Gli uomini innamorati si impegnano subito, tutto il resto sono cazzate

 

È ora di andare al sodo e dirvi la verità.

Non ha senso far sembrare le cose più belle di quanto non siano.

There is no point in trying to spare your feelings because even if I lie, you’re going to get hurt anyway.

So, here it goes…

A man who is in love with you and ready to commit won’t even wait for a second to tell you that.

Tutto il resto sono solo cazzate!

A man who is utterly and completely in love with you won’t make any excuses when it comes to your relationship.

A man who loves you won’t second guess his decisions.

The timing will be right and he won’t need some extra time to make a decision.

Un uomo PRONTO impegnarsi VOLONTÀ impegnarsi!

The truth everyone avoids to tell you because they don’t want to hurt your feelings is that if you don’t click at the beginning of the relationship and if there isn’t that special something that draws you closer to each other, there is no point in staying together.

Things won’t get better.

Your relationship won’t magically become the relationship of your dreams.

Quindi, tanto vale chiudere la faccenda il prima possibile per risparmiarsi la fatica e il tempo investito.

Dating a man who doesn’t know whether he wants you or not is a complete waste of time.

If he isn’t sure about you, then he doesn’t want you.

So che non è facile da accettare.

Who wants to admit it to themselves that the person they love doesn’t love them back? No one, of course.

La sensazione di essere indesiderati è l'ultima cosa che si vuole provare.

Sadly, that’s why we give ourselves false hope that he isn’t ready yet, he is a bit confused, or he has gone through a lot.

We’re ready to do everything other than admit the truth. Because frankly, la verità fa un male cane.

If you want me to be completely honest with you, the moment you catch yourself scrolling down articles looking for signs that you’re meant to be together, you can bury your relationship and call the time of death because… there is simply no point.  

When you are really meant to be, when the man you’re dating is all in, you won’t need any signs to confirm that.

Heck, it won’t even cross your mind to go look for signs because you’ll know you’re meant for each other.

La vita passa e, se posso aggiungere, molto velocemente.

I giorni diventano mesi e i mesi diventano anni.

Before you know it, you find yourself wondering how the hell time just flew by. Well, that’s the thing.

Do you really want to spend your time, your valuable time with someone who doesn’t have the balls to tell you if he’s in or he’s out?

I’m sorry, but life’s just too precious to waste it on idiots. I’m just saying…

While you’re wasting your time, there is someone out there who will really love you.

There is someone out there who is trying to get to you, but he can’t because you’re giving Mr. I Can’t Make Up My Mind yet another chance to disappoint you.

You know, a man in love won’t ask for any extra time to make up his mind about you.

Vi afferrerà e vi terrà stretti a sé.

He will be scared to lose you. He knows you’re his persona per sempre e solo un pazzo lascerebbe andare quella persona.

If you find yourself stuck in a relationship with a man who thinks of you as a ‘maybe’ and not a ‘definitely,’ think about what you’re losing and think about what you’re supposed to have.

Even if leaving him means that you’re going to be single for some time, or that you’re going to date a few assholes more, do it.

Good things don’t happen overnight. That’s where the patience kicks in.

I know you’re sick and tired of hearing about patience.

So che volete che arrivi subito e che la parte fiabesca della vostra vita inizi il prima possibile, ma vi assicuro che vale la pena aspettare le cose veramente belle.

You can’t look into the future.

There is no way you’ll ever find out what awaits you, but you can at least have a say in what goes on now.

Potete decidere il vostro destino prendendo una decisione su questo momento.

Le relazioni non sono semplici.

La natura umana è ancora più difficile da capire.

Life is fucking complicated, but at least, there is one sure thing: if he doesn’t want to commit, he doesn’t love you.

I don’t think you need anything else. Remember, his indecision is your decision.