È semplice: Se non ti sta inseguendo, non vuole stare con te

È difficile essere onesti con se stessi quando le emozioni si scatenano. Senti quello che vuoi sentire. Si notano i segni che lui è interessato a te, anche se non ci sono davvero.

You do everything to convince yourself that he cares. Maybe it’s a bit less than you do, but still there are some feelings there.

But there aren’t any, not genuine feelings at least. He might like you.

He might drop by when it’s convenient. He might give you crumbs but he will never be all in.

It’s simple really, and we shouldn’t complicate things. If a man wants you, he will pursue you.

If he doesn’t, he might be living across the street, and he would still find excuses not to see you.

The desire to pursue is incorporated into a man’s DNA. He will go after the one he wants, and he will do the impossible to be by her side.

If he doesn’t, he is not interested in having a real and committed relationship.

It’s just that it’s so hard to be aware of that sometimes. Not just because you are so in love that you can’t see clearly but because most men want something, but they don’t want everything.

Quindi >costringerti a fare il giro del mondo . Vi servono bugie e conoscono tutte le parole giuste da dire per farvi rimanere al loro fianco.

Vi daranno abbastanza per resistere, ma mai abbastanza per sapere che il loro cuore è solo vostro.

He will have his charming days. Days in which you’ll be sure he’s totally into you. Then he will flip the story upside down.

He will forget to text you, sometimes even for days. He will come by when it’s convenient. He will get mad without a reason.

E vi sentirete confusi da tutto questo. Avrete un milione di domande che vi frullano in testa.

Cercherete di andare a fondo delle cose. Vi metterete in discussione e comincerete a pensare che sia stato qualcosa che avete fatto voi.

Stop! He’s not worth it. He’s not worth your time. He’s not worth the chase.

There’s no point in going after someone who always has one foot out of the door.

There’s no happiness with a man who is not one hundred percent sure about his feelings for you.

Don’t be a woman who waits for his text as if her life depended on it. Don’t let him come in and out of your life as he pleases.

Don’t let him treat you like a doormat. Don’t settle for less than you deserve.

Your feelings aren’t toys he can play with. Your mind isn’t something that he should mess with.

Your body isn’t at his disposal. Don’t let him think that for a second.

Siate una donna che conosce il proprio valore. Sii sicura di te. Sii coraggiosa. Sii indipendente.

Prendete in mano la vostra vita e la vostra felicità.

Never allow a man to waste your time. Don’t wait for him to change. He never will.

Be the one who doesn’t measure her value by her relationship status. Be the one who knows that being single is always better than putting up with a crappy relationship.

Don’t deny yourself the right to be with someone who can give you that old-fashioned type of love the one in which a man courts you and stops at nothing until he makes you his.

No, this way of thinking is not a fairy tale. It’s true, and it exists. It’s just that you don’t see it because of the all wrong men that surround you.

Aspettate la storia d'amore in cui un uomo vi dimostra di essere interessato a voi. Quella in cui si pianifica in anticipo. Quella in cui si ricorda di mandare un messaggio.

Quella in cui trova il tempo. Quello in cui vi mostra quanto siete importanti. Quella in cui vi insegue.

That’s not too much to ask. You deserve a real love story with a man who is devoted to you.

You deserve someone who will respect you and be there for you at all times. You deserve someone who accepts your flaws and doesn’t rub your nose in them every time he feels like it.

Meritate qualcuno su cui appoggiarvi, un uomo che sia il vostro più grande sostenitore e che vi ispiri a fare grandi cose.

Meritate l'amore che vi fa sentire al sicuro. Meritate la realtà, non qualcosa di falso e temporaneo.

Don’t put up with >segnali misti e con pochi sforzi. Dovete essere la sua priorità, non un'opzione.

You should be his destination, not a stop along the way. Remember that, and don’t fall for his lame excuses.

Rest assured that the man you are supposed to end up with will pursue you. He won’t complicate things and make your life a living hell.

Vi dimostrerà che l'amore non è mai forzato. Fluisce sempre in modo naturale dal suo cuore al vostro e viceversa.