7 sottili segnali del linguaggio del corpo che ti sta mentendo (e tu te la bevi)

It’s hard to spot a liar, especially because some people are too good at it. No matter what situation you put them in, they know how to tell you a believable story in a matter of seconds.

Fanno la faccia da poker e mentono su tutto ciò che li mette a disagio. Se il vostro ragazzo vi fa queste cose, or you suspect that he’s lying, it makes you feel like crap.

Not only that you feel that way, but he causes you to have trust issues after you’ve hardly even begun to trust him in the first place.

You can’t have firm proof that someone is lying to you unless you catch them unprepared with their shield down and actually catch them in the act. However, there are physical body language signs that can help you cast aside your doubts.

No, he won’t grow a nose like Pinocchio, but he will present certain gestures and behaviors that will blow his cover.

1. His lips and mouth don’t match

It’s been scientifically proven that every mood has its own facial expression. For example, when you’re sad and crying and tears roll down your face, your mouth gets shortened to match with your eyes.

Or when you’re happy and you’re laughing, your mouth gets wider for a smile and your eyes perk up and glitter like they are smiling too. But when you’re dealing with a liar, his eyes and his mouth don’t get along.

That’s why lying does not have a natural response from your body to certain situations, as it’s a controlled reaction to the outside input. If you see this difference on his face while he’s talking to you, he is probably lying.

2. È nervoso

He starts fidgeting or tapping nervously with his fingers or his legs because he’s trying to hide something. He wants to appear calm and relaxed, but he is showing completely the opposite behavior.

He’s probably trying to hide something from you and his lying presents itself in the way he behaves. His body actions give him away.

3. Gioca con l'orecchio

Quando le persone mentono, il loro corpo fa cose di cui non sono nemmeno consapevoli. Il corpo rifiuta le parole che escono dalla bocca perché sono innaturali, sono bugie.

Detto questo, il loro corpo sta letteralmente lottando contro la loro menzogna, vuole impedire loro di sentire la menzogna che hanno appena pronunciato.

That’s why with men, your guy starts pressing and playing with his ears, pulling them and scratching the insides. It’s a common telltale sign that someone’s lying to you.

Now, if he’s on the border of being a sociopatico, he will be aware of these telltale signs and he will control them, but if he is just a regular liar, these things he does subconsciously will show he’s lying.

4. Evita di guardarvi

He avoids looking you directly in your eyes because he is scared his eyes might give away the fact that he’s lying. He’s scared that you might recognize the unease he feels deep inside from just one look into his eyes.

So, the next time you see he is avoiding eye contact, you can be sure he has done something wrong and doesn’t want to face you because he’s lying.

5. Cambia la sua voce

The tone of his voice becomes different and this is probably due to the fact that his heart races and his feelings become a bit more passionate inside. He is telling a lie and again his body is fighting it because it’s not its natural state.

His voice can become higher or lower, that depends, but make sure to pay attention to that the next time you ask him something you think he’s lying about.

Se la sua voce diventa diversa da quella abituale, probabilmente c'è un problema da risolvere con lui.

6. Il suo respiro cambia

La mancanza di respirazione si manifesta quando si affrontano situazioni spiacevoli che rendono nervosi e ansiosi.

When your guy seems to be gasping for air when talking to you, it probably means that his heart is racing and his pulse has gone up because he’s telling you a lie which has caused a shortage of breath.

Prestate attenzione a questo segnale perché è facile che vi sfugga e che siate vittime dell'ennesima menzogna.

7. Nasconde le mani

O, per essere più precisi, nasconde i palmi delle mani, o almeno ci prova. Quando un ragazzo vuole condividere qualcosa di sincero con voi, vi prenderà le mani e vi guarderà dritto negli occhi (una delle cose più preziose che si possano fare). consigli per gli appuntamenti con le donne). 

But when he’s lying to you, he will hide his hands behind his back or put them in his pockets.