Non ha bisogno di un eroe. Ha solo bisogno di qualcuno che la ami.

Every tale that has a happy ending started off with a princess that needs saving and a prince who ends up being a hero. Those tales are not what life looks like. In reality, we don’t have castles and fairies.

That because we’re not princesses.

We are strong girls who don’t need to be saved from anything. We are used to fighting for everything we want in life. And it’s okay.

We never even asked to be saved. We like who we are and that’s not going to change. We don’t need a prince who’s going to save us.

We don’t need a hero. We are our own heroes. We just need to be loved.

Essere una donna alfa who has everything under control is not that easy. It’s actually pretty exhausting. We need to rest from time to time.

Without refueling, we couldn’t function this well. But even when we’re resting, our brains can’t stop working.

We constantly think of many things, such as reflecting on what we did in life or thinking about what to expect from it next. While imagining our future, it’s really hard to imagine someone next to us.

For some of us, it’s even impossible. A lot of guys we meet are intimidated by our personalities.

Vogliono semplicemente essere degli eroi per le loro fidanzate. Vogliono sentirsi come se fossero la soluzione a tutti i loro problemi.

Beh, mi dispiace dirvelo, ma la verità è che l'unica cosa di cui abbiamo bisogno è l'amore. You see that we’re not asking for much.

Abbiamo solo bisogno di una bella spalla su cui piangere quando ci sentiamo sopraffatti da tutto. Abbiamo bisogno di qualcuno che ci prenda per mano e ci porti a mangiare una pizza.

We need guys who are happy to have us in their lives. We just want to be looked at like we’re masterpieces.

Let’s be real—that’s every girl’s dream.

Truth to be told, we are really busy. We work on ourselves all the time, and we won’t stop until we become what we truly want to be.

Alcuni di noi vogliono diventare medici, altri magari aprire un negozio di fiori, altri ancora cercano semplicemente di essere più felici nella vita.

It doesn’t matter what the goal is. If you’re not ready to love your girlfriend and hold her hand through everything she’s planning on doing, then you should take a step back.

She’s ready to give you the support she expects from you. Ha bisogno che tu sia un vero uomo su cui poter contare.

She needs someone who’s going to laugh with her, cry with her, and take her places she’s never been to.

Ha bisogno di sentire quella scintilla d'amore di tanto in tanto. Ha bisogno di sentirsi viva.

Even strong women are sometimes weak. Sometimes they get overwhelmed with everything and then forget why are they doing what they’re doing.

Quando la vostra ragazza arriva a questo punto, dovete sapere come comportarvi. Dovete abbracciarla e dirle che tutto andrà bene.

That’s all she needs. Is she asking for too much? I don’t think so. But sometimes it’s hard for guys to give that to their girlfriends.

All these women are asking for is to be loved, but their men would rather be their heroes and make some great gestures without any meaning—not to mention that most of the guys would be the happiest if they got to play with girls’ feelings.

Non c'è nessuna donna al mondo che accetterebbe questo tipo di relazione.

Il punto fondamentale è che if you’re not an maschio alfa, non hai niente a che fare con una donna alfa. Se non siete l'eroe di voi stessi, proprio come lo è lei, allora potete dimenticarvi di lei.

She will not settle for anything less than what she deserves. She’s not going to be your mum; she can’t take care of you like that.

She will be your lover and your best friend only if you’re willing to be hers.

This combination will guarantee you a happy relationship. If she thinks you’re not good enough for her, then you should respect her decision.

Ma, se siete pronti ad amarla nel modo in cui ha bisogno di essere amata, allora preparatevi a vivere il momento più bello della vostra vita con lei.