Fottiti per averle fatto credere di essere quella non amabile

A volte siamo tutti difficili da amare. Tutti abbiamo giornate buone e cattive e va bene così. Quello che non va bene è che tu la faccia sentire come quella non amabile.

It wasn’t OK to make her walk through life thinking she doesn’t deserve love because of who she is.

You didn’t know how to love her, so you blamed it on her. You couldn’t keep up with her, so you had to play the victim, and she had to be the damaged one.

The secret is, she is more than lovable—you just weren’t the one.

You say she had an attitude. She didn’t. She just didn’t want to let you dim her voice.

She wouldn’t keep quiet just because you needed her to shut up. If you were wrong, you ought to know you were wrong.

You say she made trouble out of nothing. She didn’t. Ha creato problemi quando tu facevi lo stronzo.

She wouldn’t tolerate your games nor did she allow you to make a fool out of her. It’s OK for you to go out with your friends—it’s not OK not to return her calls or ignore her texts for hours.

You say she was always busy. She wasn’t. Stava solo inseguendo i suoi sogni. Ha sempre avuto tempo per te.

She answered your calls, she texted back whenever you were the first one to text her, and she had the time to listen to your drama. It’s just that she devoted a lot of time to her career and that bugged you.

You wanted her to be dependable on you so you could run her life. That’s why you had the need to make her feel guilty for being so damn good in what she was doing.

You say she didn’t give you enough attention. She did. Era lei a organizzare le cene.

Era lei a scegliere il film da guardare e a tirarti sempre fuori di casa. Conosceva tutti i vostri gusti e le vostre antipatie.

She clicked with your friends and she had a solution for every single problem of yours. In case she didn’t, she was there to listen and take care of you.

Dici che era impossibile amarla. Forse per te.

Because you didn’t put enough effort in your relationship. She wasn’t lovable because you couldn’t handle her.

But she wasn’t unlovable. Era la persona più facile da amare. Voleva la vostra attenzione e la vostra comprensione.

Voleva che ti impegnassi di più e che la accettassi per quello che era. You didn’t need to change her. She was just fine the way she was.

Volevate adattarla ai vostri schemi. Ma sarebbe un vero peccato.

Because she’ll be loved by someone who knows how to love her. Along the way, she’ll meet somebody who won’t think the world spins around him.

She’ll find somebody who’ll make her feel like she’s the whole world to him. Fortunately for her, you are not that guy.

Perché, tra voi due, voi erano quelli non amabili.