6 segni che ti ama ancora anche dopo che vi siete lasciati

Anche se avete rotto, hai ancora la sensazione che ti stia mandando dei messaggi contrastanti?

There is one part of you that is sure you’re done and nothing can happen to change that, but there is also a part of you that still hopes things will get back on track.

Him sending mixed signals after you’ve finally accepted it’s over doesn’t help very much, does it?

Era già abbastanza che tu dovessi attraversare la fase di guarigione e piangere la tua parte di lacrime e costringerti a dimenticarlo, senza che lui ti desse anche false speranze.

Dopo aver rotto con qualcuno, la vostra relazione può andare in tante direzioni. You can stay friends, you can still hook up from time to time, or you don’t want to hear his name ever again.

It’s very hard to know exactly where your relationship is heading because men usually don’t spell out clearly what they want.

Heck, maybe even they don’t know what they want—whether to keep you in their life or to pretend like the two you never happened.

Come sapere cosa vuole? Come sapere se vuole tornare con te perché ti ama ancora?

Breaking up is hard. You have to deal with the fact that you’ll never again be in his arms. He will never again kiss you when you meet, like he hasn’t seen you for months.

Devi solo accettarlo e passare attraverso il processo di dimenticanza di lui e di ciò che avevate.

But, just as you were ready to move on, you get the feeling he still has some feelings for you. It’s like he knows that you finally found peace and then he comes back and ruins everything by sending you mixed signals.

You could get back with him, but that’s usually not a good idea. Just think back on your relationship and try to exclude all the good memories you have and just think about the bad ones.

Se vi siete lasciati, probabilmente avete avuto più momenti brutti e cattivi di quelli felici.

Tuttavia, è una bella sensazione sentirsi mancare invece di mancare a qualcuno, tanto per cambiare.

Ecco i segni che il vostro ex vi ama ancora e probabilmente vi rivuole indietro:

He calls you when he’s drunk

It is said that when they get drunk, people speak about what’s really on their minds, they are completely honest and they will say things that they would never say sober.

L'alcol abbassa le sue inibizioni, quindi vi dirà quello che vi ha nascosto.

When he gets drunk, the rational part of his brain tells him it’s over and there is no point in calling you, but on the other hand, that other part of the brain gets much stronger and louder when he’s drunk and it’s shouting: “You have to call her, maybe there is still hope for the two of you!!!”

When he calls you drunk, remember that you have to be careful. Don’t say something you might regret and don’t give him any hope.

Se domani ha ancora le palle di parlarti della stessa cosa, allora ripensa a questa situazione.

Non sta ancora uscendo con nessuno

If he isn’t dating anyone and it’s been a while since you broke up, he probably prova ancora qualcosa per te, quindi ha deciso di aspettare per vedere se la sua fortuna cambierà.

Even if he goes out with someone, he will do it under the radar because he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings and he himself is unsure about it too.
But in case he is dating someone…

La sua ragazza è minacciata da lei

She can’t stand to look at you or hear anything about you, let alone be in your presence.

This is an obvious sign that he has been talking about you a lot; that’s why she feels threatened.

She has the feeling that he hasn’t moved on completely (and she’s probably right) or he’s second-guessing himself about his current choice.

Chissà, forse ha pronunciato il tuo nome durante il sesso? Non c'è da stupirsi che lei si senta ancora più importante di lei per lui.

He’s sending you mixed signals

Un momento è completamente preso da te e ti dà attenzioni che ti spaventano, e il momento dopo ti esclude come se fossi il suo arcinemico.

This behavior has to be super-confusing to you, which is more than normal, but it’s exactly the way he feels.

He is still confused about you. Maybe even he doesn’t know whether he still loves you or if he is ready to move on.

You can’t wipe out all the feelings you had for someone in a day just because you broke up. That is a process that is usually very painful and long.

After a break-up, you should stay strong. If he sends you texts and then stops, don’t send him any either, play it cool like you really don’t care.

Don’t let his confusion freak you out or give you false hope.

He’s a completely different person all of a sudden

He starts acting completely different around you once you’ve broken up. He becomes extremely friendly and all his bad qualities suddenly disappear, leaving him heavenly beautiful and just perfect.

Don’t fall for it. He knows how to be good when he wants to, and right now, he wants to get you back, so he is playing you by acting perfectly.

Se siamo d'accordo sul rimanere amici e ti parla dolcemente e ti sussurra cose dolci all'orecchio, o fa praticamente qualsiasi cosa che oltrepassi la linea dell'amicizia, prova ancora qualcosa per te ed è ben lontano dal superare il fatto che vi siete lasciati.

Vuole farvi ingelosire

If he is acting too involved with his new girlfriend or an upcoming date, or if he is bombarding social networks with announcements that he’s meeting someone, he is doing all that on purpose to mess with you.

But what he doesn’t get is that he is not coming across as a badass who has moved on; he is actually revealing the fact that he still loves you and that he wants any kind of response from you to see if you feel the same.

Si preoccupa davvero di quello che pensi di lui. Il suo comportamento cerca di farti tornare a volerlo.

Ancora una volta, di solito non è una grande idea. Ma se il vostro istinto vi dice di riprenderlo, provateci.