Estou apaixonado? 11 sinais claros que provam que estás mesmo!
Está finalmente numa nova relação e o rapaz com quem está é tão sonhador que se sente como uma criança numa loja de doces.
Tudo o que se quer é passar todos os momentos com ele e só de pensar no seu sorriso já se fica tonto!
Every time your phone beeps, you crave seeing his name lighting up your screen and every time you’re with him, the world ceases to exist.
Tudo o que ele faz é tão encantador e, na nossa mente, ele não pode literalmente fazer nada de errado.
You can’t get enough of him and you idealize what you have in your head to the point where you’re not even sure how someone so perfect can actually exist!
What you two have is all kinds of wonderful but I’m sorry to break it to you—that’s not love.
O amor é um pouco mais complexo e um pouco mais confuso do que isso.
When you’re no amor , you see all of your partner’s shortcomings, yet you still amá-lo , com defeitos e tudo.
When it’s real love, you don’t necessarily think he is the most faultless human being on earth, yet you still wish to spend your life with nobody else.
Love is that feeling you have when you’re with that person and it just feels like home. It’s no longer a place but rather a feeling.
Wherever you are with him, it’s home and there’s nowhere else you’d rather be.
Love is a slow-burning, steady, flawed and overwhelming sensation and it’s what holds you firmly on the ground.
O amor não é romantizar cegamente esta pessoa e optar por fechar os olhos aos seus defeitos. Amar não é querer estar com ele 24 horas por dia, 7 dias por semana e esquecer os outros que lhe são próximos.
O amor é compromisso. O amor são promessas. O amor é transparência e o amor é perdão.
When he messes up, you can swallow your ego, accept that he’s only human and push through it.
When you do something you’re not proud of, he does the same for you. You accept each other for exactly quem és e de forma alguma tentar mudar um ao outro.
Love does not mean running away when things start getting heavy. Love does not mean quitting on your partner because you can’t handle real life.
O amor está a juntar-se a esta pessoa e a prometer estar presente quando um de vós vacila.
And when you say ‘forever’, you mean it. It’s not just an excuse to have some temporary fling that feels pleasant and enjoyable, then disappearing when feelings get in the way.
Love is a promise of always being by this person’s side, no matter how hard the shit hits the fan.
Amar é cuidar das suas necessidades quando está doente na cama, incapaz de lhe oferecer outra coisa senão o seu amor.
Love takes over you unexpectedly and suddenly you realize there’s this other person whose needs you prioritize almost above your own.
It’s that feeling that if something was to happen to this person, you literally couldn’t breathe.
There are so many changes you feel within yourself when you’re in love and it’s almost impossible to explain them until you’ve experienced it yourself.
If you’re unsure whether you feel amor verdadeiro for your partner or if it’s just a temporary infatuation, here are some clear signs that indicate that you are truly in love.
Estou apaixonado? 11 sinais claros que provam que está mesmo!
Conseguimos ver todas as suas imperfeições e continuamos a gostar muito deles
In movies, love is often portrayed as two people who appear absolutely perfect for each other, who see one another as flawless human beings and are completely smitten and blinded by that feeling for them that they can’t see them for who they really are.
Na vida real, o amor é imperfeito, o amor é perfeito e o amor é complexo.
O amor é ver o seu parceiro como um ser humano normal que tem hábitos irritantes, que o podem irritar e que cometerá erros.
Love is not going to be a picnic every single day. It’s going to take hard work to preserve it and not every day is going to seem movie-like.
There will be days where you won’t be able to stand to look at this person but at the same time, loving him will never be in question.
You’ll both mess up at times but the commitment you share will never be compromised.
Amar é estar presente em todos os momentos marcantes e felizes, mas também em todas as quedas e erros.
Through good times and bad ones—you’re always there.
Quer celebrar os seus êxitos e apoiá-los nas suas dificuldades
People who are in love are always beyond happy to celebrate their partner’s accomplishments.
E não porque estão orgulhosos de si próprios por terem apanhado alguém inteligente e capaz, mas porque sentem uma alegria genuína pelo seu sucesso.
Ao passar tempo com a sua pessoa e partilhamos todos os seus bons e maus momentos, ficamos tão ligados a eles que o que eles sentem, acabamos por sentir.
Se eles estão entusiasmados e felizes por o seu trabalho árduo ter finalmente dado frutos, você fica igualmente feliz, literalmente como se isso estivesse a acontecer consigo.
E se eles ficarem desiludidos e destroçados quando as coisas pioram, partilhamos a sua tristeza.
De repente, a felicidade deles torna-se a sua felicidade e a tristeza deles torna-se a sua.
Outra coisa importante é quando se permite ser apoiado quando VOCÊ está a passar por algo difícil.
You aren’t scared of letting them see you break into pieces but rather seek their comfort, knowing they’ve got your back.
That’s what love is. Being there come hell or high water and feeling secure enough to let them see your vulnerable side.
