Lei ha aspettato che tu mettessi insieme le tue cose, ma tu l'hai cacciata via

Pensavi che ti avrebbe aspettato mentre tu impiegavi il tuo prezioso tempo a sistemare le tue cose?

Sorry, but no. She’s got better things to do! Life is not a movie.

It’s not some romantic comedy in which the guy acts like a complete jerk the whole way through, and in the final 5 minutes he realizes what an asshole he was and wants to make amends.

E la cosa peggiore? La ragazza ci casca sempre. Beh, non questa ragazza!

She doesn’t have time to mettere in pausa la sua vita while you’re busy deciding whether or not she’s worth getting your act together.

She doesn’t have time to feel like she’s non sufficiente for you to act the way she deserves and mull over your options while she sits there, wondering if you’ll stay committed when you get it together and see how special she is.

You see, people eventually get tired of having to fix someone all the time. For a while, she’ll try. She’ll give you the benefit of the doubt and hope she doesn’t regret it.

But the minute you show her that her effort and her kindness are in vain, she’s out the door, and you’re never seeing her again.

She’s off finding somebody worthy of her time and her effort. She is nobody’s fool. She has a life which she no longer plans putting on hold all because of some asshole who can’t make up his mind.

Love only takes you so far, and now she’s had it. You only have yourself to blame for this. She gave you her best, and you wasted her time.

She has reached the point of no return. And when she decides that she’s done with you, she really means it.

By the time this gets through to you, she’ll be living her best life with somebody who knows how to value her.

Ora ha finalmente assaggiato com'è la vita senza di te. Ora vede cosa si è persa.

Ora, lei sa che non tutti gli uomini sono manipolatori e giochi . Ora vede che è possibile trovare un suo pari che la apprezzi e la ami.

Ora si rende conto di aver sprecato tanto tempo con un ragazzo che non si sarebbe mai impegnato.

Un uomo che la stava trattenendo, per poterla usare il più a lungo possibile, perché è un debole e un codardo.

But guess what? She’s not even mad! È grata che lei le abbia mostrato cosa non deve mai più sopportare.

Ora può apprezzare il vero tipo di romanticismo e non guardarsi più indietro.

Now, you can go on and list all the reasons why she should’ve stayed and how you are the best she’ll ever get.

But look at her now. You’re no longer a presence in her mind. You are a mere memory that has taught her a valuable and tough lesson.

Lei sta vivendo la sua vita migliore con una persona che la ricopre di amore, onestà e apprezzamento, mentre tu sei ancora quella triste, patetica scusa per un essere umano, bloccato nelle sue vecchie abitudini, che ricorre a giochi mentali e amarezza per ottenere ciò che si vuole.

But now, you see that it’s no longer working, and you’re left alone with no one willing to put up with your shit again. And she is out there without a care in the world.

Vince lei.

Sorry to disappoint, but nobody deserves to spend their life dealing with another person’s bullshit on a regular basis, trying to fix that person when he is unwilling to fix himself.

Nobody deserves the drama and pain that comes with being with you, all the while wondering if you’re going to choose her in the first place.

Now all that is behind her. She’s had it with your shady ways and shitty days.

And now, I’m guessing you’re slowly realizing what you’ve lost—a person who was willing to go to war for you, giving you her complete loyalty and dedication, until she realized it was no longer worth it.

L'hai lasciata andare. L'hai cacciata via.

Now, she’s living her happy, healthy life, while you’re dwelling in misery trying to convince yourself you didn’t need her anyway.

Buona fortuna, perché indovinate un po'? She really doesn’t care anymore.