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You have to know that anxiety consumes her. It takes every fiber of her being and it rules it. It can decide what she does and doesn’t have to do. It rules over her.

La sua ansia è una paura costante che ha il completo controllo su di lei. Dovete saperlo, altrimenti lasciatela andare.

It’s not easy to love an anxious girl. You have to be ready to be there for her every second of the hour, every day.

Devi sapere ha difficoltà a fidarsi delle persone , even you. She could love you the most but her anxiety won’t let her show you.

Anche se le dite e dimostrate di amarla, lei potrebbe non ricambiare, anche se lo fa. Ha paura e costruisce enormi muri intorno a sé, non permettendo a nessuno di entrare.

Non ha mai abbassa la guardia perché non sa mai quando l'ansia si scatenerà.

She can’t sit and enjoy the sun because she never knows when the raging storm is going to come, bringing those dark, stormy clouds above her.

Dovete capire che lei ama in modo diverso. Non è come tutti gli altri. Dopo un po' di tempo imparerà a fidarsi di voi e quando questo accadrà, non vi lascerà più.

Vi amerà come nessuno ha mai fatto.

You have to know that…

Ha bisogno di sentirsi al sicuro

You have to know that she will run away if she sees even the smallest sign that you’re making her do something she is uncomfortable doing.

It’s hard for her to love you in a way that you expect to be loved, as she doesn’t know how to do that.

She would also like it but her anxiety won’t let her. It dictates her life and her feelings. You have to know that she fights it but she can’t win every time.

Dovete sapere che ha bisogno di sentirsi al sicuro tra le vostre braccia e che vi amerà, ma a modo suo.

Ci vuole più tempo perché lei si innamori

È troppo prudente. Soffia sul fuoco anche se la fiamma è già stata spenta.

She doesn’t want to relive her anxiety attacking her because she opened up to someone, trusted him and he betrayed her.

She always has a safety net, something to rely on, just in case because she has been burned too many times. You have to know that she doesn’t fall in love very easily.

You will have to work twice as hard to get her to trust you and relax but once she does, you won’t regret even one minute spent trying to win her over.

Ha problemi di fiducia

La sua ansia le fa spalancare gli occhi per cercare potenziali minacce ovunque.

She constantly overthinks things because she is scared of what kinds of scenarios can happen and she knows she can’t affect any of them.

She doesn’t trust anyone because she has been betrayed too many times and each time, her anxiety came knocking on her door, taking her into situations and states which she could not control.

Ha paura che questo accada di nuovo.

Ama con tutto il cuore

You should know that when she loves, she goes all in. When she finally opens up to you and lets you into her heart, you’re going to be there forever.

But it won’t be easy. Her mood will constantly change and she will need someone to be by her side and help her get through it.

She’ll need someone who’ll help her fight that anxiety away from her.

Dovete solo essere pazienti e comprensivi e lei vi ripagherà con il suo amore incondizionato.

Ha paura del confronto

She can’t always fight. Her anxiety often doesn’t allow her to because she knows that she’ll lose each argument she gets involved in.

She can’t stand someone yelling at her. Every harsh word buries her deeper in the ground, every nasty look makes her want to cry.

Ogni confronto evoca un terribile episodio di ansia. Dovete avere pazienza perché questa è la chiave del suo cuore.

Se la amate, sappiate che dentro di lei c'è una persona bellissima che ha paura di uscire.

Ha paura di questo mondo crudele e freddo, ha paura di essere giudicata, ha paura che la gente la guardi in modo diverso.

Continuate a essere la sua luce alla fine del tunnel, perché state facendo un ottimo lavoro. Trovate la forza di continuare ad aiutarla a vincere la battaglia della sua vita.

And in the end, she’ll see that you never wanted to hurt her and she’ll turn into a happy and smiling girl, the girl she is deep inside.

Whenever she’s around you, she’ll kick her anxiety to the ground because you will give her the strength to do so.