Non siete troppo rotti per una relazione felice: ecco perché

I know you sometimes feel like there’s no man that’s right for you. Especially not after everything you’ve been through. All the circumstances have made your love life complex, to say the least.

Sometimes you even ask yourself how you’ll explain everything that has happened to you to the next person that comes into your life and you feel hopeless.

Con tutto il dolore che vi ha quasi lasciati insensibili e tutti i vostri sogni di vivere una vita felice e appagata rovinati, una relazione felice sembra impossibile.

There’s nothing left but disappointment. Disappointment in yourself, others, and love. It feels like everyone’s figured out their life but you.

Everyone seems to know what they’re doing and they look so happy and content. It’s almost like you’re not meant to have anything easy.

Every single thing you do in life becomes a struggle, one way or another. Sometimes you just want to give up under the pressure of all the things you ‘’should’’ and ‘’could’’ do.

I know how you feel and that’s why I need you to read this:

You’re NOT broken. You’re not beyond repair. You’re not behind everyone else and all the tough things that have happened to you are not your fault.

You’re simply a human being who has experienced more than others. There’s a reason all these things have happened to you and you can’t see it right now.

Think about your past and everything you thought was a disaster until it turned out to be a good thing. That’s what’s happening to you right now.

You have to regain your own power again. You have to break the chains of self-illusion that tell you you’re not enough and that you can’t change your life. You can!

Potete cambiare la vostra vita eliminando tutte le pressioni inutili sulla vostra schiena.

La pressione di ciò che gli altri pensano di te, la pressione di essere la migliore in tutto ciò che fai, la pressione di essere la donna perfetta e ogni altra pressione che ti rende così insicura.

Permettete a voi stessi di ascoltare i vostri bisogni. Che cosa voi vuole? Che cosa voi bisogno?

Siate onesti con voi stessi, fissate un obiettivo e lavorateci sopra.

Cosa vi impedisce di avere la vita che desiderate? Un lavoro, il vostro aspetto, i vostri difetti di personalità?

Everything is manageable if you want it to be. You have the power to change yourself, in fact, that’s the only real power you have.

Don’t let it go to waste. Use it for your own good.

Per attrarre l'uomo dei vostri sogni dovete essere la donna dei vostri sogni. Concedetevi tutto ciò che vi rende belle per voi.

Migliorare se stessi sia all'interno che all'esterno. Le due cose sono collegate.

It’s not about being superficial, it’s about caring for what’s given to you. It’s about protecting the precious things about yourself.

Come potete aspettarvi che qualcun altro veda la vostra vera bellezza se continuate a nasconderla sotto un velo di insicurezza?

L'insicurezza è ciò che uccide tutto ciò che è bello.

Trust me, life’s too short for that. At the end of the day, we’re not here for long. Embrace all the things life gives you and use them as lessons.

You can always choose to see good in other people and most importantly – good in yourself. That’s how you will learn to live authentically.

La cosa più irresistibile di una persona è la sua autenticità.

Perché? Perché significa che sono in piena sintonia con se stessi, si accettano pienamente e riescono a vedere la bellezza in ogni cosa.

Nothing can move you once you’re at peace with yourself. The relationship you want is waiting for you to love yourself so you can truly experience it.

A happy relationship needs a happy woman. And that’s voi.