Praticare la consapevolezza mettendo giù il telefono

Al giorno d'oggi, i nostri dispositivi sono praticamente attaccati al fianco. Controlliamo costantemente il telefono. Che ora è? Cosa dice il nostro prossimo promemoria? Chi ci ha appena mandato un messaggio? Abbiamo risposto a quel messaggio sui social media?

We spend so much time on our smartphone, in fact, that we often forget about the rest of the world and what’s happening around us. Perhaps finding some peace of mind is as simple as committing to this…

Fate più cose che vi impediscano di controllare il telefono.

It’s more of a challenge, really. Can you do it? Can you find things that interest you enough to keep you away from running to the screen the next time you hear that infamous ding?

Ci sono cose che possiamo fare e che sono più importanti? Certo, ci sono.

Quindi, mettete da parte il vostro dispositivo per un momento e prendete in considerazione l'idea di dedicarvi ad attività che non solo occupino il vostro tempo, ma che diano un senso alla vostra vita.

Trascorrere realmente del tempo con la famiglia e gli amici. We’ve all been there. You’re invited to a family gathering and everyone raccoglie. Eppure nessuno interagisce. Tutti, ironia della sorte, sono seduti nel Camera di famiglia on their phone or mindlessly attached to the TV. When did it become taboo to have your device at the dinner table but totally acceptable to drown out a family gathering in the family room? These should be areas filled with laughter and good conversation, offering space to chat and catch up… not over messenger but face-to-face. We’ve totally lost the concept of meaningful connection.

Partecipa. Anche in questo caso, il nostro livello di attivismo sociale spesso inizia e si ferma con l'iscrizione a gruppi di social media e l'aggiunta di post. Vi interessa davvero un problema? Certo, 200 like in un forum di gruppo possono aiutare a diffondere la notizia, ma cosa state facendo per affrontare il problema? Dovete battere i marciapiedi per creare delle vere e proprie onde. Partecipate agli eventi locali, alle attività, ai gruppi di difesa della salute e ai club sociali. Incontrate veramente i vostri vicini che sono interessati alle stesse cose. Entrate in contatto con loro e proponete idee.

Insegnare agli altri. Believe it or not, there is still capacity for in-person teaching. Kids are still going to school, sitting in a classroom and following instruction. Yes, there are many resources online, credible ones. And, yes, you can learn a lot sitting at a computer and sharing this information with others. But, you are also contributing to the loss of socialization in society. We are teaching the next generation that knowledge is power but networking is nothing more than nice to have. So, students are entering ‘the real world’ with zero communication skills. They are checking their phone in the waiting room before being called in to an interview and asking to finish a text before they head back. They are sitting across the table from industry influencers and clamming up, because they cannot consult their phone when answering questions. We are promoting introverted personalities because ‘connecting’ over a device doesn’t truly count, thus allowing the concept of power in numbers to completely die out.

Aiutatevi finché siete in tempo. By allowing yourself to continuously check your phone everywhere you go and in everything you do, you are fueling an addiction. And it’s a powerful one. The more this becomes acceptable to you, the more you will crave the dopamine released from the brain every time you do it, and the more irritable you’ll get whenever you can’t check your phone. This is a very real, physical reaction to something the body believes it cannot live without and is no different from the effects of any other addiction. It’s a vicious cycle that will only lead to depression and anxiety, which will both intensify over time. So, while an addiction to the perceived must-haves on our computer or phone may seem harmless at first, we are truly hurting ourself. And we cannot logically condemn the behavior of someone who is addicted to sex, shopping, a toxic relationship, or substances while fueling our own demons. It’s total hypocrisy. We only have control over our own actions and need to self-reflect to improve.

Try to turn off your phone more and more throughout the day and keep it out of reach. Create pleasure elsewhere, so you can live a happier life. It’s that simple.