10 bandiere rosse per gli sms da non ignorare mai
Ricordate i tempi in cui l'amore era molto più semplice e non c'erano ghosting, sms o Snapchatt?
Quando potevi capire com'era un uomo in base al suo comportamento nei tuoi confronti e a quanto desiderava vederti?
When you didn’t need help from all your female friends to understand what the hell his last text meant? Me neither.
Quindi, come sapere quali comportamenti negli sms sono bandiere rosse? Continuate a leggere e verificate se il vostro potenziale uomo è uno degli scopatori di messaggi!
Bombardamento del testo
It’s really great when you hit it off with him, when you’re texting all day and night and you’re just excited to get to know each other.
But if you’re at work and you told him that you won’t be able to text and he is still bombing your phone, that’s just a segno di un uomo troppo appiccicoso.
Per una conversazione bisogna essere in due, non solo un uomo fastidiosamente attaccato. Mi dispiace, ragazzi!
His phone is on airplane mode when he’s with you
There is no need to explain this one, actually. If he’s always super-active on social media but when he’s with you, his phone is on airplane mode, then you’re constantly wondering what the hell he is hiding.
E se vi dà la scusa di volersi concentrare su di voi, non è comunque necessario che spenga il telefono.
Può lasciarlo nella giacca o in un altro posto, ma spegnerlo è un vero e proprio segnale di allarme.
Risposte di una sola parola
Either the dude doesn’t know how this whole conversation thing works or he’s just not into you.
If you already know that he’s into you and that it’s just because he’s busy, then it’s okay.
But if you just met and all he is giving you is one-word answers, it just means that he’s not that interested in talking to you. Or he’s playing a game to make you work around him, which is still a red flag.
Ci mette un'eternità a rispondere
How is it possible that he missed your message if his phone is with him all the time? Let’s be real here, we are unable to function properly without our phone.
Ci serve per la sveglia, per ordinare cibo e taxi, per comunicare con gli amici, il lavoro e la famiglia, ecc.
How on earth can you miss a text? Or be so busy that it takes you days to respond? If he’s not making time for you, stop making time for him. It’s as simple as that. Don’t text him and he will text you.
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Testi in stato di ebbrezza
Se avete una relazione e lui vi manda un sms da ubriaco per dirvi quanto adora e quanto è importante per voi. ti ama, that’s cute.
Even a romance-phobe like me knows it. But if you just met and he’s texting you when he’s falling over from alcohol and wants to come over to your place, don’t answer.
Ever again. If he’s only texting you when he’s drunk, you’re nothing more than his late-night booty call and you deserve more than that.
Vi ignora per il suo telefono
If it seems like the only woman in his life is Siri, head for the door. If you’re out on a date and he’s on his phone all the time, what are you even doing there?
It won’t get any better, trust me on that. If he’s not interested in getting to know you in the early stages of dating, walk away.
Sms a tarda notte
You’re only texting when it’s late at night and it’s never anything deeper than ‘Come over, I’m bored’.
It makes you wonder what he’s doing all day so he’s only available at night.
And if you’re nothing more than a late-night call for some bedroom activity.
Chiede i nudi
Seriously? You guys just met and bam! ‘Send nudes’. When you’re in a relationship and you’re up for a little bit of fun while you’re at work, go for it!
It’s always a good thing to spice up your sex life. But if there is no sex life to spice up, what the hell?
Non manda mai messaggi per primo
Siete sempre voi a inviare il primo e l'ultimo messaggio? Siete sempre voi a iniziare le conversazioni?
Non scrive mai per primo, ma risponde sempre ai messaggi.
That’s just a sign of a one-sided conversation that will turn into a relazione unilaterale.
You can see from his text messages if he’s into you but this is a sign that he’s not. If he doesn’t text you back for daysQuesto è anche un segno della sua indifferenza e della sua mancanza di affetto.
Foto di cazzi
For the love of God, we don’t want unsolicited dick pics! I repeat, we don’t want them! It’s one thing if you’re sexting and you actually asked for them but sending them after no request and to top it off, asking for a nude in return, is just sick.
Lascia perdere il suo culo e trova qualcuno che ti mandi davvero un messaggio di buongiorno, non che ti mandi il suo triste, piccolo e rugoso pisello!
