Non sarete mai troppo per un ragazzo che non ne ha mai abbastanza di voi

I ragazzi vanno e vengono, ma un vero uomo resta, anche quando tutto gli dice di non farlo.

Mi ci è voluto un mare di uomini sbagliati, ragazzi immaturi e assoluti idioti che pretendevano di essere veri uomini per capire alcune cose sull'amore.

Cose che prima erano così poco chiare e vaghe.

Cose che ignoravo per rendermi più facile quando venivo lasciata.

Avete presente quelle piccole bugie che vi raccontate dopo una rottura di merda per poterla superare con più facilità?

Cose come, “Oh, it was my fault, I was being way too overbearing and needy,” oppure, “I should kick it down a notch with the next guy, or I’ll spaventarlo just like this one.’”

E sapete una cosa? Una volta ero proprio così.

Credevo di essere sempre io.

Mi sono detta che avevo chiesto troppo o che ero semplicemente troppo per lui.

Come se chiedere amore e impegno fosse qualcosa di cui vergognarsi!

Guess what? It’s not!

I got so sick and tired of selling myself short for weak-ass boys who weren’t man enough to handle a real woman!

 

Così ho finalmente deciso che quando è troppo è troppo.

I’m done taking a blow every time.

I’m done pinning the blame on myself for everything.

If I’m at fault, I’ll be the first to admit it but I’ll be damned if I’ll ever let a guy make me feel like I am too much of a woman.

No, non è più possibile.

What I’ve come to realize is very simple.

You can NEVER be too much for a guy who can’t get enough of you!

If that’s what it feels like, honey, I’ve got news for you… You’re with the wrong man!

L'uomo giusto non vi farà mai sentire un peso.

The right man would never make you feel like you can’t be yourself around him.

E l'uomo giusto non si annoierebbe mai di te.

Perché quando si ama qualcuno, e intendo davvero love someone… you don’t get tired of them.

You don’t just decide that you’ve had enough of them for the day.

That’s not love, that’s convenience.

 

And that’s something you should never, ever settle for.

Take it from a girl who’s settled for ‘convenient’ one too many times.

When you find your one, trust me, he’s going to make you feel it.

Tutto sarà diverso. Il modo in cui ti sei sentita con tutti quei ragazzi non ti passerà più per la testa.

This man will know how to treat a woman he loves—a real woman.

This man won’t be able to get enough of you.

Anche nei giorni in cui si colpisce una zona difficile and you’re falling out, he will always make sure you know he loves you regardless.

A real man will always text you goodnight so that you know you’re not alone.

Un vero uomo non vi lascerà mai andare a letto da sole, pensando che tutto stia andando a rotoli.

Nessuno qui vive in una bolla.

We’re all aware that shit happens and relationships take so much work and effort.

But when it’s with the right guy, you’ll never feel like you’re being too much or that everything’s your fault.

He won’t let you!

And that’s the only acceptable type of relationship you should get into.

Don’t let those immature boys who still live off their parents dictate your feelings.

 

Don’t let them take away your confidence or self-worth.

You’re way too strong and powerful to let anyone get you down like that.

Conoscere il proprio valore. Conoscere la propria forza.

Once you do, you’ll see this for yourself.

A l'uomo che vi ama amerà tutte voi.

He’ll love your chatty personality and your openness.

He’ll love your little jealous outbursts because he’ll know it only means you care.

He’ll love the way you need to know he got home safe.

He’ll love the way you hug him and don’t let go for what feels like forever every time you’re apart for a few short days.

And that’s because a real man knows what love entails.

And it’s all the messiness, craziness and jealousy.

And he’s totally fine with that because he knows that YOU are worth every second of it.

And that feeling is something you’ll hold precious in your heart.

It’s not about everything being perfect all the time.

It’s about knowing you can be your true, unedited self around him and still feel so freaking loved.

It’s about taking a leap of faith because you know he’s going to ne vale la pena.

 

So next time you feel the need to be less chatty, less opinionated and less censored in front of a guy—just leave.

A man who can’t get enough of you will never let you put yourself down like that.

You’re either your raw, authentic self or you’re out the door.

It’s up to him.

And trust me—a real man will make the right choice.