Se alguma vez te apaixonares por uma rapariga ansiosa, lê isto

You have to know that anxiety consumes her. It takes every fiber of her being and it rules it. It can decide what she does and doesn’t have to do. It rules over her.

A ansiedade dela é um medo constante que a controla completamente. Tens de saber isto; caso contrário, deixa-a ir.

It’s not easy to love an anxious girl. You have to be ready to be there for her every second of the hour, every day.

É preciso saber ela tem dificuldade em confiar nas pessoas , even you. She could love you the most but her anxiety won’t let her show you.

Mesmo que diga e mostre que a ama, ela pode não o dizer de volta, mesmo que o faça. Ela tem medo e constrói muros enormes à sua volta, não deixando ninguém entrar.

Ela nunca baixa a guarda porque ela nunca sabe quando é que a ansiedade vai atacar.

She can’t sit and enjoy the sun because she never knows when the raging storm is going to come, bringing those dark, stormy clouds above her.

Tens de compreender que ela ama de forma diferente. Ela não é como toda a gente. Ao fim de algum tempo, ela vai começar a confiar em si e, quando isso acontecer, nunca mais o largará.

Ela vai amar-te como nunca ninguém te amou.

You have to know that…

Ela precisa de se sentir segura

You have to know that she will run away if she sees even the smallest sign that you’re making her do something she is uncomfortable doing.

It’s hard for her to love you in a way that you expect to be loved, as she doesn’t know how to do that.

She would also like it but her anxiety won’t let her. It dictates her life and her feelings. You have to know that she fights it but she can’t win every time.

Tem de saber que ela precisa de se sentir segura nos seus braços e que o vai amar, mas à sua maneira.

É preciso mais tempo para ela se apaixonar

Ela é demasiado cautelosa. Ela sopra no fogo mesmo que a chama já tenha sido extinta.

She doesn’t want to relive her anxiety attacking her because she opened up to someone, trusted him and he betrayed her.

She always has a safety net, something to rely on, just in case because she has been burned too many times. You have to know that she doesn’t fall in love very easily.

You will have to work twice as hard to get her to trust you and relax but once she does, you won’t regret even one minute spent trying to win her over.

Ela tem problemas de confiança

A sua ansiedade leva-a a abrir bem os olhos para procurar potenciais ameaças em todo o lado.

She constantly overthinks things because she is scared of what kinds of scenarios can happen and she knows she can’t affect any of them.

She doesn’t trust anyone because she has been betrayed too many times and each time, her anxiety came knocking on her door, taking her into situations and states which she could not control.

Ela tem medo que isto volte a acontecer.

Ela ama com todo o seu coração

You should know that when she loves, she goes all in. When she finally opens up to you and lets you into her heart, you’re going to be there forever.

But it won’t be easy. Her mood will constantly change and she will need someone to be by her side and help her get through it.

She’ll need someone who’ll help her fight that anxiety away from her.

Basta ser paciente e compreensivo e ela retribuir-lhe-á com o seu amor incondicional.

Ela tem medo de confrontos

She can’t always fight. Her anxiety often doesn’t allow her to because she knows that she’ll lose each argument she gets involved in.

She can’t stand someone yelling at her. Every harsh word buries her deeper in the ground, every nasty look makes her want to cry.

Cada confronto evoca um episódio horrível de ansiedade. É preciso ter paciência, porque essa é a chave do seu coração.

Se a amas, sabe que ela é uma pessoa bonita por dentro que tem medo de sair.

Ela tem medo deste mundo cruel e frio, tem medo de ser julgada, tem medo que as pessoas a olhem de forma diferente.

Continue a ser a sua luz ao fundo do túnel, porque está a fazer um excelente trabalho. Encontre a força para continuar a ajudá-la a vencer a luta da sua vida.

And in the end, she’ll see that you never wanted to hurt her and she’ll turn into a happy and smiling girl, the girl she is deep inside.

Whenever she’s around you, she’ll kick her anxiety to the ground because you will give her the strength to do so.