È il momento di mettere da parte i sentimenti e ricordare ciò che si merita

Non voglio più sentirmi triste. Sono arrivata a un punto in cui ho deciso che non voglio guardare indietro alla mia vita e sentirmi in colpa perché non ho mai corso dei rischi.

I don’t want to throw my life away because of someone who never even cared for me. I’ve had enough. I’m making a fresh start. 

Eliminerò ogni traccia di lui e allenerò il mio cuore a non perdere mai un battito quando sentirò il suo nome.

I will forget everything he promised me and I will forget him: his voice, his smell, his face, his everything until I can’t recall his image in my mind anymore.

Ricordo che all'inizio avrei voluto tornare indietro al momento in cui l'ho incontrato, prendere una strada diversa e salvarmi da tanto dolore, ma ho deciso di fidarmi di Dio.

When God let him into my life, I didn’t know it was a lesson. A lesson to teach me to embrace myself.

So often in life, we’re blinded by what we feel and what we want in the given moment, so we forget to see things from another perspective.

I was so lost in loving him that I forgot to love myself. Once he was gone, I needed to find myself again and I didn’t know where to start.

It’s so hard to accept the fact that the people who once made us feel special are the same people who made us feel worthless in the end.

It’s so hard to trust after you’ve been lied to so many times – even yourself – that’s what gaslighting fa a una persona.

Still, that’s how I learned that the only lasting relationship in my life will be the one I have with myself.

Da quel momento ho smesso di credere che qualcun altro avesse il potere di salvarmi.

It became clear to me that in order to survive and live a good life I needed to change – myself, my life, my habits.

I’ve never believed in prince charming, but deep in my heart I’ve always wanted to have somebody to care for me.

I still want that – I still want to have somebody who will cherish me and make me feel safe and happy to be myself.

L'unica differenza è che ora so che posso prendermi cura di me stessa e sentirmi sicura di me stessa.

I don’t depend on anyone’s love but my own, and you know what? I feel better than ever. I feel relieved and happy I can believe in myself.

I’m proud of giving myself a chance.

After all those years of telling myself that everything and everyone is better than me, I finally realized that comparing myself to others doesn’t make sense.

There’s no rule for success but your own happiness and what makes voi La felicità è diversa da quella degli altri. Fate solo ciò che vi rende felici.

Meritate di essere felici. Meritate di trattarvi come trattate le persone che amate di più.

Leave behind everything that brings you down – including people. Don’t make excuses. Everything in life happens for a reason, so don’t sabotage your own growth.

Una delle lezioni più importanti di questa esperienza è stata quella di lasciar andare ciò che non posso cambiare. Sembra semplice, ma è stata la cosa più difficile da fare.

Other than letting go I learned that for some people I’ll never be enough as I am, but that it shouldn’t bother me.

Life’s too short for trying to be liked by other people – in the end, you only have yourself.

That’s why we have to be strong. We have to build forts out of ourselves, and be self-sufficient but welcoming to everyone who has something valuable to offer. Seek value rather than attention.

Only self-love can break the circle of unfulfilled relationships. When you love yourself, you don’t tolerate disrespect.

Quando amate voi stessi, attirate tutto ciò che meritate.