When you no longer have to wonder if they’ll still love you when you’re broken, you know you’re with the right person.
Sente-se completamente incluído na sua vida e vice-versa
Check this scenario. You’re in a seemingly compatible relationship, you feel like there’s genuine love but you both keep parts of your life to yourself (or just one of you does).
You still haven’t met the important people in his life and you don’t feel like he wants you to.
There are certain things you don’t talk about because you know they’re off limits.
You feel connected but not one hundred percent, because there is still a part of him you feel he’s keeping from you.
If this rings a bell, it’s not really love, it’s an emotionally unavailable type of relationship.
But when you feel like your partner is making an effort to introduce you to all the key people in his life and you don’t have to pressure him to do so, that’s real love.
When you both want the other one to meet your family and friends, that means you are completely willing to include them in your life, as it doesn’t get any more serious than meeting the parents and then the rest of the gang.
Quer que o seu parceiro saiba e veja de onde vem, como foi criado e conheça as pessoas que o transformaram na pessoa que é hoje.
Quer que ele a conheça exatamente como é, sem esconder nenhuma parte de si. Isso é amor duradouro.
O problema é que tem de ser igual para ambas as partes.
Both partners have to be interested in the other one’s life, otherwise it’s one-sided and it’s not genuine.
When you’re just as excited to meet his people as you are to introduce him to your own, your love is real.
Não tem qualquer problema em discordar deles
When you are extremely likely to agree on whatever they have to say, just for the sake of staying together, that’s a clear sign of infatuation.
When they say something you completely disagree with but fear that it might be a deal-breaker, you’ll just go along with it, because that way you secretly hope it means you must be in love.
Quando, na verdade, o amor é exatamente o oposto. Amar significa ser capaz de discordar deles sem recear que isso o leve ao limite.
Significa ter confiança em si próprio e naquilo que tem, de tal forma que não se importa de expor o seu ponto de vista, mesmo sabendo que é totalmente contrário ao deles.
This goes for both the little things, like what music you’ll listen to on your four-hour road trip or which coffee to get, to those big ones, such as which part of the city to find a place in and how you’d raise your future kids.
When you’re both able to openly and freely state your opinions on any matter and then try to work out the best possible solution and compromise that would work for both of you, there’s a real chance you two are truly in love.
Sentir-se seguro e confiante em si próprio e no compromisso que partilham são aspectos fundamentais em qualquer relação verdadeira e sólida.
You don’t depend on your partner to make you happy on the inside
Before you are able to love another human being, you must first know how to love yourself. I know, this sounds like such a cliché but it’s true.
If you expect your partner, and therefore the relationship you share, to fill that gaping hole you feel within yourself, you’re going to end up disappointed.
Antes de se envolver numa relação romântica, deve primeiro saber como ser feliz.
É necessário assumir a responsabilidade pela sua própria felicidadePorque tu és o único que sabe como ser feliz por dentro.
You partner should definitely be someone who inspires the best in you but he shouldn’t be in your life solely because you need him to make you happy—that is in your hands.
When you are at peace with yourself and you know how to make yourself happy without needing your partner, you’re doing it right.
Being able to be vulnerable in front of your partner but still not expect him to pick up the broken pieces is a good sign you’re in a healthy relationship.
Quando se partilham os bons e os maus momentos, mas se continua a ser capaz de ser um indivíduo, encontrou-se o verdadeiro amor.
Queres mesmo que os teus entes queridos gostem tanto dele como tu
Naturally, the most important thing is that you are perfectly happy and satisfied with the person you’ve chosen to spend your time and life with.
Nobody can tell you who is good for you and who isn’t, as you are the one in the relationship, not them.
And when you are finally in a good place and you feel like the person you’re with is the one for you, it comes naturally to want your family and friends to approve of him as well.
All it means is that your feelings are all-encompassing and this person has managed to fully capture your heart and there’s only one thing left to do before you truly know that this is it…
Reunir-se com o seu pessoal para obter o selo final de aprovação. Isto é importante porque representa o compromisso, o amor e o apreço que sente por essa pessoa.
Quando se consegue juntar os dois mundos num só, com todos na mesma página, não há nada mais agradável para uma pessoa apaixonada!
You are attached to your partner and it’s only fair that your nearest and dearest should get a chance to see the person who makes you feel like you’re on cloud nine.
E quando finalmente se encontram e as coisas correm como planeado, sentimos um enorme alívio.
Quando as pessoas que o conhecem melhor aprovam a pessoa com quem deseja passar a sua vida, não há mais nada a questionar.
You feel like this one’s unlike any other guy you’ve ever dated
You’ve been with a decent number of guys.
A few of those were real relationships and some of them you even felt love for. But now, with this one, it’s a whole other dimension of love.
If you thought you were in love before, now, you’re as certain as it gets. You just know that he’s special.
Being with him is completely different to any of your previous relationships and you feel like you’re thriving since you met him.
