Se fai queste 7 cose, sei un vero alfa

An alpha knows exactly what she wants, how she wants it and she won’t apologize for it. She believes her attitudes are right, but she is not a stubborn child who will keep pushing her own opinion no matter what.

Una donna alfa è ragionevole e giusta. Una vera donna alfa considera entrambi gli aspetti prima di prendere una decisione. È fedele a se stessa.

Tutte le donne vogliono essere loro e gli uomini vogliono uscire con loro. E come al solito, gli haters odieranno soprattutto perché sono intimiditi da loro e pensano che gli alfa siano migliori di loro in molte cose. Ma la scelta spetta a loro.

Either they can hate them silently and do nothing about it, or they can try to work harder and be better because…

Non si nasce alfa. Si diventa un alfa.

Alphas are leaders. Some people are born with leadership and some aren’t, but it doesn’t mean that you can’t change. We change on a daily basis. Our experiences, good and bad, try to teach us lessons we can learn to become better and better. But, only if we want to.

È probabile che, se state leggendo questo articolo, siate in realtà una donna alfa; tuttavia, leggete questi segnali per accertarvene:

1. Non avete paura di stare da soli

You are not terrified of being single because you are aware of the fact that you are the person who matters the most in your life and you don’t need a man to feel important. You won’t be broken and cry for the rest of your life if he leaves you. You are going to hurt because that is normal but not for long.

You’re going to pick yourself up and move on with your life. Maybe you’ll catch up with reading, start a hobby or try something new you’ve been wanting for some time. The point is, life goes on and so do you.

2. Riconoscere i propri errori

You’re not stubborn and if you make a mistake, you will own up to it. You will admit it because that is what strong women do. They say when they are wrong. A lot of people have the wrong opinion when it comes to alpha women. They think alphas are incapable of admitting a mistake or apologizing.

Ma la verità è ben diversa. In realtà, gli alfa si sentono così a proprio agio nella loro pelle that it’s not a big deal to admit they were wrong. They are that mature and that’s why this makes them so fucking awesome.

3. Siete ben strutturati e lo sapete

Siete in grado di fare praticamente tutto e tutti i vostri amici, quando hanno un problema, chiamano voi prima di chiamare chiunque altro. Dalle emergenze idrauliche a quelle della manicure, sei la ragazza da chiamare.

It’s not that you are a know-it-all who sticks her head into everybody’s business. It’s just that you are willing to learn and are not afraid to get dirty to get the job done.

4. Chiamate le cose con il loro vero nome

A real alpha calls a spade a spade. She doesn’t turn a blind eye to things she doesn’t want to see. She faces all of her problems because she is not scared to face them.

She knows she will solve them because she’ll try to find the best solution. She never gives up. So, if a guy wants to be with her, he has to man up and start facing the reality as it is, like she does.

5. You’re a team player

Although you are more than capable of doing things by yourself and you don’t need anyone’s help, when team work is needed, you are up for it. You know how to cooperate with others and how to listen to what everyone’s got to say.

You always support your teammates and you’ve got their back if something bad happens. Everyone would kill for having you in their team.

6. You are aware that you don’t know everything

You are not a know-it-all and you don’t act like it. You know there is always some more space to learn new things. People learn new things throughout their whole lives.

You’re always aspiring to learn new things and that’s why you are aware that you don’t know everything and this is what saves you from being arrogant.

You know that you can learn from others, and that’s why you let them lead because although you’re good at it, it doesn’t mean that no one else can get una possibilità per provarlo.

7. Non vi arrendete mai

You know that things are not over until you say so. As long as you keep fighting for what you want, there is a possibility that you are going to make it. And even if you don’t, you won’t give up. You’ll try again and again until you do. That is your biggest quality.