La vida es demasiado corta para enamorarse de gente que no te trata bien
Haven’t you had enough? Haven’t you had enough of all those people who treat you the way they do?
¿Como si siempre fueras a estar ahí para ellos, sin importar lo mal que se comporten? Pues déjame decirte que la vida es demasiado corta para esa gente.
Sobre todo si uno de ellos es el hombre con el que eliges pasar tus días.
Life is too short to fall for someone who doesn’t treat you the way you deserve. I know that this sounds like a cliché but isn’t it true?
You’re devoting your days to this person who’s only there to take advantage of you. He acts like he won’t ever lose you, like you’ll forever stay by his side.
Demuéstrale que tiene que pensárselo dos veces.
Tratar bien a alguien significa respetar sus límites. Sabiendo que tú y yo somos diferentes cuando se trata de nuestros límites, you should also be aware of the fact that people don’t usually take them into consideration.
What about all those times he made you have sex with him even though you weren’t feeling too great? What about all those times he made you feel bad about saying ‘no’ to anything?
Esas fueron todas las veces que cruzó tus límites, creyendo que siempre conseguiría lo que quería.
Tratar bien a alguien significa amarlo incondicionalmente. ¿Crees que alguien que te quiere y te seguirá queriendo en cualquier condición te tratará mal?
Por supuesto que no. Amar incondicionalmente significa que les quieres sin hacerles sentir nunca mal por lo que son y sin juzgarles nunca por sus decisiones.
Pero lo único que hace es señalarte siempre tus defectos y te hace creer que incluso podría tener razón.
Tratar bien a alguien significa no hacerle llorar nunca. Like life isn’t hard as it is, he makes it even harder for you.
He hurts you with his words and actions, never trying to understand you or apologizing. He thinks that it’s your fault because you’re ‘too emotional’ and that’s what makes you cry even more.
He doesn’t understand. He doesn’t even try to. All he does is break you, each day a bit more.
La vida es demasiado corta para gente como él. Only you know how torn your heart is inside and how much it hurts. Is it really fine to spend your days with him, knowing what he’s doing to you?
Even though you love him so much and even though you two have been through so many things together, he isn’t worth your while.
La vida es demasiado corta para esperar a que cambie. He won’t change. Sorry to disappoint you, because that might be the only hope that kept you by his side but believe me, people like him do not change.
Even if one day he is going to be aware of his wrongdoings, that is somewhere far in the future. So while you’re here sobbing and breaking apart he doesn’t even mind flirting with someone else.
¿Por qué esperar? Muévete y salva el resto de tu vida.
Aléjate porque toda tu vida te espera delante de ti. It’s waiting for you to realize that it’s OK to discard and move on from someone who doesn’t love you enough.
It’s fine to want to be selfish once in a while and save yourself, because that’s sometimes the only way you can be happy. It’s fine to love yourself enough and just start over.
So the next time you find yourself in a situation where you feel like you’re not being appreciated, loved or cared for—you are allowed to leave.
Just remember that in a few years you will happy that you didn’t waste your valuable time on someone whose intentions aren’t good and someone who isn’t even aware that they are doing something wrong.
Life is too short to fall for someone who won’t treat you right. Hay tantos hombres increíbles por ahí que se mueren por una mujer hermosa y cariñosa como tú y te prometo que serás capaz de enamorarte de nuevo.
So don’t stand around and waste your life. You don’t have forever.
