Ecco come ti tratterà una ragazza che ti ama davvero

Nella vostra vita ci saranno molte ragazze. La maggior parte di queste ragazze proverà dei sentimenti per voi e vi mostrerà alcuni tipi di emozioni.

Alcuni di loro vi vedranno solo come un amico, altri saranno solo attratti sessualmente o fisicamente da voi, altri si innamoreranno di voi e altri ancora vi ameranno.

Ma tra tutte queste donne, una sola si distinguerà e solo una sarà speciale. Solo una ragazza sarà unica e diversa.

I am not going to tell you that you’ll recognize this girl the moment you lay your eyes on her, because that might not happen.

I am not going to tell you that you’ll feel like you’ve known her for your entire life and I am not going to tell you that you’ll feel like she is your soulmate.

Perché questo potrebbe accadere o meno.

It is possible for this girl to be the same as everyone else to you in the beginning and it is possible that you won’t see anything special in her at first.

But even if that happens, you’ll eventually see this girl’s worth and you’ll see her uniqueness.
No, you won’t see that she is different from others because of her looks or brains.

You’ll see how special this girl is by the way she treats you and you’ll see it by the way lei ti ama.

Perché questa ragazza vi tratterà davvero in modo speciale.

This doesn’t mean that she will be submissive to you and it definitely doesn’t mean she’ll nod her head to everything you have to say.

It doesn’t mean she’ll blindly support every decision you’ll make and that she’ll follow you through life as if she doesn’t have a mind of her own.

It doesn’t mean this girl will put up with you cheating on her and disrespecting her, because she definitely won’t.

It doesn’t mean she will allow you to manipulate her or abuse her in any way.

It doesn’t mean that this girl will think that you are perfect and that she won’t see your flaws.
Ed è proprio questo che la renderà diversa da tutti gli altri.

Perché vedrà le vostre imperfezioni e vi amerà. non nonostante i tuoi difetti, ma grazie ad essi.

She will be different because she will see the real you and she will love the real you. And no—this girl will never try to change you because she will always respect your personality.

Ma in qualche modo, lei sarà l'unica che riuscirà a cambiarti.

Questa ragazza sarà il vento sotto le vostre ali.

She will inspire you to become a better man, not for her, but for yourself. You will want to be worthy of her love and respect and that is how you’ll change everything you should change on your own, without her ever pressuring you to do anything.

E sì, criticherà voi e le vostre decisioni. Ma lo farà solo faccia a faccia.

Vi difenderà da tutti e da tutto, senza alcun timore. E si assicurerà che tutti sappiano quanto è orgogliosa di avervi.

Ma questa ragazza non si allontanerà mai da voi. Sarà con voi nel momento peggiore e in quello più basso.

E vi amerà sempre allo stesso modo, perché il suo amore per voi sarà incondizionato.

And the best part is that this girl will never ask for anything in return. She doesn’t need your gratitude and she doesn’t need you returning any favors.

She doesn’t want you buying her expensive gifts or taking her out to fancy dinners.

She will just want your love, respect and efforts. She will only want to see that you appreciate everything she’s done for you and that you are ready to put effort into this relationship.

She will only want to know that she is important to you and that you won’t violate her trust, that you won’t disappoint her and ruin everything the two of you have been building.

Quindi, in sostanza, l'unica cosa che dovete fare è non essere così sciocchi da lascia andare questa ragazza, because trust me, you won’t find someone like her ever again.