7 maneiras eficazes de esvaziar intencionalmente o ego de um homem
Ladies, let’s be honest. We were all once in love with an egocentric. You know, that kind of guy who likes to talk only about himself. Aquele que pensa que tudo gira à sua volta.
O tipo de homem que gosta de se gabar de si próprio. Um homem que vê as mulheres apenas como troféus, algo de que se pode gabar à frente dos amigos.
Eu sei que o ego é importante para um homem, mas este tipo de o gajo é muito convencido. However, the thing most women don’t know is that we actually have so much power over their ego.
Podemos afetar muito essa situação e aqui estão algumas formas comprovadas de o fazer. It’s up to you to decide whether you’re going to use it or avoid it.
Envergonhá-lo perante os seus amigos
Esta é provavelmente a pior coisa que se pode fazer a um homem. He wants his friends to respect him and if you embarrass him in front of them, that’ll hurt his ego for sure.
I guarantee your man will be so angry that he won’t speak to you again for days, if at all.
His friends will tease him as it’ll seem like he is inferior in your relationship. This is a great way to hurt a guy who doesn’t respect you ou tratar-vos bem.
Compare-o com o seu ex
If you’re in a relationship with a man you love and that love is reciprocated, then you should really be careful and pay attention to the things that may hurt his ego (because we all know that a man’s ego means everything to him).
Esta é uma dessas coisas. Trust me, you shouldn’t even mention your ex, let alone compare your present partner with him.
If you make a comparison even unintentionally while fighting, your man won’t be able to forget it. Even after you make up, that thought of you comparing him with your ex and you still thinking about him will haunt him.
Namoriscar com outros homens à frente dele
Se ele te vê namoriscar com outro guy, his ego will definitely suffer because he can’t stand the fact that you can like someone else or flirt with them.
It’ll be very hurtful to him but he’ll also be frustrated by it. If his friends see it, it’ll be even worse because they will tease him about it all the time.
Sair com alguém que ele odeia
Men always think that they can talk and hang out with whomever they want but when it comes to their women, they should hang out only with people they’re good with.
If he sees you out with someone he hates, it’ll hurt his ego for sure because he’ll think that he and his choices aren’t important to you.
Corrigi-lo à frente dos outros
Se tiver necessidade de corrigir o seu parceiro por algo que ele fez ou disse, deve esperar por um momento em que estejam os dois sozinhos e aproveitá-lo para lhe dizer isso.
You shouldn’t say it to him in front of others because he’ll feel humiliated.
Mas todos nós cometemos erros, certo? Corrigir o seu homem à frente de outras pessoas prejudicaria a vossa relação e diminuiria o ego dele.
Lembrar-lhe que ganha mais do que ele (se for o caso)
O dinheiro pode causar alguns problemas sérios numa relação. If you insult his job or rub his nose in the fact that you earn more money, it’ll hurt his ego so much that your man will feel like he is not man enough.
Who’s more successful or who has a bigger salary shouldn’t be important for a healthy relationship.
Tell him he isn’t good in bed
This is the fastest way you can bruise a man’s ego. Ser bom na cama é algo sagrado para todos os homens.
Se tiver alguma objeção quanto a essa parte da vossa relação, deve encontrar a melhor forma de o dizer ao seu parceiro e, depois, devem encontrar uma solução em conjunto. Qualquer outra coisa feriria o seu ego.
If he deserves to be punished for not treating you well, this is going to hurt him. If you’re curious about the things you should avoid in order not to hurt his ego, this is one of them.
As we already said, it’s up to you how you’re going to use these tips, whether you want to deflate your man’s ego or not.
