La vita è troppo breve per innamorarsi di persone che non ti trattano bene

Haven’t you had enough? Haven’t you had enough of all those people who treat you the way they do?

Come se voi ci foste per sempre per loro, a prescindere da quanto si comportino male? Beh, lasciate che vi dica che la vita è troppo breve per queste persone.

Soprattutto se uno di loro è l'uomo con cui avete scelto di passare le vostre giornate.

Life is too short to fall for someone who doesn’t treat you the way you deserve. I know that this sounds like a cliché but isn’t it true?

You’re devoting your days to this person who’s only there to take advantage of you. He acts like he won’t ever lose you, like you’ll forever stay by his side.

Dimostrategli che deve pensarci due volte.

Trattare bene qualcuno significa rispettare i suoi limiti. Sapendo che voi e io siamo diversi quando si tratta di i nostri confini, you should also be aware of the fact that people don’t usually take them into consideration.

What about all those times he made you have sex with him even though you weren’t feeling too great? What about all those times he made you feel bad about saying ‘no’ to anything?

Sono state tutte le volte in cui ha oltrepassato i tuoi limiti, credendo che avrebbe sempre ottenuto ciò che voleva.

Trattare bene qualcuno significa amarlo incondizionatamente. Credete che una persona che vi ama e continuerà ad amarvi a qualsiasi condizione vi tratterà male?

Certo che no. Amare incondizionatamente significa che li amate senza mai farli sentire in colpa per quello che sono e senza mai giudicarli per le loro decisioni.

Ma non fa altro che sottolineare i tuoi difetti e ti fa credere che potrebbe anche avere ragione.

Trattare bene qualcuno significa non farlo mai piangere. Like life isn’t hard as it is, he makes it even harder for you.

He hurts you with his words and actions, never trying to understand you or apologizing. He thinks that it’s your fault because you’re ‘too emotional’ and that’s what makes you cry even more.

He doesn’t understand. He doesn’t even try to. All he does is break you, each day a bit more.

La vita è troppo breve per persone come lui. Only you know how torn your heart is inside and how much it hurts. Is it really fine to spend your days with him, knowing what he’s doing to you?

Even though you love him so much and even though you two have been through so many things together, he isn’t worth your while.

La vita è troppo breve per aspettare che cambi. He won’t change. Sorry to disappoint you, because that might be the only hope that kept you by his side but believe me, people like him do not change.

Even if one day he is going to be aware of his wrongdoings, that is somewhere far in the future. So while you’re here sobbing and breaking apart he doesn’t even mind flirting with someone else.

Quindi perché aspettare? Andate avanti e salvate il resto della vostra vita.

Andate via perché tutta la vostra vita vi aspetta. It’s waiting for you to realize that it’s OK to discard and move on from someone who doesn’t love you enough.

It’s fine to want to be selfish once in a while and save yourself, because that’s sometimes the only way you can be happy. It’s fine to love yourself enough and just start over.

So the next time you find yourself in a situation where you feel like you’re not being appreciated, loved or cared for—you are allowed to leave.

Just remember that in a few years you will happy that you didn’t waste your valuable time on someone whose intentions aren’t good and someone who isn’t even aware that they are doing something wrong.

Life is too short to fall for someone who won’t treat you right. Ci sono così tanti uomini fantastici là fuori che muoiono dalla voglia di avere una donna splendida e amorevole come te e ti prometto che sarai in grado di innamorarti di nuovo.

So don’t stand around and waste your life. You don’t have forever.