5 datos sorprendentes que he aprendido sobre los chicos buenos después de perseguir a los malos

Lo admito. Siempre me han gustado los chicos malos. Tal vez sea porque pueden hacerte sentir protegido de una manera que nadie más puede.

Simplemente saben mostrar su lado masculino y mezclarlo con su lado tierno, de modo que parece perfectamente equilibrado. Pero, este equilibrio me ha costado los nervios y me ha creado heridas en el corazón.

I’ve decided that I’m done chasing bad guys because this time, I want something different. I want to feel appreciated, respected and loved.

I don’t want to fight for love anymore. I am tired of it.

After chasing the bad ones, I’ve forgotten how it feels to be with the nice ones. I’ve forgotten how it feels to be someone’s priority and not just another play doll.

It’s taken time for me to get used being around nice guys, and it was really hard in the beginning. I didn’t know how to feel or if this was the right decision.

Pero, resultó que los chicos buenos dan otro significado al amor y al afecto.
Here are 5 surprising facts that I’ve learned about nice guys after chasing the bad ones.

1. Aprecian su tiempo.

While bad guys don’t give a shit if you’re going to wait on them for a couple of hours to show up on a date night, nice guys are completely different. Nice guys will make sure that they arrive earlier because they appreciate your time and don’t want you to wait on them.

Nice guys will always find time to answer your calls, no matter what they’re doing at the moment. They may be at work or at a meeting, but they’ll never miss a chance to call you back after it finishes.

They don’t want you to worry about them or to think that something bad has happened to them.
They want to make sure you’re safe and sound because your well-being is their number one priority.

2. Quieren complacerte de todas las formas posibles.

Nice guys are not selfish when it comes to pleasing you in bed. They are more concerned with appeasing you than themselves. Nice guys will always make sure that you’ve finished first because their unselfish nature orders them to do so.

So, you don’t have to worry that they will only want to get the job done. They will invest their entire body and soul into what they’re doing at the moment, and they’ll make you feel like you’re the only girl in the world.

3. No les interesan los juegos mentales.

If there’s one thing nice guys really hate, it is juegos mentales. Sienten aversión hacia cualquier tipo de manipulación y autoridad impuesta.

Nice guys want you to feel worthy and appreciated, no matter what you do or say. Even if you’re not right, they will not hold grudges against you just to make you feel bad about yourself for something you did or didn’t do.

No les interesa hacerte sentir mal. Su motivo oculto es tu felicidad y tu despreocupación.
That is why it’s so easy to fall in love with them because you can never have any doubts regarding their loyalty.

4. They’re doers and not talkers.

Nice guys don’t say one thing and then don’t bother if you think it’s true or not. If they say something to you, they will make damn sure that they’ve proven it with their actions.

They know that actions speak louder than words, and they’ll do anything to prove this to you.
If a nice guy tells you that he loves you, he will follow it up by playing your favorite song on his guitar, or he’ll scream from the nearest skyscraper how much he loves you.

Los chicos buenos siempre se esforzarán por demostrarte hasta lo imposible. Lo intentarán hasta que lo consigan, y eso es lo que les hace perfectos.

5. They’ll always treat you like a lady.

Los chicos majos te abrirán las puertas. Se levantarán y te traerán un vaso de agua en mitad de la noche, te comprarán comida, cocinarán deliciosos platos y te harán sentir como en casa. Siempre cuidarán de ti y te pondrán en primer lugar, independientemente de la situación.

Los chicos buenos te darán su corazón y nunca te pedirán nada a cambio. Te tratarán como te mereces y te querrán como nadie más podría hacerlo.