Per il ragazzo che arriva dopo il suo cuore spezzato

She caught your eye—probably because of the fiery glow she gives off when she smiles now that she’s learning come essere di nuovo felici.

She has a mystery about her that you just can’t seem to put your finger on.

It’s not that she doesn’t want to let you in, it’s just that she’s just worked so hard to get where she is now that she is very selective of who she will let enter her life. Should you find yourself being that person she allows to scratch through the layers, please read this.

È stata ridotta a niente da qualcuno che le aveva promesso il mondo. Le è stato detto che era amata, ma è stata trattata come se fosse tutt'altro.

Non le è mai capitato che qualcuno le dicesse qualcosa e lo facesse sul serio, quindi si può capire perché sia così guardinga.

L'amore non è stato altro che un'esperienza confusa e straziante per lei, quindi ora la spaventa a morte.

Si è tirata su dal pavimento coperta di lacrime nere con i postumi di una sbornia di vino troppe volte, tanto che ora tende a voler scappare da chiunque si avvicini lontanamente a farle provare QUALCOSA.

It’s not that she’s incapable of loving someone, in fact, it’s just the opposite.

Ha ancora tanto amore da dare alla persona giusta, nonostante tutte quelle sbagliate che l'hanno prosciugata a tal punto da farle dimenticare di amare se stessa nel mezzo del suo amore.

Ama così tanto, e vi renderete conto che questa è la cosa migliore e peggiore di lei.

If when you look at her, you don’t see the fire in her soul and the flames that dance in her eyes as she laughs… please do not stay. Don’t lead her on for even a second.

Ha fatto del suo meglio per arrivare dove si trova ora, quindi vi prego di non fare nulla che possa compromettere il suo cuore in via di guarigione.

She may smile and laugh and seem like she is the strongest woman you know, but she is still very fragile regardless whether you can or can’t see the bruises she still bears underneath.

Loving her will be challenging at times, but I promise it will be the most amazing and rewarding thing you’ll come to know, aside from the love that she has to offer you.

You’ll have to be patient as she impara a fidarsi di nuovo. She’s going to apologize a lot for things she didn’t do.

She’s going to think you’re mad for no reason. She’s going to carry around the doubt and fear that you are ready to walk out at any given moment because this is all she’s ever known.

She may not call or text like she wants to because she feels like she’s bothering you, but she is waiting to see if she means enough to you for you to send her something, letting her know you’re thinking of her like she’s thinking of you.

She will get a sinking feeling in her stomach when your phone goes off around her at night or if you don’t answer it when it does, even if she doesn’t say a word about it.

She’ll think the worst when you don’t answer her calls or texts right away. When you’re not around, she’ll start playing out scenarios in her head of what you’re doing and why she isn’t good enough.

When she kisses you before you leave like it’s the last time she will ever see you, please know that she does this because she knows it could be.

She may have this look in her eyes when you tell her goodbye like she doesn’t want to say it and it’s because she is wondering if it’s for good this time.

She will always love you like there is no tomorrow because if there is anything she has learned, it’s how much time is really borrowed.

She’s not crazy, but she may get jealous at times. You need to be willing to understand why.

If you’re not ready to make her feel like a priority, then you don’t deserve to be in her life at all. She will no longer be someone’s convenience.

The self love she possesses these days is worth her walking away from anyone who doesn’t realize that. Don’t make the mistake of letting her walk away.

You might have to remind her sometimes that she’s the only one you want, but don’t just tell her… show her.

She needs more than words to feel the truth in anything because of all the empty promises she’s been told.

Le sue paure non sono irrazionali perché si basano solo su ciò a cui è stata abituata per tanto tempo. Siate l'uomo che cambia le cose per lei.

I can promise you that anything you tell her, she won’t believe until she sees it happen.

Please don’t feel like she is punishing you for the mistakes of those who came before you. She just doesn’t want to be disappointed again.

She’s just trying to protect her heart because no one else ever has.

I’m not trying to scare you off or trying to give you reasons not to stay, I just want you to know that this is not a game for her—she is done letting people waste her time.

Quindi sto solo cercando di eliminare quelli deboli. Devi essere in grado di gestire il calore di un incendio se vuoi che il tuo mondo sia illuminato.

She will be the most faithful, loving, loyal woman you’ll ever have by your side, but you have to be willing to work for it.

Lottate per lei ogni giorno, anche dopo aver sentito di averla conquistata, e lei farà lo stesso per voi. Vuole solo essere amata come ama lei.

She wants to know that she is worth it to someone, that she isn’t easy to walk away from and that the thought of leaving wouldn’t even be an option.

If you are lucky enough to be loved by her, it will be a love that is unwavering, unquestionable and so fulfilling that you’ll wonder if anyone else ever really loved you before.

So why should she settle for anything less than that for herself? She shouldn’t.

Do you realize that despite what this girl has gone through, the pain that she has felt, the people who have made her question her worth, she still chooses to put her heart on the line for a chance to feel like she isn’t the only one who loves her.

She knows she’s taking a risk. She knows the outcome may not end well for her once again, but she doesn’t give up!

If that doesn’t make you feel honored to know such a resilient being, then you are not the man for her.

If her presence alone does not make you feel something, then please do not let her get attached to you because when she falls, and she will… she goes all in.

So if you don’t plan on being the one to catch her, then don’t stand there and watch as her foot leaves the ledge.

Lei vi amerà molto prima di trovare il coraggio di pronunciare quelle parole, ma saprete che vi ama in tutti i modi in cui ve lo dimostra. Siete disposti a prestarle attenzione?

She’s telling you everything you need to know without saying anything. She’s just so damn tired of giving herself to someone who doesn’t appreciate it, so she tries her hardest to hold back in fear of being made a fool.

So if you are given the opportunity to be the guy who comes after her heartbreak, after she has put herself back together…. Please do not fail her.

Be the one who chases away the demons from her past, not another haunting memory she will have to overcome. Be her saving grace and show her that she is not waging it all on a war she will never win. Just please, please… don’t be like the rest of them.

di Ashley Richard