Now, you can’t imagine being with anyone else! The thought of another person holding you in his arms and wishing you goodnight is beyond impossible.
The thought of spending a whole day in bed with someone else, cuddling, watching TV, talking about the universe… repulses you. There’s only him.
With him, you don’t care about perfection. You don’t care about the material stuff. And you don’t care about what anyone will think.
Tudo o que queres é passar a tua eternidade com essa pessoa, amando-a e ficando ao seu lado, durante todos os dias difíceis.
There’s no one else in this world for you. Not anymore.
The most random things remind you of him and you can’t wait to tell him
You’ll be walking down the street, on your way to work, minding your own business, when suddenly, you’ll see a sign on a building that will instantly make you laugh, because it’s part of a private joke you two share and you’ll immediately have to text him.
A song will come on the radio as you’re driving to your mom’s and it’ll be a song that was playing when you saw him for the first time and feelings of happiness and joy will wash over your entire body.
It’s those little things that some wouldn’t even pay attention to but to you, they mean the world, because they are all part of a big puzzle that has shaped your relationship into what it is today!
Lembramo-nos dele todos os dias e adoramos que ele nos venha à cabeça de um momento para o outro. A sensação não tem preço.
Sometimes, when we truly love a person, it doesn’t take a lot to be reminded of them.
They are already firmly engraved in our mind and it’s only a matter of time when you’ll be reminded of them by some, cute, random, little thing that only you two understand the meaning of.
Tem uma ligeira ansiedade de separação
Sometimes, when you’re in love, it’s not uncommon to show signs of emotional dependency, jealousy and fear of being separated from that person.
It’s nothing overly alarming, as long as you don’t let it completely rule your world.
People who are extremely attached to their partner tend to get a little uneasy knowing they’ll be separated for a certain amount of time (no matter how long or short) and it can turn into feelings of anxiety and uneasiness.
It’s important that you can control this.
Allow yourself to feel what you’re feeling but deep down, you know that it’s all good and that it’s only in your head. You are powerfully connected and naturally, you don’t like being separated from them.
When you’re without this person, it may feel like you’re not whole and the fear of them leaving you will foolishly make you go a little stir crazy but as long as you know that it’s not as serious as you make it out to be, you’re good.
Love can do crazy things to a person. Sometimes, all you need to do is reel it in and you’ll be totally fine.
Ninguém pode prejudicar a vossa relação e o vosso parceiro regressa a casa são e salvo.
Uma pequena dose de ciúme e de dependência é um sinal de que se preocupa e de que a sua relação é verdadeira.
Sente-se (positivamente) mudada desde que está com ele
Desde que começou a namorar com ele, tem sentido um enorme crescimento de si própria.
Sente-se uma pessoa diferente, uma pessoa melhor, e as suas prioridades são tão claras.
Continua a reparar nas pequenas coisas diferentes em si, ou talvez até as pessoas que lhe são próximas também tenham notado mudanças positivas!
Things that would normally bother you are completely irrelevant now; you no longer let yourself get wound up about things that you can’t change and you no longer feel like chasing some elusive sense of accomplishment.
You feel complete. You feel like you’re finally yourself and things are perfectly aligned, for the first time in your life.
A pessoa que era antes de conhecer o seu parceiro e a pessoa que é agora são pessoas completamente diferentes.
This is not to say that your partner is the one in charge of who you are but rather that he has positively influenced your thoughts and actions in a way that doesn’t disrupt your life but makes it easy for you to live in it.
Agora que tens este amor incrível na tua vida, tudo é tão claro.
Tem a sua saúde, a sua família, os seus amigos e o seu homem e tudo o que não seja isso não é relevante para o seu sentido de autoestima.
For as long as those close to you are happy and healthy, you feel happy too. By knowing your partner, you finally know the meaning of true, inner happiness and you’ve never felt more alive.
Começou a planear o seu futuro em torno dele
Previously, whenever you found yourself daydreaming about what your future looked like, the face of the person you were with was always questionable, as you were never really sure if he was the one you’d be sharing your mornings with.
But now, you don’t see a future without him. Whenever you look ahead, whatever you see, both good and bad, he’s there.
Whatever your dreams are, he is a part of them and even if you tried, you couldn’t picture it any other way.
Queres que um dia ele seja o pai dos teus filhos. Queres comprar uma casinha nos subúrbios com ele e fazer amizade com os teus novos vizinhos.
Queres começar uma família, assentar e fazer todas as coisas de adulto sem ninguém a não ser ele.
Even if you’re nowhere near making your dreams a reality. Even if things are tough right now, he’s still the one you want to find your future with.
With anyone else, it just wouldn’t be worth it. This person is the one you see yourself growing old with and making stupid jokes with.
This is the person you’re not afraid to get in some trouble with, because he is the only one who makes it all worthwhile.
Ele é o teu futuro. E aconteça o que acontecer, não queres mais ninguém com quem o passar.
