Deja de romperte el corazón - Él no va a cambiar

Sé que te has convencido de que las cosas saldrán de otra manera.

I know you believe it from the bottom of your heart, that you actually want things to change. But unfortunately, we don’t always get the things we want in life.

Sé que tu amor te ató a este hombre. Sé que el amor que sientes a veces te da alas, pero la mayoría de las veces te encadena.

Sé que todo tu cuerpo se paraliza cuando piensas en dejarlo.

El vórtice de toxicidad te ha arrastrado demasiado profundo y salir de él es ahora como una misión imposible para ti.

I also know you go through hell on a daily basis and that you handle it all with a smile. The love you feel isn’t healthy.

The love you’re feeling is breaking you because he’s playing the love card just so he’ll be able to use you.

But it’s not love when all you get are crumbs of affections, words without actions and tears rolling down your face each night.

God, how can you not see that love is so much more and you’re worth so much more?

I hate to break it to you but you won’t be able to live like this for long now.

You don’t notice it because you are refusing to open your eyes but even if you don’t want to see it, the fact that your soul is getting drained more and more each day stays.

And the worst part is you have nothing to refill it with because the one person who should do that is the one who’s killing you. And you call it love.

Believe me when I tell you that being alone is always a better decision than being with someone who’s sucking the life out of you.

He’s taking everything and he’s not giving anything in return. That’s qué egoísta es. Y piensa en cuánto tiempo has estado dejando que se salga con la suya.

How long will you be the only one dragging your relationship forward and sacrificing everything for someone who isn’t worth it?

You’re holding on by a thread. All your hopes are stuck on this picture you have of your future and how things could be but unfortunately it’s only you who sees that.

And it’s just an illusion. It’s a mirage only you see and trust me when I say that it won’t take long before it disappears, before he does something to shatter it into millions of pieces.

After all this time, why won’t you open your eyes?  Why can’t you realize what is happening in your life?

¿Por qué dejaste que tu corazón te engañara durante tanto tiempo?

¿Por qué necesitas que otra persona te diga las cosas que tú mismo ya sabes pero te niegas a aceptar?  He isn’t worth it and he will never be.

Algunas personas son tan egoístas, tan egocéntricas y tan crueles que ningún tipo de amor sería capaz de cambiarlas, y ni mil oportunidades diferentes ni la persona más amable de este mundo conseguirían que quisieran cambiar.

Darling, you’re just breaking your own heart. Stop pretending your illusions are real.

Deja de ver las cosas mucho mejor de lo que son. Deja de malgastar tu vida. Te mereces mucho más. Te mereces vive tu vida al máximo.

Mereces recibir al menos tanto amor como das.

You deserve to be treated with respect and you deserve a man who’ll take you seriously, who’ll plan his future with you and who’ll make promises he actually intends to keep.

And what you don’t deserve is a manipulative asshole who’s just going to take advantage of your feelings and use you.

I know you can’t picture your life without him but I swear you will hate yourself when you realize what kind of man you chose to be your life companion or if you stick by this man who did nothing but take everything you had to offer and gave nothing in return.

No matter how much love you give him, no matter how many chances he receives, no matter how much time passes or what you do for him, he isn’t going to see your worth.

He isn’t going to appreciate you. He isn’t going to respect you or bother to give you what you deserve.

And I know it breaks your heart but you need to make this stick in your head and it’s better to do it sooner than later.

The sooner you accept the truth, the more time you’ll have to react. The more time you’ll have to heal your broken heart.

The less time you’re going to be investing in someone who isn’t worth a second of your time.

Stop breaking your own heart by giving all of yourself to someone who doesn’t deserve you.

Stop hoping that a man who did nothing but hurt you will be able to make you happy in the future. He isn’t the man you’re looking for.

Mantén la cabeza alta, enjuga las lágrimas de tus mejillas y da gracias a Dios por la lección que has recibido.

Ahora sabes lo que no debes buscar en un hombre. Y puedes hacer todas las cosas que hacías por el tipo equivocado, por el bueno.

Trust me, there is someone who’ll kiss the ground you’re walking on. Stop settling for less than you deserve.