Quando vi chiederà di sposarlo? 13 segni che è pronto a fare la domanda
Open your eyes wide and engage every possible sense you have. Only then will you get the answer to your question of when he will propose, and might I add, you’ll get the correct answer to a very important question.
Perché è così importante riconoscere i segnali giusti? You don’t want to get yourself into a situation where you’re ready to be proposed to and furthermore, you’re convinced farà la domandama non succede mai nulla.
Avrete letto male i suoi sottili segnali e avrete immaginato che una proposta di matrimonio fosse all'orizzonte.
Vi siete anche fatti la manicure e avete messo all'anulare l'anello del vostro gioielliere preferito. Avete anche scelto le vostre damigelle.
Imagine the heartbreak and disappointment you’d be faced with just because you thought something was a sure sign and it turned out to be nothing.
That’s why it’s important to recognize all the subtle ways he lets you know something’s up, and he’s getting closer to revealing an engagement ring.
Chiunque può sorprendervi in qualsiasi momento e di solito quando meno ve lo aspettate.
Just make sure you don’t make a terrible mistake by assuming a romantic proposal is going to take place, if you’re not sure.
Questo può creare una situazione di disagio o addirittura portare a una rottura improvvisa.
For example, I had a friend who took his girlfriend on a romantic getaway to Paris on Valentine’s day.
I get it, Paris is the most romantic city in the world (at least that’s the city’s reputation), so crazy ideas start running through your mind and you can easily get carried away.
He took her to the Eiffel Tower and she thought, ‘there it is, he’s going to pop the question’, already imagining the ring size and thinking about calling her family members.
Of course, he didn’t plan on proposing to her, he just wanted them to have a nice trip and enjoy a few date nights in a romantic city to the fullest.
I cannot stress enough that the ride from the tower to the hotel was a very awkward one, since she was convinced he was going to propose to her, and he hadn’t.
Dopo che lui le ha chiesto cosa c'era che non andava, lei ha risposto in modo molto deluso che andava tutto bene, ma era così evidente che era terribilmente delusa.
Qualche settimana dopo si sono lasciati perché la loro relazione ha preso una piega inaspettata dopo quel piccolo incidente.
Read the signs right and you’ll get the correct answer to your question of when he will propose (or whether you should smettere di aspettare la sua proposta di matrimonio)!
Quando vi chiederà di sposarlo? 13 segni che è pronto a fare la domanda
1. He’s seriously thinking about marriage
Le sue conversazioni con voi iniziano ad avere un tono più serio. Le sue domande sono legate al futuro.
He’ll suddenly be interested in what you want to do in five years, where you want to be.
He is interested in topics related to kids and parenting. He’ll ask about more serious topics than he usually does.
Le vostre convinzioni politiche e la vostra visione della vita in generale lo interesseranno improvvisamente molto.
Not only will he be more interested in your life by asking you a ton of questions, he’ll talk to your family and friends more.
No guy will ask you to marry him unless he is absolutely sure you’ll fall into his arms with a big fat, “YES!”.
So, in order to be sure you’ll say yes, every guy will do everything in his power to get a positive vibe on the marriage issue.
2. Il momento è perfetto
This sign you have to figure out on your own, but be careful not to ‘imagine’ things which are actually not happening just because you want to tie the knot so badly.
Il motivo principale per cui gli uomini decidono di sistemarsi e sposarsi è che il momento è quello giusto e che sono sicuri di essere con la persona giusta.
Raggiungono una certa età in cui non hanno più bisogno di rincorrere donne diverse e di evitare l'impegno, e anzi vogliono l'esatto contrario.
Hanno trascorso molto tempo a divertirsi e ora vogliono sistemarsi, trovare una brava donna e passare il resto della loro vita insieme.
Usually, they won’t settle down before they have their life planned out, before they have a secure future with a steady job.
And if your man checks these boxes, that is indeed a good sign he’s getting ready to propose.
3. Diventa serio nel risparmiare denaro
I matrimoni costano, lo sanno tutti. Anche la convivenza e la creazione di una famiglia costano.
Prima di decidere di sistemarsi e di passare al livello successivo, ogni uomo vuole assicurarsi che il suo futuro sia pianificato dal punto di vista finanziario. Dopo tutto, devono acquistare l'anelloun investimento non da poco.
So if you’ve noticed your significant other is starting to put some money aside without hiding it but he’s not telling you why he needs that money and he kind of avoids that topic in general, he’s most probably going to ask you to marry him.
4. Vi attraete a vicenda
Potete dire a voi stessi quello che volete, ma l'aspetto conta. Deve esserci una sorta di attrazione fisica tra voi due se volete trascorrere il resto della vostra vita in un matrimonio felice.
Just liking each other on the first date isn’t going to cut it. You really need to feel a great attrazione sessuale e da questa attrazione nascerà l'amore.
Having said that, hotter people don’t easily get married like average-looking people.
Maybe this sounds a bit too harsh but it’s true. The reason for that is perfectly logical. Hotter people don’t look like people who will stay faithful.
Le loro opzioni sono più ampie perché, tecnicamente parlando, le loro possibilità di sedurre qualcuno sono un po' più alte.
