Siete gli unici artefici della vostra felicità (dipende da voi)

So che quasi tutti lo sanno già, ma lo scriverò comunque: non è mai abbastanza sottolineare quanto sia importante essere felici.

Tutti abbiamo delle difficoltà. Tutti cadiamo, ma riusciamo a risalire. Perché? Perché lo vogliamo e decidiamo di farlo.

No matter if someone broke your heart or you’ve lost someone, your life has to go on—it’s a little bit harsh to say that, but it’s true.

Now, it’s up to you whether you are going to dwell in the past or you are going to embrace the future and rearrange yourself—your perspective and your attitude—to be able to enjoy everything that your life has got to offer.

I always say that some higher force, or God, or whatever you want to call it, won’t ever serve you more than you can handle. You’ve been through hell.

You thought your life is going to end right at that moment. But still, here you are—still alive, still struggling to move forward.

Vedete? Niente può batterti. Si va avanti.

The only thing is that it’s up to you whether you will bury your past and grab for the future or keep doing what you’ve been doing—nothing.

I’m not saying that it’s easy. Heck, if it was easy, I wouldn’t have written this. I wish I could give you some kind of magic formula for you to follow and POOF!—you’re happy.

But it doesn’t work that way. I can only speak from my own experience and hope some of my words will help you, too.

Smettete di dare la colpa al passato e di pensare al passato. Non potete cambiarlo e lo sapete.

Stop thinking about what you would have done differently because you had your chance then and you didn’t take it. You did only what you thought was right.

Don’t worry—you will get another chance to redeem yourself for the mistakes you did in the past. That is actually what the past is all about—to make us learn from our past events.

E poi arriva il futuro a darci la possibilità di rimettere le cose a posto. Si può sempre scegliere, ma bisogna avere pazienza.

 

 

Bisogna rendersi conto che avete la possibilità di cambiare la vostra vita. Siete gli unici responsabili della vostra vita, delle vostre azioni e, soprattutto, della vostra felicità.

Forget about that brain-numbing ignorance. I know that every time you decide to do something with your life—to take charge—you regret it because it’s hard and you automatically wish to go back to the life you knew before.

You think to yourself that it’s not that bad—you got used to living that way and you will make peace with it.

But no!—That’s the wrong answer. Don’t be a wuss and fight for your happiness.

I can’t stress enough that it’s up to you and it was up to you from the beginning. There is no need to put blame on others for the things that are happening to you because you are the one who has the ball in your court—you are calling all the shots.

Se qualcosa non va bene, smettete di dare la colpa agli altri, perché la colpa è solo vostra.

Finché non vi renderete conto che la vostra felicità dipende da voi, rimarrete bloccati nella spietata routine della vostra vita infelice.