Non fatele del male solo perché il vostro ex vi ha fatto del male

If your past relationship has scarred you and you feel like you still need time to process all of what happened and heal your broken heart, do not enter a new relationship. Do not hurt her just because your ex hurt you. It’s as simple as that.

Stay single until you’re ready to treat her the way she deserves because you know that she deserves to be treated nice and with care. Don’t even dare to kill her hope in love just because you’ve lost it yourself.

Don’t break her heart just because your ex broke yours.

Don’t think that you’ll be able to guarisci il tuo cuore only if you break someone else’s heart. Don’t think that you’ll get your revenge if you make her suffer. Her heart is pure and beautiful so don’t you think that it would really be a shame if that was disrupted?

Don’t you think that in a world as cruel as it is, her pure heart is something truly amazing and it deserves to be treated with special care?

Don’t break her spirit in an attempt to save yours. If you’re not ready to truly commit, stop giving her hope!

Don’t let her wait just because you can. If you know that your kind of toxic love will only hurt her, then stop giving her hope that you will change. Stop giving her false promises when you know that you’re not able to fulfill them.

Datele la possibilità di spiegare le sue ali e di salvarsi dal vostro amore tossico, perché merita un trattamento umano, che comprende la comprensione, l'apprezzamento, lo sforzo e l'esserci per lei. Se sapete di non poterle dare tutto questo, allora fatevi da parte.

Non ha fatto nulla per meritare i vostri maltrattamenti.

Anche se avete perso la fiducia nell'amore e nelle persone, non avete il diritto di metterla in quella categoria. Non ha fatto nulla per meritare di essere trattata come una persona che è lì per alleviare il tuo dolore e poi essere scartata.

She did nothing to be your punching bag. Her only wish is to help you restore your hope and heal your broken heart. She’s not someone you should be skeptical of believing.

And if you’re unable to see all of this, then let her go. Don’t waste her time by manipulating her with your constant leaving and staying. Sooner or later, she will get tired of your games and, wanted or not, you’ll lose her.

You’ll lose such a delicate flower and when you realize it, it will be too late. So, stop playing your shitty games and decide once and for all whether you’ll treat her the way she deserves or you’ll leave her.

Perché farà meno male se la lasci. E farà più male se continuerai a manipolarla.

Make the right decision and do what’s best for her. Don’t let your selfishness overwhelm you to think that she’ll be there for you whenever you need her.

And don’t think that she’s the one to blame for everything wrong that happened to you. Understand that she’s the one who’s there for you because she WANTS to be and not because she NEEDS you.

If she wanted to, she could have easily replaced you with someone else who would treat her better than you. But she didn’t. And do you know why?

Perché she’s the one che vuole aiutarvi. Vuole esserci per voi e darvi il suo amore incondizionato perché sa come ci si sente a essere amati così poco.

So, don’t hurt her just because your past hurt you. She’s not your past and she has nothing to do with your mistakes. She’s someone who is willing to be there for you but you need to prove to her that you’re worthy of it.