Alla ragazza che non è mai stata "quella giusta".

For as long as you can remember, you’ve always been a man’s seconda scelta.

You’ve had multiple relationships and different guys have called you their girlfriend but you know that not one of them ever saw you as his soulmate. 

Eravate presenti quando avevano bisogno di qualcuno di comodo.

Quando volevano una ragazza per il gusto di avere una relazione, quando volevano essere una ragazza di ripiego per aiutarli a guarire il loro cuore spezzato e quando la paura di rimanere soli li sopraffaceva. 

Da quando si può ricordare, you’ve always been a man’s second best. La brava ragazza che in teoria dà loro tutto ciò di cui hanno bisogno, ma anche la ragazza che non amano mai veramente.

To put things simply, you’re a good girlfriend “on paper”. You are good looking, people consider you funny and interesting, and you’re definitely anything but stupid.

So, at the end of the day, you actually have no idea why your relationships end. You never get the closure you need and every guy who has broken up with you just tells you that you’re not the one. 

None of them have seen you as their forever person. You’ve never felt their unconditional love and undivided attention.

Invece, ciascuno dei tuoi fidanzati ti ha amato con metà dei loro cuori.

Per loro andavi bene finché non trovavano qualcun altro, o mentre aspettavano pazientemente una ragazza che li metteva in attesa.

It’s like they used you as a passing station instead of a final destination. They needed you on their journey to finding true love instead of seeing you as their goal.

A dire il vero, la verità, all of the loves you’ve had were temporary– you were someone who served the moment.

Nessun uomo nella sua vita l'ha vista come qualcosa di permanente. o come donna con cui invecchiare.

Di conseguenza, you can’t help but feel like a consolation prize. Come la ragazza a cui i ragazzi si rivolgono quando non c'è nessuno di meglio in giro e quella a cui si rivolgono quando tutti gli altri li abbandonano.

The worst part is that you’ve tried your best in each one of your relationships. You’ve never held parts of yourself back and each time, you’ve hoped you’ve finally found your match made in heaven.

However, it’s always turned out to be different. You’ve always ended up feeling like a supporting role and you’ve never actually had the chance to be the star of your own love movie. 

Well, I’m here to ask you not to lose hope. Potrebbe non sembrare così ora, ma credetemi quando vi dico che nessuno di questi ragazzi è stato quello che fa per voi, sia. 

Nessuno di loro è stato l'anima gemella e la persona per sempre. Sapete perché? Perché quell'uomo deve ancora incrociare il vostro cammino.

As painful as this might be, the truth is that there are some things beyond your comprehension and some events you can’t impact, as much as you try.

What I’m trying to tell you is that none of your past relationships were meant to last. None of your exes were meant to be yours and there is nothing you can really do about it.

However, that doesn’t mean that your Prince Charming won’t come eventually. 

It doesn’t mean that you’re sentenced to a loveless life just because you’ve had a few bad experiences. It doesn’t mean that you’re not meant to be loved or that you should give up on relationships altogether. 

Fidatevi di me quando vi dico che uno di questi giorni il vostro destino cambierà drasticamente.

There will come a man who will love you in all the ways you’ve never been loved and a man who will always treat you as the only woman in the world. 

A man who won’t see you as a rebound, as a girl to pick up his broken pieces, or as something temporary. Un uomo che è destinato ad essere vostro e che vi vedrà come il suo unico e solo. 

Dovete solo aspettare il momento giusto. Inoltre, bisogna essere pronti al suo arrivo.

Perché when he comes, he’ll make you realize why it’s never worked with anyone before him.