Non turbare i suoi sentimenti solo perché non sei sicuro dei tuoi

"Don’t let the mixed signals fool you, indecision is a decision.” – Unknown

We’ve all been there. We’ve all had that one person who was always on the fence about everything. And you know what?

Dovete spingerli fuori da quel recinto e dalla vostra vita!

I spent way too much time giving my attention to someone who clearly didn’t deserve it.

I wasted the precious time of my life on someone who didn’t care.

Why should I bend over backward for someone who isn’t even sure if he loves me and wants to spend time with me?

Chi ha bisogno di una persona indecisa nella propria vita?

If you’re indecisive about your food order, that’s fine, but if you’re indecisive about love, why the hell should I be sure about you?

Love isn’t something to play with and then leave when you get bored. Love isn’t a toy, despite how the epidemic of giocatori lo ha fatto sembrare.

Players aren’t what you need; don’t let them mess with your head.

I loro sentimenti cambiano come il tempo e vi lasciano confusi, senza sapere cosa aspettarvi dopo. Un momento, ti stanno addosso.

The next second, they go cold. One moment, they’re saying I love you, and then they don’t call you back for days.

You shouldn’t let anyone treat you like that.

Giocare con i sentimenti è un modo per manipolazione emotiva and you can be sure that when they do that, they don’t care about you, no matter what they said before.

La cosa peggiore di tutte è la sensazione di costante indecisione; non riescono mai a decidere nulla o a dire anche la cosa più semplice che potrebbe evitarti di pensare troppo.

There’s always something left in the air, regardless of how hard you try to communicate.

They obviously have problems, but that doesn’t mean you should let theirs become yours.

If they’ve been hurt before or even if they don’t really like you, that doesn’t give them the right to play with your feelings.

The honest truth is always better than a lie. Because even if it’s going to hurt you, at least you know where you stand.

You’re not a certified psychologist to resolve someone’s problemi di attaccamentoQuindi, se la persona si comporta in modo indeciso, potete dirle di trovare una soluzione prima di cercare di avere una relazione.

E anche se tu fossi un terapeuta, richiederebbe comunque un certo sforzo da parte loro, che chiaramente non fanno mai.

So, instead of scratching your head over someone’s questionable decisions and statements, you could move on with your life.

Leaving all this mess behind will feel so good, trust me. Once you’re over it, you won’t let it happen again.

Standing up for yourself is something you won’t regret.

If anything, you will know what you don’t want and get a better idea of what you do want. You want someone who’s determined to love you.

Qualcuno che sia sincero e che mantenga le sue parole. Qualcuno che sia onesto e che voglia la stessa cosa di voi.

Volete qualcuno che vi faccia sentire bene e che sia orgoglioso di avervi.

Life’s too short to waste it on a person who isn’t interested in fully loving you, isn’t ready to commit, and can’t make time for you.

Instead, you should decide to direct your attention to yourself. Don’t wait for someone else to do it for you.

Trattatevi come il vostro migliore amico. Rendetevi felici. Sappiate esattamente ciò che volete e poi cercate di ottenerlo.

When you’re sure of your worth, you won’t be tempted to try another game with an immature man; you will know right away if he’s the one for you.

This whole problem highlights the importance of knowing what you want – in love and in life.

Sapere cosa si vuole significa accettarsi così come si è ed essere abbastanza saggi da riconoscere i propri bisogni e l'importanza di soddisfarli.

Everyone deserves to feel they are cared for and important in the life of their loved one. That’s what love’s about.

Otherwise, it’s just a waste of time. Decide to do what’s best for you and let him go.