Non mi serve un Superman, mi serve solo un uomo buono, fedele e coerente

Perché le relazioni sono così complicate? Why is it so hard to find someone who’ll see the real you and still choose to love you?

I truly don’t ask for too much. All I want is to find someone who’ll love me no matter what. Someone who could reciprocate my feelings.

Someone who’ll see all my weaknesses, all my imperfections, and flaws and still choose to love me every single day despite all of that.

Ho sempre cercato di essere la fidanzata perfetta. Una che non faceva mai domande e capiva sempre tutto.

Uno che era sempre pronto a perdonare e ad andare avanti facilmente. Una persona che amava senza limiti o condizioni.

Ho anche si sono accontentati di meno di I deserved so many times, convincing myself that it’d get better with time or sometimes even that I didn’t deserve more.

I’m done with that. I decided to change my tune. I had a deep and honest conversation with myself. I decided to put a stop to that kind of thinking because it was hurting me.

Also because I know I deserve it. I deserve a man who’ll prove that not all men are the same. I deserve a good and loyal man.

I deserve a man who’ll make me a priority all the time. A man who’ll love and cherish my family and friends as his own. Someone who’ll buy me flowers or say how much he loves me for no reason.

Qualcuno il cui unico obiettivo sarà quello di rendermi sempre felice.

The kind of guy who never looks at other women while he’s dating me. One who tells me that I’m the only woman in his life and his dreams. A man for whom one woman is enough.

You know the one who stands behind his own words and always keeps his promises? A guy who isn’t afraid to commit to me only, for the rest of his life.

I don’t need some expensive gifts every day. I don’t need someone who’ll solve all my problems for me.

I’m not looking for someone too special, someone who’ll have some special skills or be special in some way. For God’s sake, I didn’t ask for a superman. All I want is someone who’ll love me in a special way.

I only need true and pure love. I want to be spoiled with love a little bit. I want a man who’ll tell me that he loves me the most and really mean it.

Well, I know that searching for love shouldn’t be our only goal in life and I know how important it is to create a relationship with yourself first.

Ma mi ci è voluto molto tempo prima di mettere in pratica questa teoria.

The moment I decided to stop settling with less than I deserved was the moment I started building a healthier relationship with myself. That’s when I realized how important self-love is.

Finalmente ho visto il mio valore e ho iniziato ad apprezzarmi di più. Ho trovato tanti modi per rendermi felice. Il più importante, Ho imparato ad amare me stesso.

That doesn’t mean I don’t want someone special in my life, it just means that I am special too.

That’s why I decided that I’m going to wait. I’m sure that my soulmate is out there somewhere. I’m sure that there are still good and consistent men out there. I’m going to wait for him to find me.

If you are asking how I’ll know that Ho finalmente incontrato la mia anima gemellaLa risposta è semplice. Lui sarà tutto ciò che non ho mai avuto prima.

He won’t play games like my exes did. He will immediately prove he is a good guy, that I’m the only woman in his
mind and heart and that he isn’t going to give up until I’m completely his.

You see… I’m not asking for anything out of this world but a good, loyal and consistent man. It’s just what I deserve and I’m not settling for less.