5 segnali che dimostrano che lui vuole rimanere casual

Come sapere cosa vuole da te? Fa vuole che tu sia la sua ragazza o gli piace che le cose rimangano così come sono?

La vostra relazione ha un futuro o lui la considera solo un'avventura casuale e senza senso? State andando nella stessa direzione?

Be honest – how many times have these and similar questions been bothering you?

Ecco 5 esempi sicuri di segnali che indicano che un ragazzo ha intenzione di mantenere le cose in modo informale and that it’s time for you to walk away from him, if you strive for something more out of this relationship.

He’s not interested in your life

The first sign that a guy doesn’t want anything serious with you is the fact that he isn’t concerned about any aspect of your life.

This man doesn’t show any interest in your daily activities, job, hobbies, likes, and dislikes.

He doesn’t even think of meeting your friends and family.

He obviously doesn’t see you as a person worthy of his attention and he doesn’t put an effort into being your friend besides your lover.

Né vi include nel suo

Lo stesso vale per la sua vita: semplicemente non vi ha mai reso partecipi.

E se ci pensate bene, non sapete nulla di quest'uomo che dorme accanto a voi.

At first, you assumed that he might be an introvert who doesn’t let anyone in, but later on, you saw that this guy has no intention of revealing any personal details about himself.

If this is the case, I hate to be the one to tell you that he clearly doesn’t want your lives intertwining because that would make it harder for him to leave once he decides to do so.

Besides, he doesn’t have the need to form any deeper bond with you and that is why he doesn’t share much of his personal information.

Non parla mai del futuro

You’re nowhere to be found in this man’s future and he never uses the plural “we” when talking about it.

It’s not that he just doesn’t talk about marriage and other things related to your relationship, he doesn’t include you in his short or long term plans either.

When you’re with a guy like this, you can’t help but notice that he doesn’t see your relationship as something that might last.

Instead, he sees it as a short term fling, nothing more, because he obviously doesn’t plan on you sticking around for much longer.

È interessato solo al sesso

La più grande bandiera rossa che indica che un ragazzo vuole mantenere le cose occasionali è il modo in cui vi tratta come se foste solo un'esca.

Yes, we are all interested in having sex with the person we are attracted to and having a man we like being all over us all the time is a compliment, but if this is all that he’s doing, it’s time to question this relationship.

This guy is always too busy to spend time with you except when you’re inviting him over.

Ha sempre voglia di fare sesso, ma è sempre troppo stanco per ascoltarvi o per uscire con voi.

Inoltre, dopo che voi due avete finito di agire in camera da letto, lui non vi chiede mai di dormire a casa sua e non rimane mai a dormire accanto a voi.

All'improvviso, il suo umore cambia, perché ha ottenuto ciò che voleva.

He isn’t consistent

Another undeniable sign that he doesn’t want anything serious is the fact that you never know where you stand with this man.

He isn’t consistent nor clear about his feelings, and whenever you try talking things through, he avoids the conversation.

Anche se si rifiuta di etichettare le coseCi sono volte in cui si comporta come il miglior fidanzato del mondo.

Times when you’re certain of his love and when you get your hopes up that you two will take your relationship to the next level.

Then he suddenly disappears, making it clear that he doesn’t owe you an explanation about what he’s doing or who he’s spending his time with.

Times when he disappoints you all over again and makes sure you realize that you’re not as special to him as you might think.