5 factos surpreendentes que aprendi sobre os bons rapazes depois de perseguir os maus

Eu admito. Sempre tive um fraquinho por mauzões. Talvez seja porque eles conseguem fazer-nos sentir protegidos de uma forma que mais ninguém consegue.

Simplesmente sabem como mostrar o seu lado masculino e misturá-lo com o seu lado terno, de modo a que pareça perfeitamente equilibrado. Mas este equilíbrio custou-me os nervos e criou-me feridas no coração.

I’ve decided that I’m done chasing bad guys because this time, I want something different. I want to feel appreciated, respected and loved.

I don’t want to fight for love anymore. I am tired of it.

After chasing the bad ones, I’ve forgotten how it feels to be with the nice ones. I’ve forgotten how it feels to be someone’s priority and not just another play doll.

It’s taken time for me to get used being around nice guys, and it was really hard in the beginning. I didn’t know how to feel or if this was the right decision.

Mas, afinal, os rapazes simpáticos dão outro significado ao amor e ao afeto.
Here are 5 surprising facts that I’ve learned about nice guys after chasing the bad ones.

1. Apreciam o seu tempo.

While bad guys don’t give a shit if you’re going to wait on them for a couple of hours to show up on a date night, nice guys are completely different. Nice guys will make sure that they arrive earlier because they appreciate your time and don’t want you to wait on them.

Nice guys will always find time to answer your calls, no matter what they’re doing at the moment. They may be at work or at a meeting, but they’ll never miss a chance to call you back after it finishes.

They don’t want you to worry about them or to think that something bad has happened to them.
They want to make sure you’re safe and sound because your well-being is their number one priority.

2. Querem agradar-lhe de todas as formas possíveis.

Nice guys are not selfish when it comes to pleasing you in bed. They are more concerned with appeasing you than themselves. Nice guys will always make sure that you’ve finished first because their unselfish nature orders them to do so.

So, you don’t have to worry that they will only want to get the job done. They will invest their entire body and soul into what they’re doing at the moment, and they’ll make you feel like you’re the only girl in the world.

3. Não estão interessados em fazer jogos mentais.

If there’s one thing nice guys really hate, it is jogos mentais. Têm aversão a qualquer tipo de manipulação e autoridade imposta.

Nice guys want you to feel worthy and appreciated, no matter what you do or say. Even if you’re not right, they will not hold grudges against you just to make you feel bad about yourself for something you did or didn’t do.

Eles não estão interessados em fazer-te sentir mal. O seu motivo oculto é a tua felicidade e a tua despreocupação.
That is why it’s so easy to fall in love with them because you can never have any doubts regarding their loyalty.

4. They’re doers and not talkers.

Nice guys don’t say one thing and then don’t bother if you think it’s true or not. If they say something to you, they will make damn sure that they’ve proven it with their actions.

They know that actions speak louder than words, and they’ll do anything to prove this to you.
If a nice guy tells you that he loves you, he will follow it up by playing your favorite song on his guitar, or he’ll scream from the nearest skyscraper how much he loves you.

Os homens simpáticos esforçar-se-ão sempre por lhe provar até o impossível. Eles tentarão até conseguirem, e é isso que os torna perfeitos.

5. They’ll always treat you like a lady.

Os homens simpáticos abrem-lhe as portas. Levantam-se e trazem-te um copo de água a meio da noite, compram-te as compras, cozinham refeições deliciosas e fazem-te sentir em casa. Tomarão sempre conta de si e pô-lo-ão em primeiro lugar, independentemente da situação.

Os rapazes simpáticos dão-te o seu coração e nunca pedem nada em troca. Tratam-te como mereces e amam-te como ninguém.