostrate il vostro apprezzamento per tutto ciò che fa.

If you don’t listen when she is talking…

Siete la persona di cui si fida di più.

She feels safe when she is around you and that’s why she opens up to you and maybe you are the only person in her life with whom she can talk about important things.

If you don’t listen to her, she’ll think that you aren’t interested in her life and she won’t open up to you anymore.

Volete davvero perdere queste conversazioni oneste (che sono alla base di ogni relazione sana, tra l'altro)?

If you lie to her…

There shouldn’t be lies in your relationship; even those little white lies aren’t allowed.

If she catches you lying, she’ll be afraid that you’ll do it again and she’ll never feel comfortable in your relationship again.

If you aren’t her protector…

Per quanto una donna sia forte, ha comunque bisogno di qualcuno più forte che le copra le spalle. La vostra dolce metà deve sentirsi sempre al sicuro, non solo quando vi è vicina.

Maybe she had some bad experiences. Show her that you won’t let anyone hurt her ever again.

If your woman understands that you don’t even try to protect her and what’s hers, she won’t have the same opinion about you anymore.

She won’t want a man with whom she doesn’t feel safe.

If you don’t make her smile anymore…

The most beautiful part of a relationship is being able to make someone smile and that shouldn’t be difficult.

Even one lousy joke can make her smile, just because it’s you who tried to make her smile.

Dopo tutto, vi siete innamorati per la prima volta del suo sorriso; ve lo ricordate?

If she sees that you don’t even bother to make her smile anymore, she’ll start to think that her happiness isn’t important to you anymore.

If you don’t respect her…

Mostrare rispetto per una ragazza che vi ha reso un uomo migliore è qualcosa che dovete fare.

Don’t swear or use filthy words when you are talking to her. She is a lady and you must show that you are a gentleman.

If you don’t show respect to her, her family or her friends, she’ll think that your intentions with her aren’t serious because you don’t care about the people who are important to her.

If you play games with her…

She wants a forever love and she doesn’t have time per aver giocato con voi. She won’t consider you as a serious man.

Pensa che giocare sia una dimostrazione di codardia e che quel tipo di persone siano le peggiori.

She won’t tolerate you being dishonest or indirect.

If you don’t want to commit…

You know that she is your soulmate and you shouldn’t be afraid to commit. It’s not scary, you won’t have to change your life; you’ll just get more obligations than you already have.

Vuole impegnarsi con voi. È determinata e sa bene cosa vuole.

She wants to spend the rest of her life with you and she can’t wait to start living with you.

If you stop showing her affection…

You don’t have to make some romantic gestures for her every day but it would be nice to surprise her with some little things from time to time.

Inviatele un mazzo di fiori sul posto di lavoro o preparatele una cena. Queste piccole cose la renderanno felice e le dimostreranno che ci tenete ancora a lei.

If you hide your emotions…

Don’t make her wonder whether you love her or not, say what you feel about her.

You’re not a strong person se si tiene tutto dentro. Non c'è niente di più attraente di un uomo che sia abbastanza forte da dire a una donna ciò che prova per lei.

After a while, if you aren’t honest about your feelings, she might think that you don’t like her.

If you are never up for adventures…

Le avventure fanno sempre bene alla vostra relazione e fare qualcosa di nuovo vi aiuterà a rinfrescarla.

If she proposes a new adventure, accept it; otherwise, she’ll think that your relationship is stuck in a rut and that will be the biggest reason for her leaving.

She doesn’t want to be with someone who is bored with her. She doesn’t want to be a burden for someone. If you don’t want to spend time with her, someone else would be more than happy to do so.

If you treat her like an option…

Ti ha dimostrato che sei la sua priorità, quindi come puoi trattarla come un'opzione?

Lei gioca il ruolo più importante nella vostra vita. È la vostra compagna di vita, una persona che starà con voi per sempre, quindi trattatela come se voleste che stesse con voi per sempre.

Your friends are important also but they aren’t as important as she is. Don’t cancel your plans with her just because they invite you out.

If you don’t stand behind your words…

Se si promette qualcosa, si deve mantenere la promessa.

For her, there is nothing worse than a man who doesn’t stand behind his words. She sees him as a coward and a liar.

If you give her an ultimatum…

Gli ultimatum non hanno assolutamente nulla a che fare con l'amore. Se la amate veramente, non le farete mai scegliere tra due cose.

She wants a healthy relationship and she knows that this is not a sign of one. She’ll want to go and she’ll leave you without any regrets.

If you don’t apologize when needed…

If you did something wrong, you must apologize and that’s it.

She’ll expect le tue scuse sincere so don’t disappoint her. Tell her how sorry you are and that you won’t do it ever again.

And really try not to do it as that’s the most important part of an honest apology.

It’s not difficult to keep a once-in-a-lifetime woman and if you don’t want to lose the woman of your life, try not to do these things.

Una ragazza così ama ogni parte di sé e sa quanto siano importanti l'amore e l'autostima per una relazione sana.

She won’t allow you to love her any less than she loves herself.

No matter how much she loves you, she can leave any second if you don’t treat her well.

Love is important to her but it’s not the most important part of a relationship.

Fiducia, rispetto e lealtà sono i tre ingredienti di una relazione sana. And that is everything she’ll ask of you to have a healthy relationship.

Whatever you do, you should remember that you’ll only meet a girl like this once in your life and you won’t get a second chance.

Don’t let her be ‘the one who got away’.