Pára de partir o teu próprio coração - Ele não vai mudar

Sei que te convenceste de que as coisas vão acabar por se resolver de outra maneira.

I know you believe it from the bottom of your heart, that you actually want things to change. But unfortunately, we don’t always get the things we want in life.

Eu sei que o teu amor te prendeu a este homem. Sei que o amor que sentes, por vezes, te dá asas, mas, na maioria das vezes, acorrenta-te.

Sei que todo o teu corpo fica paralisado quando pensas em deixá-lo.

O vórtice da toxicidade arrastou-o demasiado para o fundo e sair dele é como uma missão impossível para si agora.

I also know you go through hell on a daily basis and that you handle it all with a smile. The love you feel isn’t healthy.

The love you’re feeling is breaking you because he’s playing the love card just so he’ll be able to use you.

But it’s not love when all you get are crumbs of affections, words without actions and tears rolling down your face each night.

God, how can you not see that love is so much more and you’re worth so much more?

I hate to break it to you but you won’t be able to live like this for long now.

You don’t notice it because you are refusing to open your eyes but even if you don’t want to see it, the fact that your soul is getting drained more and more each day stays.

And the worst part is you have nothing to refill it with because the one person who should do that is the one who’s killing you. And you call it love.

Believe me when I tell you that being alone is always a better decision than being with someone who’s sucking the life out of you.

He’s taking everything and he’s not giving anything in return. That’s como ele é egoísta. E pensa em quanto tempo o deixaste escapar.

How long will you be the only one dragging your relationship forward and sacrificing everything for someone who isn’t worth it?

You’re holding on by a thread. All your hopes are stuck on this picture you have of your future and how things could be but unfortunately it’s only you who sees that.

And it’s just an illusion. It’s a mirage only you see and trust me when I say that it won’t take long before it disappears, before he does something to shatter it into millions of pieces.

After all this time, why won’t you open your eyes?  Why can’t you realize what is happening in your life?

Porque deixaste que o teu coração te enganasse durante tanto tempo?

Porque é que precisas que alguém te diga as coisas que tu próprio já sabes mas que te recusas a aceitar?  He isn’t worth it and he will never be.

Algumas pessoas são tão egoístas, tão egocêntricas e tão cruéis que nenhuma quantidade de amor seria capaz de as mudar, e mil oportunidades diferentes ou a pessoa mais bondosa deste mundo não as faria querer mudar.

Darling, you’re just breaking your own heart. Stop pretending your illusions are real.

Pára de ver as coisas muito melhores do que são. Pára de desperdiçar a tua vida. Mereces muito mais. Mereces viva a sua vida ao máximo.

Mereces receber pelo menos tanto amor como dás.

You deserve to be treated with respect and you deserve a man who’ll take you seriously, who’ll plan his future with you and who’ll make promises he actually intends to keep.

And what you don’t deserve is a manipulative asshole who’s just going to take advantage of your feelings and use you.

I know you can’t picture your life without him but I swear you will hate yourself when you realize what kind of man you chose to be your life companion or if you stick by this man who did nothing but take everything you had to offer and gave nothing in return.

No matter how much love you give him, no matter how many chances he receives, no matter how much time passes or what you do for him, he isn’t going to see your worth.

He isn’t going to appreciate you. He isn’t going to respect you or bother to give you what you deserve.

And I know it breaks your heart but you need to make this stick in your head and it’s better to do it sooner than later.

The sooner you accept the truth, the more time you’ll have to react. The more time you’ll have to heal your broken heart.

The less time you’re going to be investing in someone who isn’t worth a second of your time.

Stop breaking your own heart by giving all of yourself to someone who doesn’t deserve you.

Stop hoping that a man who did nothing but hurt you will be able to make you happy in the future. He isn’t the man you’re looking for.

Levante a cabeça, limpe as lágrimas do rosto e agradeça a Deus pela lição que teve.

Agora sabes o que não deves procurar num homem. E podes fazer todas as coisas que estavas a fazer pelo homem errado, pelo homem bom.

Trust me, there is someone who’ll kiss the ground you’re walking on. Stop settling for less than you deserve.