Love is a wild, wonderful rollercoaster, and let’s face it–none of us gets a handbook. Each zodiac sign has its own love lesson to master. Let’s see what yours is!
1. Aries (March 21st to April 19th)
No matter how much you love someone you cannot always put their broken pieces together. Sometimes, people need to heal on their own.
It’s not your job to save people. There’s an image in your head of the person your partner could potentially be if you alter some of their parts.
You need to stop trying to fix them in order to match that image. Love is only real if we accept our partner for who they are.
2. Taurus (April 20th to May 21st)
You want passion and perfection in your relationship. Sometimes, though, love is not perfect. It can be very messy.
You need to learn to accept the difficult parts of love as well as the most beautiful. Love cannot always be a glorious, amazing journey where everything runs smoothly. Learn to not only accept but love the messiness.
3. Gemini (May 22nd to June 21st)
Gemini, there are so many people around you who could make you incredibly happy if only you would stop searching for ‘’the one’’.
You have to stop looking for perfection in your partner and start appreciating all the wonderful things about them.
4. Cancer (June 22nd to July 22nd)
Open yourself up to love. You are desperate for someone to love you honestly and caringly but instead of showing your vulnerabilities and letting the right person adore you for them, you close yourself off.
Let someone love you, you deserve it.
5. Leo (July 23rd to August 22nd)
All people love differently, and there’s hardly anyone who loves as hard as you do. You give everything you have to the person you love and there aren’t many people who can match this.
You are dedicated and you have so much to give, and that’s why your expectations are high. Just because someone doesn’t give as much as you do doesn’t mean they don’t love you as much as they can.
6. Virgo (August 23rd to September 22nd)
Concentrating on your partner’s imperfections costs you love. Focus on finding the person whose flaws make them even more lovable.
Remind yourself and your partner that little quirks are exactly what make people unique, and being unique means being irreplaceable.
Perfection only exists if you make it for yourself.
7. Libra (September 23rd to October 22nd)
Love may not always be perfectly balanced but it is still real. In love, there isn’t always equal devotion and equal effort.
You can’t control how much you and your partner put into your relationship. As long as you feel appreciated and cared for, that’s all that matters.
8. Scorpio (October 23rd to November 22nd)
There is no love without trust. No relationship will function without it. You need to stop waiting for the other person to make a mistake that will prove they aren’t worthy of trust.
You won’t find happiness until you allow yourself to believe your loved one won’t hurt you, lie to you or deceive you. Stop expecting betrayal from people.
Look at it this way, no matter how much you prepare for it, it won’t hurt any less if it happens. Why waste good time and ruin relationships that might work if you only had a little faith?
9. Sagittarius (November 23rd to December 21st)
You shouldn’t be afraid of love ruining your otherwise amazing life. Love can be anything you want it to be. Love’s not a ball and chain.
Let true love find you, inspire you, and motivate you to be even better on the life path you’ve chosen. Love can be as thrilling as you make it. Don’t run from it – put in some effort, and watch it bloom.
10. Capricorn (December 22nd to January 20th)
No matter how much you resist love, it finds its ways. Protecting your heart is important, but hiding it from those who you intuitively feel won’t hurt you is just unnecessary.
Don’t hold back from love that feels right. Love isn’t something you can plan for and expect to happen. Accept it and let it purify your life.
11. Aquarius (January 21st to February 18th)
Don’t assume that your partner wants you to change every time you disagree with them. You can be yourself and still be in love.
Relationships (real ones) don’t take away your personality and your individuality. It’s absolutely possible to have love and live your life the way you want.
12. Pisces (February 19th to March 20th)
Even when no one loves you – you’re wonderful. Don’t wait for love to make you feel like the person you already are and save you from the negativity in your life.
No matter how much you love someone and how much they love you, your problems will still be there.
The love your partner has for you and everything you share will help you get through the hard times, but it won’t chase them away completely.
Learn to work on yourself, for yourself.