5 fatti sorprendenti che ho imparato sui bravi ragazzi dopo aver inseguito quelli cattivi

Lo ammetto. Ho sempre avuto un debole per i cattivi. Forse perché riescono a farti sentire protetto come nessun altro.

Sanno semplicemente mostrare il loro lato maschile e mescolarlo con il loro lato tenero, in modo che sembri perfettamente equilibrato. Ma questo equilibrio mi è costato i nervi e ha creato ferite nel mio cuore.

I’ve decided that I’m done chasing bad guys because this time, I want something different. I want to feel appreciated, respected and loved.

I don’t want to fight for love anymore. I am tired of it.

After chasing the bad ones, I’ve forgotten how it feels to be with the nice ones. I’ve forgotten how it feels to be someone’s priority and not just another play doll.

It’s taken time for me to get used being around nice guys, and it was really hard in the beginning. I didn’t know how to feel or if this was the right decision.

Ma è emerso che i ragazzi gentili danno un altro significato all'amore e all'affetto.
Here are 5 surprising facts that I’ve learned about nice guys after chasing the bad ones.

1. Apprezzano il vostro tempo.

While bad guys don’t give a shit if you’re going to wait on them for a couple of hours to show up on a date night, nice guys are completely different. Nice guys will make sure that they arrive earlier because they appreciate your time and don’t want you to wait on them.

Nice guys will always find time to answer your calls, no matter what they’re doing at the moment. They may be at work or at a meeting, but they’ll never miss a chance to call you back after it finishes.

They don’t want you to worry about them or to think that something bad has happened to them.
They want to make sure you’re safe and sound because your well-being is their number one priority.

2. Vogliono compiacervi in ogni modo possibile.

Nice guys are not selfish when it comes to pleasing you in bed. They are more concerned with appeasing you than themselves. Nice guys will always make sure that you’ve finished first because their unselfish nature orders them to do so.

So, you don’t have to worry that they will only want to get the job done. They will invest their entire body and soul into what they’re doing at the moment, and they’ll make you feel like you’re the only girl in the world.

3. Non sono interessati a fare giochi mentali.

If there’s one thing nice guys really hate, it is giochi mentali. Hanno un'avversione per qualsiasi tipo di manipolazione e autorità imposta.

Nice guys want you to feel worthy and appreciated, no matter what you do or say. Even if you’re not right, they will not hold grudges against you just to make you feel bad about yourself for something you did or didn’t do.

Non sono interessati a farvi sentire di merda. Il loro secondo fine è la vostra felicità e la spensieratezza.
That is why it’s so easy to fall in love with them because you can never have any doubts regarding their loyalty.

4. They’re doers and not talkers.

Nice guys don’t say one thing and then don’t bother if you think it’s true or not. If they say something to you, they will make damn sure that they’ve proven it with their actions.

They know that actions speak louder than words, and they’ll do anything to prove this to you.
If a nice guy tells you that he loves you, he will follow it up by playing your favorite song on his guitar, or he’ll scream from the nearest skyscraper how much he loves you.

I bravi ragazzi si sforzeranno sempre di dimostrarvi anche l'impossibile. Ci proveranno finché non ci riusciranno, ed è questo che li rende perfetti.

5. They’ll always treat you like a lady.

I ragazzi gentili vi apriranno le porte. Si alzeranno per portarvi un bicchiere d'acqua nel cuore della notte, vi compreranno la spesa, cucineranno piatti deliziosi e vi faranno sentire come a casa. Si prenderanno sempre cura di voi e vi metteranno al primo posto, indipendentemente dalla situazione.

I ragazzi gentili vi daranno il loro cuore e non chiederanno mai nulla in cambio. Vi tratteranno come meritate e vi ameranno come nessun altro potrebbe fare.