8 consigli sensazionali per far durare i preliminari più a lungo

Se i preliminari non sono buoni, potete dire addio al grande sesso. Preliminari e caldo posizioni di pomiciata giocano un ruolo enorme in entrambi i farle trovare l'umore giusto e di portare una donna all'orgasmo.

Guys are usually all fired up and ready to go at any time of the day and pretty much anywhere, and most of them don’t need foreplay at all. But women, on the other hand, think and feel a bit differently.

Guys don’t understand that they need to work us up to get us there. They need to really try hard in all our strategic places if they want to hear our screams of pleasure later on.

Altrimenti, l'unica cosa che sentiranno saranno delle finte urla da pornostar che nascondono il fatto che vogliamo che la faccia finita.

Most women can never get enough foreplay and I can’t stress enough how important it is for the activity that follows. So, if you really want mind-blowing sex, check out the tips that will help you get there:

Spogliarsi lentamente

Don’t rush into taking your clothes off. Do it slowly, sensually and that will work the both of you up. Just the actual expectation of what is about to happen will turn you on like crazy.

Touch your partner everywhere, slowly take their shirt off and kiss your partner all over. Also, stripping is a huge possibility here. You can do pretty much anything that crosses your mind, just don’t rush anywhere.

Massaggio

Who doesn’t like a good massage, especially if it’s a sexual massage created solely for one purpose—to get you all worked up and ready to have the greatest orgasm of your life.

It’s not easy to just let go and relax, especially if you had a busy day—you’re not in the mood for sesso subito. Quindi, un lungo massaggio le farà bene.

Vi rilasserete e vi libererete di tutto lo stress e sarete pronti per fare l'amore in modo straordinario.

Pomiciare

Focus on the kissing, but don’t go all in right away. Just start with a nice warm kiss and then slowly bite his lower lip before you introduce the tongue.

È scientificamente provato che il bacio dà una sensazione di vicinanza e di legame con la persona, che automaticamente rilassa e risveglia gli altri sensi.

Trace your tongue around the curves of his lips and pay attention to the thin skin at the corners. This will definitely get you where you’re heading.

Siate vocali

You’re not going to scream right away because that might give a wrong impression to your partner. But, as the situation goes further, be more vocal.

Moan, giggle, scream, do whatever you feel like doing. Match how you’re feeling with the way you’re expressing yourself. And don’t worry about being too loud—just stick your head in a pillow and give it all you’ve got.

Chiedere ciò che si vuole

Don’t expect your partner to read your mind, especially if the thing you have going is still new.

Chiedete ciò che volete. Ad esempio, se siete in vena di baci, diteglielo, o se volete godere di qualcosa di più perverso, ditelo.

Believe me, you’re going to have so much more fun if you actually say what you want and not wait and hope for him to guess.

Chiedete al vostro partner cosa vuole

Quindi, la cosa importante da fare è anche ascoltare. Se vi aspettate che qualcuno esaudisca i vostri desideri, dovete dargli qualcosa in cambio.

And if both conditions are met properly, you’ll have yourself killer foreplay which naturally leads to sesso fantastico. Non siate mai egoisti!

Utilizzare giocattoli sessuali

Maybe you’ve tried this and maybe you didn’t, but you won’t regret it if you do. Bringing different props or using sex toys will spice things up and bring a whole different twist to your foreplay.

Try to be open to suggestions, but don’t do something you don’t want to. It will definitely kill the mood and you won’t have as much fun as you were hoping for. In short, agreeing to everything will kill the mood. 

Prendersi in giro a vicenda

Durante la penetrazione, fate delle pause. Portatelo sull'orlo dell'orgasmo e poi rallentate. Fatelo un paio di volte e lo farete impazzire.

Don’t rush to the main act because he would want it, but really take him to the verge of madness—madness for you.