Ever since you can remember, you were the one who cared more in your relationships and the one who fell in love with the other person first.
And this was especially the case at the beginning. When you fall for a guy, you simply lose control of yourself and he becomes the center of your universe.
Before you know it, you see your future together and you think he is the one. But soon after that, all of your hopes and dreams become shattered into pieces and you realize you overreacted.
Here are 5 signs you are the girl who gets attached too easily and what to do about it.
You don’t feel complete when you are alone
One of the things that make you get too attached to the guys in your life is the fact that you don’t feel complete when you are alone.
You simply don’t know how to embrace your single life and you feel less worthy when you are without a partner.
You are not happy while you are single and you are trying to find a guy who will change that.
Instead, you need to make sure to be happy and satisfied with your life even when you are alone and when that happens, the right guy can just be there to help fulfill that happiness and satisfaction.
You give your trust easily
It is great if you don’t have trust issues because it allows you to be more open to new relationships in your life, including romantic ones.
But sometimes that can also bring you a lot of troubles. Sometimes, giving your trust to anyone who walks into your life brings you more pain than you are aware of.
Whenever a man shows the slightest interest in you, you believe every word he says and it is natural for you to get disappointed when he turns out to be different from what he acted to be.
I am not saying you shouldn’t believe people but sometimes it wouldn’t hurt you to not believe them so blindly.
You confess your love right away
One of the signs that you are the type of girl who gets attached easily is the fact that you fall for every guy at the beginning of a romance and even before you know him for real.
And not only that but you make all of this clear to him, without ever holding your emotions back.
Although this only shows you are sincere and that you are not afraid of expressing your true emotions, which is a great thing, it would sometimes be better to wait until you become certain of your emotions and until you see what the other person feels and thinks.
Instead, you can appear as desperate and as too needy and they are things you want to avoid being.
You are too eager to commit
You are the type of girl who hates modern dating.
You want to know where you stand at every moment and you are not someone who enjoys having casual flings or relationships based on sex only.
And that is a great thing—you know what you want and you are not afraid to say it out loud and to go and get it.
And although you definitely shouldn’t allow a guy to lead you on by telling you he is not certain about what he wants and although you shouldn’t waste your time on a commitment-phobe, you can’t expect for things to be crystal clear from the first day.
You will only appear to be too eager to commit and that is something that can chase any guy away. Instead of behaving like this, be patient at the beginning and let things go their own course.
He becomes your number one priority
If you are looking for a real relationship, it is natural for you to think that you and your partner should be each other’s number one priority.
But something like that comes with time and doesn’t happen overnight, if you want it to last.
That means that you shouldn’t put aside the life you had before entering into a new relationship every time you meet a new guy.
I know you are scared that he won’t make you his priority but acting like he is the only person you have in life and putting everyone and everything aside, including your own interests, is one of the biggest mistakes you can make.
Instead of always concentrating on the man in your life, focus on the things that make you happy besides him and it will prevent you from not getting too attached to him too soon.
