6 modi per eccitarlo senza nemmeno provarci

Conoscere l'eccitazione più grande per il proprio uomo è il desiderio ultimo di ogni ragazza. Riuscire a farlo passare da indifferente a completamente attento è il sogno che si cerca di realizzare a tutti i costi.

The thing is, the biggest turn-on is not always wearing those sexy fishnet stockings or lace underwear that he absolutely loves. Sometimes it’s other things that mean just as much – if not more.

Don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing sexier than a confident woman in a pair of sexy as hell underwear making a move on her man, making him want her more and more with each passing second.

I love power females – those who know how to assert themselves and rightfully get theirs.

C'è una certa forza in questo, e complimenti a tutte le donne che sanno come usare a proprio vantaggio ciò che Dio ha dato loro.

Ma oltre al sex appeal e alle buffonate sexy in camera da letto, ci sono modi per farlo eccitare inconsapevolmente, senza nemmeno provarci.

When you’ve been with il tuo uomo for a while, other things take precedent over those more on the “superficial” side.

E in questi momenti, il vostro uomo cerca qualcosa di più profondo che non sia solo il vostro corpo sexy e un sorriso seducente.

But don’t worry, you most certainly provide him with all of that without even knowing it has that huge of an impact on him!

Here’s all the ways you turn him on, without trying!

Appoggiando la testa sul suo petto

As hot as sex and under-the-sheet action is, there is nothing quite like that soothing, comfortable feeling of having your head rest on your beloved partner’s chest after a long, hard day, knowing there’s no place either of you would rather be.

Stare sdraiati sul divano, parlare, coccolarsi e sentirsi al sicuro e protetti è tutta l'intimità di cui si ha bisogno a volte. Lui lo ama più di quanto tu possa immaginare, perché ama essere il tuo porto sicuro.

Adora essere quello con cui ci si può riposare in silenzio, senza aspettarsi nulla di diverso da una coccola e da una bacio sulla fronte.

Con lui siete al sicuro e questa è l'intimità di cui ha davvero bisogno.

Scrivergli a caso che lo ami

Imagine this. You’re at work, busy as hell. Everyone around you is in a fuss, running around, asking things of you, and you don’t know what to do first.

And then you look down as your phone screen lights up, and it’s your love reminding you of how much he loves you and that he’s thinking of you.

In quel momento, c'è qualcosa di meglio che potrebbe accadere? È proprio questo che vi dà una prospettiva e una rassicurazione.

È questo che ti spinge ad andare avanti e ti fa capire che puoi fare qualsiasi cosa.

Everything suddenly becomes doable and there’s an almost palpable sense of serenity consuming you.

You have somebody waiting for you, who can’t wait to see you, and that’s all it takes for your man to feel like the luckiest guy on earth.

Apprezzare un piccolo, ma gentilissimo gesto che ha fatto per lei

You know those days when you don’t know where your head is? You have zero time for housework and picking up the dry-cleaning?

Per non parlare delle passeggiate con il cane. La vostra agenda è semplicemente pazzesca! Ma in quei momenti avete il vostro uomo a cui appoggiarvi.

He gladly takes out the trash, does the house chores, and even walks your dog. He doesn’t even mention it; he does it because ti ama e vuole essere presente per voi.

E quando gli mostrate gratitudine per avervi aiutato in questo modo, si sente amato e apprezzato.

When you tell him how much you appreciate having him around and helping you like that, it’s priceless to him, and all that he needs to hear, because he’s always got your back and he’s happy you know that!

Playing with his hair as he’s driving

You’re on a road trip, there’s music blasting, and you’re laughing at his silly jokes, while running your fingers through his hair.

That might seem like nothing, but to him – it’s everything!

I never really realized how much that means to a dude until my boyfriend told me how much he loves it when I’m playing with his hair, especially while we’re in a car and he’s driving.

So ladies, don’t underestimate the subtle power of touch! Your man loves it more than he’s letting on. TRUST me.

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Taggandolo in una foto carina su Facebook (insieme alla didascalia più adorabile)

Come on… who doesn’t love being bragged about on social media dall'altro?

When you show your love for your man to your entire friend list on Facebook, you’re showing him how much you love him and are proud of having him.

Some people tend to go a bit overboard with their exclamations of love and affection on social media, but as long as you don’t post about him 5 times a week, it’s all good (it’s awesome actually!)

You’re kind of telling the world: “This one’s all mine, I love him to death, and I’m happy to have you all know that!”

Listening when he’s talking about his fantasy football team

I know you may not be the biggest football fan or know anything about fantasy football… but listening to your man for 5 minutes isn’t really that hard, is it? And it means the world to him!

So when you actually pay attention when he’s going off about it, you’re making him a very happy man.

Avere una ragazza con cui può parlare di una delle cose che preferisce al mondo (dopo te, ovviamente!) è una grande eccitazione!

You don’t even have to know much about his interests in general, as long as you listen and react appropriately (actually caring), he knows he’s hit the jackpot.