Non temo l'impegno, temo di sprecare il mio tempo con l'uomo sbagliato

L'amore non dovrebbe essere sempre così complicato.

A volte basta esprimere chiaramente le proprie intenzioni e le proprie emozioni.

I wish you knew that. I wish you’d just told me how you felt about me right away, instead of making me guess and leaving me to turn cold and look for love elsewhere.

I was never the spiteful type; you could’ve just been honest.

Abbiamo smesso di parlare perché lei non ha preso l'iniziativa.

I’m not here to chase you. I was ready for a mature relationship, not some teenage puppy love filled with passive-aggressive behavior and unspoken words.

Unfortunately, the way you acted has forced me to become colder. That didn’t happen because I didn’t care, it was because I wanted you to do something.

I’m done with men who can’t take initiative and wait for me to start something first.

Chi stiamo prendendo in giro?

I have no problem admitting I’m a strong, bold woman, but that only means I need a strong, bold man too.

A man who’s decisive and ready to take action. A man who doesn’t let things just happen, but puts effort into reaching his goals.

That’s the kind of man I want.

I want to be sure he’s committed. I don’t want to spend the rest of my life thinking I’m not enough.

I want a man who has long term goals and lets me know, without hesitation, that I’m one of them.

Voglio un uomo che faccia in modo di capirmi sempre e che comunichi con me ogni giorno.

I don’t want to beg for anything.

I want someone who can follow me and won’t be afraid. Someone to share my future with. Someone to make me feel special.

A person who is ready to put me first and be proud of me. Until I find that man, I’m ready to stay single, I’m not afraid.

I’d rather stay single than waste my time on a man who is not committed.

If you’re not committed, that means you’re not serious about me. You treat me like an option.

And I’m so much more than that. I deserve better.

Luckily, I don’t base my self-worth on whether I’m in a relationship or not. I choose to accept my life as it is and enjoy it.

I’m deeply convinced that someone out there is just the right for me. I know that person will never make me guess our commitment and our love.

Non mi lascerà mai dubitare della cosa più importante in una relazione. Parleremo delle nostre emozioni più profonde e dei nostri desideri segreti. Si assicurerà che io mi senta al sicuro con lui.

He won’t insist on the childish things that make me uncomfortable. Instead, he will act like a grown man and his actions will make me trust him.

He won’t make weird remarks, ignore me in front of his friends, interrupt me while I talk, mansplain things to me, or text with his ex and act like that’s okay.

Time we spend together will fill me with hope, joy, and happiness and by that, I will know he’s the one.

Mi farà ridere come nessun altro, mi preparerà la colazione a letto e mi lascerà scegliere il film. Mi sentirò valida e curata.

That’s what I never felt with you. That’s why I gave up. You couldn’t give me the simplest thing I needed.

Non mi hai mai dato la devozione di cui ho bisogno per sentirmi apprezzato.

Mi hai dato per scontato e questo è ciò che è successo. Ho detto addio.

Interestingly enough – I didn’t even miss you, which made me realize it’s because you were never really there to begin with. You were somehow passively selfish.

I didn’t like that.

There’s too much life in me. I set myself free by letting you go.

I outgrew the need to be loved by someone who doesn’t show he cares for me.

Allo stesso tempo, ho iniziato ad amare me stessa per prepararmi ad accogliere colui che farà in modo di mostrarmi il suo amore ogni giorno della sua vita.