Naturalmente, l'aspetto è solo una parte dell'intero pacchetto che ogni persona cerca in una persona.
Prendete la loro personalità e tutto il resto, oltre all'aspetto, e avrete la persona perfetta per voi.
The most important thing which can assure you that someday you’ll get married is the attraction—it always has to be present.
5. He says you’d be a great mother
He’s sending you a huge sign that he’s definitely ready to be a father. If you didn’t know, men also have a biological clock, and it’s ticking.
At some point in a relationship, most men will feel the need to become a father, to become someone’s role model and take care of somebody who depends on them to survive.
Avere figli è il motivo principale per cui la maggior parte degli uomini decide di sposarsi.
Otherwise, commitment is a big issue that’s always very much present.
6. His friends claim he’s different around you
Not bad different but just different—meaning considerate and loving, careful and gentle.
He most surely isn’t the same person they are used to having around.
None of them have seen him as happy as when he’s with you, and he never treated any of his past girlfriends the way he treats you. One other important thing.
Before you, he would never mention marriage, but now, it’s a frequent topic of discussion.
7. He comments on your friends’ engagement rings
It would be super strange if he came to you all of a sudden asking you what type of engagement ring you’d like one day.
It would raise questions, and you’d definitely suspect he was preparing to propose to you.
Research says that 66% of grooms report picking out the perfect ring for their better half by commenting on other people’s engagement rings whenever they post it on their social media.
That’s how they get the general idea of what you like and what you don’t like.
If you notice your partner trying to get some clues as to what kind of jewelry you like, especially engagement rings, you can be sure he’s going to ask you to marry him very soon. Play it cool. Don’t show you know, it will ruin the surprise.
8. Frequenta la vostra famiglia e i vostri amici senza di voi
Is he sneaking out without you knowing to meet your family or your best friend? If you ask me, that’s a particularly shady behavior, and there must be something hidden behind it. But don’t worry, it’s nothing bad, it’s the complete opposite.
He’s gathering information about you, so that the proposal he’s planning sweeps you off your feet.
Mandare un sms alla vostra migliore amica ogni volta che gli viene un'idea, solo per sottoporla a lei, e parlare con la vostra famiglia sono i modi migliori per farlo. Chi vi conosce meglio di loro?
9. Ha insistito sull'impegno fin dall'inizio della relazione.
If this isn’t a sign he’s going to marry you, I don’t know what is.
We all know at least a few men who’ve been in long-term relationships which failed and right after their relationship, they met someone else and got married very soon. There is only one simple reason for that.
When you meet someone you know is right for you, you don’t wait; you go all in because you don’t want to lose them.
If your guy insisted on commitment early on, you can be almost positive about what the next step is—it’s marriage of course.
10. Vuole conoscere i vostri piani in anticipo
Per quanto riguarda voi, la proposta è arrivata all'improvviso ed è stata una grande sorpresa.
What you don’t know is that his every move was carefully planned with the intention of keeping you clueless.
Non vi rendete conto di quanti sforzi siano stati fatti per rendere la proposta una sorpresa.
Solo dopo che ti ha fatto la grande domanda inizi a pensare a come ha fatto.
E poi si torna indietro e si ricordano tutte le domande sui vostri piani, su dove sareste stati, su cosa avevate intenzione di fare e quando.
All those questions weren’t in vain. They were part of making the plan.
11. I vostri amici sono improvvisamente così interessati al vostro partner
Come ormai sapete, se il vostro partner inizia a frequentare i vostri amici e soprattutto i membri della vostra famiglia, sta tramando qualcosa, il che significa anche che i vostri genitori e la vostra famiglia sanno cosa sta combinando.
If you’re suspecting he might pop the question, the best way to be sure he’s going to propose is by paying attention to how your family treats him.
Let’s say they weren’t so keen on him at the beginning of the relationship, but now all of a sudden, they show interest in everything about him. Isn’t that a bit strange?
12. He’s a bit edgy and nervous
Of course he is, he’s about to make the biggest decision of his life. No one would stay indifferent before making a decision like that. The general change in his attitude is a huge sign that something is about to happen.
If your relationship is going exactly how you want and there aren’t any problems, then the reason why he’s tense is obvious—he’s going to ask you to marry him.
There are two biggest moments in every guy’s life, and those are asking a girl out on a primo appuntamento e fare una proposta di matrimonio a qualcuno.
If you see he has changed and is constantly asking for confirmation of your love (assuming that your relationship is not in crisis), prepare yourself to say, “Yes,” when the right time comes along.
13. He’s interested in other people’s weddings
I matrimoni sono di solito qualcosa che gli uomini cercano di evitare, soprattutto se non fanno sul serio con voi.
But if your partner shows interest in going to a wedding with you for some reason, I say it’s a huge sign, and you should go in search of a wedding dress.
Vedetela in questo modo. Vuole andare a un matrimonio con voi perché vuole vedere le vostre reazioni alla musica, alle decorazioni o vuole conoscere la vostra impressione generale.
Vuole scoprire cosa vi piace e cosa vi rende felici.
Don’t be hasty, and don’t form a conclusion before you are absolutely sure he’s going to propose to you.
On the other hand, just be patient and you’ll see, but don’t be crazy and wait for one guy your whole life.
